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Military Love


Question Posted Thursday August 12 2004, 10:01 pm

okay so im a 15 year old female
and i have this huge crush on
one of my brothers friends
his name is wesley..but hes 21
and in the marines..hes leaveing
for iraq in 8days..but i like him
allot and dont no how to tell him
or how him being in iraq and me
being 15 and in pennsylivania er
w/e my state is spelled would work
but i saw him at the mall tonight
and he was at my house tuesday and
at my brothes game..and when i saw
him tonight we stared at each other
for a longgg time..and we talked at
the game last night..and for like
an hour when he was here tuesday
so i really am starting to become
attached to the kid but im not sure
what to do ya know? well i hope some
one can help me

<3courtney


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Ryan answered Friday August 13 2004, 7:06 pm:
Im a Marine myself....it's hard leaving home and everyone you love. What you need to do is tell him how you feel and im sure he feels the same but the age difference is a little big...I know that marines are strictly told not to date anyone under the age of 18 because of what has happend in the past but you need to do what your heart tells you to do

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liddylflirtx3 answered Friday August 13 2004, 1:30 pm:
Before he leaves for Iraq, I think you should give him a note saying how much you like him. The age differences might be a problem, but if he looks into your eyes like that, he must like you. If you think it's too cheesy to write a note to him - just tell him how you feel. Say that you feel like you're very attatched to him and you'll miss him alot. Or, once he's in Iraq - send him letters and stuff to let him know that you're thinking of him. (Send him a pic. of yourself)! Good luck =)

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Lena answered Friday August 13 2004, 2:22 am:
tell him how you feel, but its probably not gunna work out because its illegal for a 15 yr old to go out wit a 21 yr old

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dancer4life answered Friday August 13 2004, 1:48 am:
It will work. Let him know how you feel. If you both have strong enough feelings for each other it can work. My boyfrined is in the Army right now. It's hard but you can get through it! Hope I helped!

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oxteresaxo14 answered Thursday August 12 2004, 10:14 pm:
hey sweetie sorry but this guy is way to old for you...its illigel and i think since he is going away it will only be better for you. Sorry to say he cant see you like you see him its just to weired and plus thats your brothers friend..trust me because i know how that goes (the guy rule) you dont go out with your best buds sister so id try to get over him and i wouldnt really tell him how you feel things could get ugly with your brother involved too but dont worry goood luck xox need me liotta14 !!

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spyderman answered Thursday August 12 2004, 10:12 pm:
Hey listen. what youre feelin is a crush plain and simple. Wesley is 21 and leavin!! I mean hes not that much older than u but thats not the point. The point is he's leavin for a while. Are u willing to tell him how u feel and taken a chance with him even though he might be gone months at a time?? I mean think about it. Just when he comes home to vist and flirt with him from time to time and if all those feelings are still there six to 12 months from now then go for it.

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Untouched1 answered Thursday August 12 2004, 10:07 pm:
i mean your age is a huge factor in the situation and everything but feeling somethign for someone isnt...i think that you need ot be straight with him yeah you have feelings for him and everything but i mean hes leaving and all, and who knows you guys could still stay really close while he is over there and everything i mean i would just tell him upfront how you feel about him i hope all goes well and everything turns out okay
-Cass-

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SweetStarx89 answered Thursday August 12 2004, 10:07 pm:
Hi. tell him...theres nothing more you can do but that since he's leaving soon and then you guys can spend the last few days together yah kno...the sooner the better so you have more time. i'm sure he likes you too but thinks you think that he's too old. just tell him...you have nothing to loose...and if he does end up tuning you down..he's leaving soon...so just talk to him =) Take Care..Hope I helpe! x3 SweetStar.

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