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ok this is gonna sound sort of weird but lately i feel like i cant control anything really i cant control my heart or the way i look or the way i feel or any of that but i can control how much i eat im 5'6 going into 8 grade and i weigh 102 pounds and i just want to weigh 98 idk why but 2 me thats how i feel i should look so i just stopped eating basicially i mean its 2 and i havent had anything to eat today ill probally eat a little bit but not alot and i always feel like im getting fatter and stuff i just dont want to look like me anymore... i hate the way i look but idk why i feel like this i have the best boyfriend i could ever ask for great friends great family i guess i just feel like i have to be perfect for everyone and i think thats how everyone wants me to look so thats what im going to do i guess should i weigh less than 98? how much weight should i loose?
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ok this is a big problem you have to start eating again and if your going into 8th grade there is no way you should be striving to weigh less then 90pds alot of people are ove 98pds if you can't start eating for some reason then I suggest going to see a doctor
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I dont know if you reazile this but you have an eating diorder . 90 POUNDS hun you need to gain like 20 pounds ... you really need help!
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You are at a very low weight already. The question I have for you is, how do you want to look? You say you want to be perfect for everybody but you don't say what you want to do for yourself. You are going into 8th grade so that should make you about 13? You should be going through a lot of changes as you are going into your teenage years. Listen, you are PERFECT. You don't need to lose anything, only your depression and that should lift a lot of unwanted weight off your shoulders.
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The minimum healthy weight for a person of your height is about 115. You should probably go talk to a doctor or counselor about this.
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if u want to weigh 98 lbs thats disgusting that is way too skinny for ur height if ur 5'6 102 is bad enough.......wow u will look anorexic if u lose any more weight u prolli alreadi do look anorexic....sorry to be so mean but its the truth
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you are like freaking anorexic... no offence or anything but if you want to weigh freakin 98 pounds you're insane... absolutly insane. i weigh 125 and i'm 5'3" and i'm a size 3 in pants which is really good. you need to get help. you're hurting yourself being that thin! you should weigh about the same as i do! that is insane that you weigh 102!
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I know you probably don't want to hear this, but you have the symptoms of anorexia. You have to start eating more regularly, before you lose complete control. 102 at 5'6 is really a good weight and height. I have the exact opposite problem lol.(short/skinny:() Don't try to lose any more weight, or you'll be digging ur own grave.
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Hi..I know what you are going through..Never want to be anybody but yourself..And if your unhappy with your weight you could do something about that..Say you wanna loose a couple of pounds..Eat healthier foods..NEVER stop eating though..Then you will just become sick..I bet you are a beautiful person...And your boyfriend will be there to support you always...And 102 is not alot of weight ..But if you insecure loose a couple but dont stop eating...
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You really shouldnt lose any weight.. For your height of 5"6 your weight is perfectly fine.. There is no designated weight for a person, its just how healthy you are and if you diet and excercise.. Your only going into the 8th grade, your still growing and if you dont eat you wont get the amount of nutrients or vitamins that you need for your body to fully "develop". These feelings are feelings that basically all teenage girls go through.. The feeling that they have no control on whats going on in their life.. It happens to the best of us, The only thing you can do is follow your heart, even if you cant control it; Anorexia Nervosa is a very serious eating disorder that ruins your matobolism, and if you dont eat; You matolbolism will slow down, And when you want to start eating again, you will gain weight faster.. Eat 3 balanced meals a day and excercise thast the diet you should be on.. You dont need to worry about your weight considering how tall you are and your still growing.. If you need help with your eating habbits, i suggest you see a doctor who can refer you to a specialist.. EVERY teenage girl has insecurties about what she looks like, your not alone.. I hope everything works out, and i hope i helped you.. Good Luck <3 Paris Marie
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omg .. sweetheart when i was in 8th grade i weighed like .. 135 .. you're fine . you could even gain weight in sure you look fine
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u r basically "perfect" u dont need 2 loose weight. if u stop eating ur going 2 slow down ur mattabulism (however the hell u spell that) and then when u do start eating regularly again ull gain wait b/c ur mattabulism has slowed down so eat gurl eat. ur way skinny so dont worry about it. if problems pursist talk 2 a counsler at school or a parent or friend. hope i helped PRINCESSKISSES1
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You are talking about 4 pounds! Stop stressing yourself so much. Nobody expects you to be perfect, and I am sure nobody wants you to loose weight. There is so much more to life than worring about a few pounds, especialy if you are not even over weight. Life is too short.
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First of all you need to eat. You don't loose wait when u dont eat most of the time you stay the same size or you gain weight. You family wants you to be healthy and I think you look perfect to be the size you are and your age. I know i prolly didnt help but good luck
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Its normal to gain weight especially your 8th grade year Im in 9th grade and i gained alot of weight my 8th grade year 102 pounds isnt bad. Your boyfriends will still like you no matter what happens. You wont feel like you cant control your life for long wait till you start school you'll see that the people around you feel the same way. Trust me your normal you'll also lose alot of weight to. XoXo Nini
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