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Gender: Female
Location: WV
Age: 14
AIM: Sj babyj 38
Member Since: August 16, 2004
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Last Update: August 16, 2004
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Okay, i liked this boy right. And he supposedly "used" to like me too [thats what his friends all told me] cuz we used to flirt cuz our lockers are right next to one another. But anyway, i went to this party with one of my best friends and she was like "are you gunna talk to him??" and i was going to and i could hear his friends all saying when i got there "go talk to her!!" but i dont know what he said. But anyway, later on at the party him and a different one of my friends were hanging out a lot and ontop of one another [not literally] and stuff. And they ended up going out. I didnt talk to him for a while but im talking to him now like normally. But i kinda never gave up liking him. Now him and this girl broke up about 2 weeks later [no surprise there] but i kinda still like him. But i dont know what to do? (link)
You should ask him out boys are just as afraid of rejection as we are believe it or not. he probably likes you. And i you like him that much its worth a try. XoXo Nini


well I'm 14 and I just had a baby and I don't know what I should do like should I keep braist feeding or sumthing I'm so confused I'm only going in 9th grade and it's really hard for me to take care of my baby when my parents aren't around I love my little girl so much her names ZoƩ but the father doesn't love her or want anything to do with her what should I do I need help?? (link)
If your sure thats the father he needs to take responsibilities of her. Your parents will grow to love her. It will all work out you'll see. Tell your parents how you feel also. XoXo Nini


ok this is gonna sound sort of weird but lately i feel like i cant control anything really i cant control my heart or the way i look or the way i feel or any of that but i can control how much i eat im 5'6 going into 8 grade and i weigh 102 pounds and i just want to weigh 98 idk why but 2 me thats how i feel i should look so i just stopped eating basicially i mean its 2 and i havent had anything to eat today ill probally eat a little bit but not alot and i always feel like im getting fatter and stuff i just dont want to look like me anymore... i hate the way i look but idk why i feel like this i have the best boyfriend i could ever ask for great friends great family i guess i just feel like i have to be perfect for everyone and i think thats how everyone wants me to look so thats what im going to do i guess should i weigh less than 98? how much weight should i loose? (link)
Its normal to gain weight especially your 8th grade year Im in 9th grade and i gained alot of weight my 8th grade year 102 pounds isnt bad. Your boyfriends will still like you no matter what happens. You wont feel like you cant control your life for long wait till you start school you'll see that the people around you feel the same way. Trust me your normal you'll also lose alot of weight to. XoXo Nini


ok well I have been having problems at school and with friends. Well a couple of weeks ago a girl said she was gonna kick my ass and what not because ppl were telling her that i had been talkin bout her and i hadnt. Well we got everything straight and we became friends and i went out with her one weekend. Now she said that she was gonna kick my ass cause ppl have been telling her that i said i didnt really like her and the only reason i went with her was because I was scared of her and that i needed a ride and that is not true at all. I have never talked bad about her or anything. What should i do. (link)
I have problems like that all the time just go to her and tell her thats not true ask her who said it and then confront the person or people that said it. Just make sure its not true first. She shouldnt wanna kick your ass than. If she still does after you tell her than its not worth being her friend. XoXo Nini


Well im 16 and i have been with my boyfriend for 4 years. We are both gonna be senior's this year. I know its weird cause im only 16 but i skipped a grade. We are both very popular. He is the best football play and im the captain of the cheerleading squad and the whole nine yards. Well we had sex for the second time a week or two ago. I was suppose to start my period two days ago and I took a test and im pregnant. I am so scared. I dont know how to tell him or my parents and i dont know if i want to keep it. Someon please help (link)
You have to tell someone either him and deffenately your mom. Its your choice to keep it. You should go through with having it atleast dont ruin its life and if you cant take care of it than set up for adoption. XoXo Nini


How do u stop thinkin about a guy u really like and u know u have to stop ?!! help please! (link)
You dont have to stop thinking about the guy just keep it a secret deep down it will eventually go away! XoXo Nini




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