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Ok..I like this kid jonathan..we went out but like practically just broke up.My friend likes him now and i know it but she wont tell me..she keeps beating around the bush!The thing is she starts to like everyboy i liked,matt,sayon,peter,the list goes on..but now its jonathan..im not letting her do it this time.but i dont know what to do should i stop being friends with her or just tell her to step off jonathan what should i do?!
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confront her. simply say, have you ever noticed that you like every guy that i do? explain to her that it kind of hurts your feelings that shes not being a very good friend by stepping on your toes that way. i would ask her to back off in a nice way though. maybe shes a little insecure about herself and finds it to be an easy way to go out with guys instead of taking the time to meet her own. hope i helped sweetie! *melissa*
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thats kinda what happened to me but kinda not. friends like that suck and there not gonna help get your life better just fill it fill of more heartaches and pain.
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Well.... I've had the same problem.. My best friend is starting to like one of my ex boyfriends whom I still truely love.. But could never get back with. But you need to talk to your friend and tell her how you feel.. To me... a friend should never date another friends boyfriends. But thats just my opinion. If you guys end up fighting over it. Just let it go through. She will sooner or later realize how much she actually needs you in her life.. I hope I helped...
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Well don't be mean to her bcuz you cant really help who you like.. she may be liking the same guys you do bcuz when you talk about them it makes her relize she likes them or w/e.. wow that made no sence but anyways.. you should just let it be.. if she actually goes out with the boy you like than you should deffinetly talk to her bcuz you are NOT ALLOWED to go out with the boy a friend likes.. its wrong!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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hello my dear
dont worry about this at all dont completely ditch your freind i mean maybe she just thinks you have good taste in guyz dont worry about it...trust me never ditch a freind for a guy there completely not worth it...i dont thynk that you should let her take jonanthan just simply tell her you styll lyk him and tell her that when she lyks someone that she can always tell you even if its your ex so then she wonlt hafta drop hints becuase i mean your her friend tell her that she can trust you...and tell her you want jonathan back and maybe you can go somewhere with her and try to find her a guy of her own
love always n foreveer
stepanie_lynn
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Why don't you like the fact that she likes the people you like? You should ask her seriouly why she likes these people so much. Be nice about it, but yea you can tell her to back off a little bit, but don't be snotty about it, be nice about it. :-)
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I think you guys just have similar tastes in guys. Don't let it bother you.
But in this case, it's your ex. That's off lmits for her. Just tell her how you feel, and you two can talk it out calmly.
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all friends should kind of have an instinct that your friends ex boyfriends are OFF limits.. it just causes chaos..You need to confront her.. tell her like it is.. You still have feelings for him, and it must kill you to see someone else with him.. Tell her that you still have feelings for him, and you guys really didnt get a chance to be "officially over" your friend is the one who is supposed to be there to critisize your ex when you see him with another girl; Shes not supposed to be the one with your ex.. Dont stop being friends with her necessarily.. If she doesnt respect your opinion.. Then next time she has a guy she likes.. you go for him and see if she likes it.. Hope everything works out..<3Paris Marie
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Well the problem is that you are still attached to Jonathon even though you guys just broke up. Throw away anything that reminds you of him...get over him. I know it will be hard but you don't own Jonathon. You may want to tell her, "The next time I like a boy don't be so quick to start liking him...even after I break up with him I may still have feelings." Good luck. -Hope I helped-
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U need to tell her to step bak and U need to confront her with what shes doing its like she doesnt want to see U happy or soemthing but you need to say something to her i think or just flat out dont be friends with her but tell her what shes doing wrong and all first!
-Cass-
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Tell that biotch to back up off yo' man!! Aww! No.. if she tRies anything, just tell heR that it is REALLY staRting to get to you, and you'd appReciate it VERY MUCH if she would staRt to contRol heRself and leave youR ex-men alone!! Once she knows you don't appRove of heR behavioR.. if she's Really THAT good of a fRiend.. she should undeRstand youR Reasoning and Respect youR wishes! Hope I helped!! =D
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