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I'm a 24 yr old girl...and I met this great guy at a bar a few weeks ago and since then everytime I'm out, no matter where I am, he seems to be there. (Like it's meant to be?) Well, I went over to his house after leaving the bars twice. The first time we just hung out, we didn't even kiss... and then the second time we went a lot farther then that. I think he's wonderful and I want him to like me for me even though everytime I see him I'm pretty wasted.. I want to keep talking to him and I don't want to ruin things because I feel wierd and don't know how to act because I went too far with someone new.. but I really like him, I think he's so perfect... what should I do?? How should I act??? (link)
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Not to be mean, but it sounds like he is using you. Both of us have been in this kind of position before, not that anything has happend, but the situation has come up. In this case, you really need to examine your relationship and see what he really means to you? Do you spend most of your time in restaurants and/or bars? Do you then just go to his house where you do sometimes take things to far? Do you really think that this guy is meant for you or do you think that he is just stalking you to make sure you don't cheat on him? Think about it and good luck!
much love,
Steph and Steph's best friend
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hey... i'm only 13 but i really want to lose 15 pounds, if i do i won't get sick or anything will i? i don't want to have like health problems for the rest of my life. i'm only about 5'2 and i weigh like 115!! my mom says its from muscle cuse i play soccer like ALOT, but i really don't like the way i look. almost everyone i know is so much frikin skinnier than me. i'm not going to like cut out food compleatly, i just want to lose 15 pounds in like a month or so... is it safe? thanks a bunch!! (link)
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You are really lucky to weigh that amount. I think that your mom is right because I am like 5'4" and 120lbs, but I have come to grips with the fact that that is not really all that bad. Most is muscle too. If you want to lose, say, 5 lbs then that may be a good idea, but I wouldn't be too worried about it.
Good Luck!
BlondeMoment250's Best Friend
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what would you do if a 16 year old guy asked you out and you were 13?
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I think that if you like this guy, you should say yes. I am 14 and almost dated a 17 year old senior. Don't worry about things... age is just a number, unless of course you have doubt about something else, then you need to think things over a little more.
Good luck!
BlondeMoment250's Best Friend
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Ok my best friend since 1st grade said i was a slut and she doesnt want to hang out with me because of that. I am still a virgin tho so i dont know why she said this. i just date a lot of guys because if i like them and they like me why do i need to get the name of a slut if i go out with them. she really hurt me and now we're not talking and i miss her a lot she knows THE BIGGEST secret of mine and shes going to throw our friendship away over she doesnt want to hang out with me cuz im a "slut" well i was always there for her and now shes not here for me i really need help on what to say to her to get my best friend back!! HELP PLEASE! i'll rate 5's!!
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~!*Kristen*!~ (link)
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I think that a true friend wouldn't think badly of you. Each person views things differently and a true friend would back you up on anything... right or wrong. Obviously your friend has issuses with some things you do but you need to work that out. A true friend will be there to congratulate when you make a good choice but will be there to hold you when you realized you made the wrong choice.
Much Love,
Steph and Babe
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I don't believe in anything but still feel I need a spiritual playground to frolic in... What should I do??? (link)
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this is BlondeMoment250's best friend... I think that you SHOULD become a christian, however, no one can make this decision for you. To the person that said that all this religion is is a big cult, i am sorry, you are very lost my friend. I think that christianity is a wonderful religion that is backed up by much science. You may want to talk to a local preacher, they can help you with your search. Your morals are much backed up with your religion, but i would not say to pick a religion that just makes you feel good. I myself am a strong christian and will not deny to that fact. again, talk to a local preacher...they can answer your questions. Good luck in your search and God Bless.
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my boyfriend wont look at me straight when i talk ta him or he will just leave me on hold for a long time when eva im talkn' ta him on tha phone.1 day he asked me was i cheating on him and i told him NO WAY bcuz i would neva eva do a such thing like that but i neva asked him was he cheating on me.cause when i call him he hangs up on me on purpose but when he calls me i do tha same u kno. i kno its wrong but if any1 kno's if thats actually a sign of him cheating, bcuz he makes me cry and wanna hang up on him just pleaze HELP and i will really appreciate if u dont delete this and only gurls will answer this question thanxxxxx
noh hatas
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Sweetheart, ever heard the saying "no one is worth your tears and those who are wont' make you cry" ok... its true, if you think he is cheatin on you, he might be, and if he likes you he isn't gunna make you cry. I thought my boyfriend was cheatin on me and I just didn't say anything and I cried over him all the time because we got in so many fights, it took me about a month to realize he wasn't worth it so we broke it off then I found out he had been cheatin on me. If you think he is cheatin on you, talk to him, maybe yaw should just take sometime to be friends. Hope I helped. Keep in touch and lemme know how it goes. IM me on AIM. My s/n is BlondeMoment250.
Love
-Steph
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Okay so I have this friend and she has a boyfriend and I am his friend a little bit like he talks to me and stuff and he gives me money but I asked him if I could have a sip of his Powerade and he said yes so I took a sip and my friend saw me and she got all mad at me and said that I have been flirting with her boyfriend, and that I like him even though I have my own boyfriend....I sent her a text message saying sorry and I even tried calling her but she won't answer. I need help what should I do (link)
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A true friend will listen to you. Keep tryin to call her and stuff. If she still doesn't talk to you then (not tryin to sound mean) she isn't a real friend.
Love
Steph
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erm...ok, I'm 13/f/ca, and next year I'm going to be a freshman in Highschool, I'm wanting for hopfully some...encouraging words. I"ve heard this kid saying I'll trashcan me cuz then he'll be a seinor. Do Seniors really make your Freshman year a living hell? how bad is it really? I need the truth really, cuz some people say you're never trashcaned in highschool, and others say Seniors are made to make Freshmans lives year a living hell.
pleaaaaaase help!!
signed,
Paranoid (link)
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UH... seniors are probably the nicest people at the school, I know they are at mine atleast. They are not gunna trashcan you. I'm a freshman and we are separated from the sophmores, juniors and seniors but I have band after school and I hang out with them and they are really nice. Hope I helped.
Love,
Steph
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hey well start it off im 13-m. ok well about how hard would it be to find a girl that is like only interested in sex after marriage for dating material? because seems like everywhere i look on here, theirs a pregnant girl or one worried about it. i'm just talking about like later in my life, in my twenties right out of college. just to be prepared. also, i was reading a book, and a guy asked the girl if she was a virgin, and she said that she wasnt even embarrased. so are you like supposed to be embarrassed if your a virgin?
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Wow! God, any girl would be soo extremly lucky to have you. You shouldn't be embarrased to be a virgin. That is something to be proud of. I have had to pull a guys hand out of my pants and at first I was embarrased but then I realized that it was the right thing to do. All I can say is you can go to a church, make friends with people there. A real christian girl won't wanna have sex till she is married. Hope I helped!
Love
Steph
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well when i was younger i thought having sex at 14 was horrible. but now im starting to think well maybe its not so bad.. sex at 11 or 12 is bad. i know people who have done it and theyre younger than me. im 13. so what is a good age for sex.. does age even matter?
confused..
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Aright... well... I wouldn't suguest having sex at a young age. Think of all the STD's that you can get. I think if you were to have it at a young age, I wouldn't suggest below 16. Thats just my opnion though.
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