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im lindsay, im 14... and uh yeah... ask me stuff if you want

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Okay.. my bestfriend went out with this guy that she like FOREVER and then this popular bitch told him to break up with her because she liked him. Ughh.. i cant believe how low people can be.. anyways.. i hope you can help =]

--lays chips are yummy

i cant answer this question right now... sorry im in a similar situation

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my friend (kelley) has been cutting herself lately and doing some pretty dangerous stuff. i told her to stop and she said she has but i dont know if i should believe her. what should i do? *signed clueless as what to do*

ask her why she does it, and ask her whats wrong, and tell her that you can help her get through it, because its suicidal, it may not seem like it but it is

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ok so I have this boyfriend and WE ARE AWESOME. I MEAN AWESOME...... so yeah.. but I mean every time I go over to his house and we do "stuff" his cat has to get in the way. I mean seriously why does Shanikwa think she can get in the way? Shanikwa is an evil cat. I mean last time I was over, she barfed up a hairball on me and stuff and then after that she dragged poop out of her liter box! Oh and sometimes Shanikwa will bite me and stuff when we're in "action". (my BF and I)

I mean I thought about killing Shanikwa but I mean then my boyfriend would be sad and that would be bad because there would be no more... "action" ... but I mean what should I do because SHANIKWA NEEDS TO STOP NOW.

AHHHHHHH!!!!! HELP ME!!!!

sounds like a personal problem to me...

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theres this guy that i like nd hes soooo sweet! but he told me that he likes ma best friend nd that hurt rlly bad. i thawt he liked me but he mite now now. bfore his friends were comin up to meh n sayin that he likes me n stuff n it wuz kinda ovious that he did cuz he wus ALWAYS flirtin wit me wenever he had a chance to talk to me but i didnt like him then. also sumtimes i rlly like him n othr times i just think o him as a friend so i dunno whether i should go out wit him or not cuz if i do i rlly don wanna hurt his feelings cuz hes 1 o the sweetest guys i evr met. wat should i do?

tell him the thruth, its worth it if you want to stay friends with him, it wont hurt his feelings, but if it does, then he likes you alot, so have a long talk with him, and maybe you will realize you like him

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how can u tell when ur in love with a guy???

when you get butterflys in your stomach when you talk to him, and you feel you can tell him anything, and you cant go a day without seeing or talking to him... you would know if your in love

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i really want a cell phone...everyone my age allready has one but my mom is all "oh no no no" for no reason at all...what can i say to make her change her mind?

just put your parents in a situation, where you need a phone, and like go somewhere and not call them, and when you get in trouble for not being able to call them say something like... "if i had a cell phone i would be able to call you... but nooo" yeah, it works

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ok im kind of a shy person and recently i started making friends at another high school so im mainly with them. they are all so pretty...a lot of guys like them and they're so nice.i just want to fit in with them because when when im with them,i feel like the outsider. i want to b able to open up more...basically what i want to know is how to open up more!? plz plz help i really need it.

be yourself! and dont be scared to be wild and hyper, and start talking to more people at your school, and if you do you will see them more, and talk to them more, so it will make you alot more outgoing with people you dont know as well

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there are two girls at my school and they used to be my best friends last year... we got in a HUGE fight and now everything is okay but not near back to normal. i feel like they dont care anymore. all i wish for is that it could be back to like it used to be. the BIG argument was kinda my fault cause i messed up but i love them and they are my best friends. the only thing is that before i moved to this school they were best friends and now they are unceperable... all i pray for is that someday everything will be back to normal... what can i do to make that day come sooner... and have you ever been in this situation fighting with a best friend??
Thanks for the help.

yes, me and two other girls were BEST friends! we spent a WHOLE summer together... and going like a month STRAIGHT! just going to each house one night... and it was great! but then school came... and me and one of them had ALL classes together, and we only had 2 classes with our best friend... and we slowly drifted apart, and its just normal now, and all you have to do is apoligize, and prove to them that even though you screwed up once, best friends are BEST FRIENDS! it lasts forever, and if they dont want to forgive you, then they arent worth it, you should move on to people who care, hope i helped

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You see, I'm developing feeelings for this guy who lives near my friends place. Whenever I'm around him, I act like a fool. My friends (girls) can do sporty things he does, but I totally cant. I think he refers to me as "girly", which I am. But I feel left out when I'm with them. I can't run as fast as they do, and I really don't know what to do. I won't be going to my friends place anymore, so I don't know how I can talk 2 the guy who lives near her. I want him 2 like me, but I feel so ashamed to even see him again. What do I do?

Signed,
Confused

be yourself. guys love when girls are there self, not every guy will like you for who you really are, so screw them, but one of the things that really turns guys off is being fake annoying, preppy and ditzy, so dont do that

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I'm a 13/f and I have 2 very good friends. They both like the same guy. This one guy happens to be one of my very good friends and we talk on AIM all the time. I always saw him as just a friend but now I'm starting to really like him and people keep telling me that he likes me. I want to be honest with my friends but they like him and they want him to like them. What should I do?

you have every right to like him, but if you are too scared to tell them then dont, but if you want to tell them then go ahead, just be like, im really sorry but i like him, and if they get mad, then just tell them that you have every right to like him, it doesnt matter who you like, and who else likes him, just dont do anything to jepoardize your friendship...

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I just moved to arizona from texas.. my best friend cried wen i left, and said that i would always be her best friend.. but its a couple of months after i moved, and she doesnt seem to pay much attention anymore.. She never calls, writes letters, or emails... we talk to eachother on AIM sometimes, but wenever i talk to her im so happy! but i feel like she is forgetting about me even though she says im not.. i get so depressed about it, and i cry.i would do anything for her!! she is soo important to me! we tell eachother everything and anything.. wat can i do to get her to relize wats shes doing to me without hurting her feelings?

talk to her, and be like, you act like you dont care that i moved, and i care so much that i moved, and i feel so alone, or how ever you feel, and say that it affected you so much, and that it hurts you that you cant hang out with her anymore, and that she doesnt care that your not there

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its me again with the 2 guys..tkd_shorty
but i just kinda moved from florida and its like weird..to just ask them..but like ..they look at me in this certain way..thats like..weird..but reassuring if thats what ya wanna call it..i'm just confused..because this happend before..but this guy was in 8th grade and i was a sevie..but this is now in 8th and they are to..so i mean..would that just mean they think i'm hott or actually like me?..i mean i would ask them..but i dont know..
tkd_shorty

it doesnt matter! just get your friends to talk to them and ask them to go to the movies with you and your friends! IM me on imONfire11190

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well heres the thing..(sry it might be a little long)
ok so there are these two guys at school..and i can't tell if they like me or not..because one day they are like all flirting and stuff..and looking at me..and that sort of stuff but the next day there like..do i know you??..ya know..and thats kind of bothering..me..
how do you know if a guy likes you or not? because i guess they might be shy..but then why would they even talk to me..i really like them both.but this guy friend that i have asked one of the guys to see if he liked me and he said he didnt..but why would he look at me so much..and he looks at me in this way that is just showing that he would like me..but i'm not sure..and then the other guy looks at me alot..well i guess he does..and i talk to him..and my friend says we would make a good couple..but i wouldnt know if he would like me..and if we would go out ..ya know??..well i know its kinda confusing..but please give some advice..thanks..
tkd_shorty
write back..

okay, they probably both like you. and what you should do is one weekend hang out with one of the guys like at the mall or go to a movie with him, and then the next weekend hang out with the other one, and then compare and then tell one of your friends which one you like.. and they will tell him or his friend... and then maybe if he likes you enough, yall can go out.

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okay, I REALLY like Taco Bell and eat it all the time, but one question:

DOES IT MAKE YOU FAT?

umm, it depends i guess... it can. anything with carbs and suagr and alot of calories can make you fat

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MY LIFE FLAT OUT SUCKS...WELL MOST THINGS IN IT...I MEAN I HAVE SOME GOOD FRIENDS AND A GOOD FAMILY...EXCEPT FOR SOMETIMES MY MOMS A LITTLE BITCH BUT HEY WHOS ISNT?! and i love jesus n all and somethings r goin...GREAT! but some things...arent but anyways so my guy friends r like discoverying "things" and they dont know and think about what there doin and its really f*ed up and uhhhhhh!! and a dude liked me but i like blew him off but i rreally liked him but by the time i figured that out he had moved on and asked out another girl cuz he was "hurt" gah its sooo freakin jacked up but o well! i had to let my feelings out somewhere so yeah!! buh bye now!

im sorry... get anti depressants if you think your life is that bad... and what do you mean by discovering things? and why did you blow that guy off? what did he do?

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Ok so I was like with my boyfriend at like Grapevine Mills and like YA. We were like eating at Rain Forest Cafe and it was all going good. UNTIL THE STORM. So yeah like I mean he wants to go in the back and make out and stuff I mean I was OK with that until we walk into virgin records and he was like are you a virgin and im like YES and he's like i'll change that in virgin records HEHE... and im like I dunno so then he gets like a "sexish " cd and all this stuff and like ya but I run away. I mean like what was I suppost to do ? I mean i love him but I don't Know.

- Thanks!!!!!!!!!!!

well, if you love him then its your decision, nobody can tell you your too young, and if you are scared to have sex then dont, and tell him the truth, but if you think your ready, then go for it

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the killers do rock but the only thing they rock is music and if your that big of a fan you must be european.

do i have to be european to like them?

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my names crystal and im 13, okay i've been going out with this guy for awhile now. But people always tell me he's a big flirt, and now im starting to notice it. and i THINK he likes my best friend! but its not like im just going to come out and say it to either one of them... so what do i do..??? HELP

wow i know a guy exactly like that! okay, you may not want to say anything to your best friend, but your going to have to eventually. usually you tell your best friend anything, whether its about her, you, or anybody else, you should come out and say something. It will make you feel better, and you can even ask her to talk to him about it. Hope i helped.

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I kinda lik this guy and we both noe we lik each other but evr since we found that out i kinda am startin not 2 lik him...but i stil kinda do...what should i do??

i hate when that happens! okay, you have two options, either go out with him, and see how you like it, its worth a shot! or you can just tell him that ever since you found out yall both like each other... you stopped liking him, and just become really good friends with him

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okay, well see i REALLY like this guy, and i'm not sure that he likes me. but he flirts with me, and all. but, we are really really good friends. and i want to be more than that. but then, his best friend has a HUGE crush on me, but i don't like him AT ALL. what should i do? and how do i get him?

wow umm that has happened to me too! okay, you have to talk to his friend, and be like, okay im really sorry, but i just dont like you like that, i like you as a really good friend, wait a couple days after that, and ask him if the guy you like, likes you... and ease it on, dont go too fast

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