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didnt know what category to put this under...
my friend (kelley) has been cutting herself lately and doing some pretty dangerous stuff. i told her to stop and she said she has but i dont know if i should believe her. what should i do? *signed clueless as what to do*
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check out her arms....if she cuts other places then you are out of luck..but most kids..need hlep before they stop. But you have to be her friend..she needs you...you got to get her to talk to a counselor to figure out why she cuts herself. She may continue to lie to you..but realize that she is in a bad place and cut her some slack.
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I think you should either talk to her one on one about her problem...maybe talk to a counceler for help or talk to ehr one on one and tell her how much you care for her and want her to stop and truely mean it...Hope I helped Rate me!!! *Kelly*
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Wow... I know how you feel. I have a friend who was doing the same thing to herself. What i did was I did a little research and told her all the risks there are for cutting herself and stuff like that. You could also just tell her how much it scares you to know that she's doing that. It worked for me, so i hope it does the same for you.
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if i were u (WHICH I AM!) i would get out a knife and start cutting yourself regularly with ur btich kelly. you guys could be called the cutting clan. you could become famous. i would deserve an autograph i do believe. cuz u know what they say... if you cant beat em, join em.
WUTANG!(w/o Ol Dirty Bastard)
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killerrocksmysockoff...or whoever the hell it was said that cutting means you're suicidal is full of shit. they have no idea what the fuck they're talking about, so disregard anything that fuckrag has said or will say in the future. they are a waste of oxygen.
i suggest cutting her hands off for two reasons...
1. She'll get satisfaction in bleeding.
2. She won't be able to cut herself anymore.
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ask her why she does it, and ask her whats wrong, and tell her that you can help her get through it, because its suicidal, it may not seem like it but it is
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If you really want her to stop what she is doing then i think that you should talk to her or do something about it...dont let her do these things to herself. If she is really your friend then she will listen to what you have to say.. With all do respect, i would get some balls and speak up before she does anything worse..
just talk to her..otay
~sam~
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If your friend is cuttin her self comfort herdopnt push her away or tell her she is stupid bc somtimes it makes tha sisuation worse let her kno u care about her and your there for her! i have a friend who does that and all i can do is let her kno im here for her and if it gets to bad then yes i would tell someone if she thoght about killin herslef! but meanwhile jus comfort her and think of why she would do this if its for attention give her tha attentoin she needs soo she might stop
well i iWIsh u luck
Blayre
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i have a friend who has cut herself and i think she still does. tell her that you care about her and that you dont want to see her in pain because it causes you pain! its not a good thing to do and in the end its really not worth it. tell her instead of cutting herself to talk to you bcuz you will always be there for her whenever she needs you. hope i helped (: please rate!
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Ill tell you that u have to ask her why she does this. If she doesnt know y she does then it is stupid for her to do it. I had a friend that did it and she was my best friend and for the longest time i didnt get y u would ever do something like this. Afetr awhile i had tryed to get her help and it didnt work for her so tell on ur friend if you havent that is the first step because you never know that maybe on day she would do it and go to far and kill her self. And you wouldnt want to be like i could of stoped her and you would feel bad. But after awhile i had tryed it because i thought well my friend does it she said after wards u feel better si i tryed it cause my friends were bugging me also my parent so i did it after i did it i felt like i was the best feeling person ont he earth and most ppl do it because of the after wards. So dont ever say ur not going to takl to her cause she did it cause it makes it worse.
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the smart thing to do it get her a guidence counsler or tell her mom she may get mad at you but if u are her friend you should do it even if it means not talking to eachother bcuz u no what is best for her. when she gets older she will thank u!
HOPE I HELPED!! GOOD LUCK!
x ♥ x ♥ Michelle
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Talk to her about it. Make her feel really important to you (not that she isnt). But really stress what she means to you and try to get her to open up to you and say what she feels.
=Hope i helped =)
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well .. it is always hard to kno the right thing to do b.c your friends and u don't want to loose that friendship .. personally, i think that you should talk to someone about it b.c it is a serious problem and it is out of your control and you need to tell someone about it - don't tell right away occassionly look at her arms or make sure she is still depressed about w.e and then you know it is safe to sya she didn't stop and to tell someone b.c it's the only way to help her
rate me =)
x0 <3 candice
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Dear Clueless,
Alright, so you have to tell her that you love her and that you'd do anything to make her pain stop. Tell her that you wouldn't want anything to happen to her. Tell her that your going to do anything it takes to make her better, but you have to mean it.
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