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my best friend
I just moved to arizona from texas.. my best friend cried wen i left, and said that i would always be her best friend.. but its a couple of months after i moved, and she doesnt seem to pay much attention anymore.. She never calls, writes letters, or emails... we talk to eachother on AIM sometimes, but wenever i talk to her im so happy! but i feel like she is forgetting about me even though she says im not.. i get so depressed about it, and i cry.i would do anything for her!! she is soo important to me! we tell eachother everything and anything.. wat can i do to get her to relize wats shes doing to me without hurting her feelings?
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just talk to her and tell her you miss her and that even tho your are so far away from each oter you dont wana lose touch with her. tell her how much you miss her. hope it works out for you!! xx
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just be honest with her! if she's your best friend then you can tell her anything. just be sure that when you tell her, she doesn't feel like you are "attacking" her. just be honest but sweet. she probably doesn't even realize it! Take care!
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I know it's hard when you move and it's really hard to keep in touch with your old friends because the only way you have to contact them is either the phone or the computer. I live in Arizona too but I haven't always lived here. Just call her up and talk to her and tell her how your feeling. I hope I helped you.
~Jessica
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get over it, she MOVED ON
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try and call her and make sure she knows how you feel. 3 years ago i moved from georgia to atlanta and my best friend was left in new jersey still. we tried to stay in touch but we dont talk very much anymore. try and make more friends in texas. people change, and your change in surroundings may cause you not to even be as good friends with your best friends. Set a time when both of you can call each other on the weekends.
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talk to her, and be like, you act like you dont care that i moved, and i care so much that i moved, and i feel so alone, or how ever you feel, and say that it affected you so much, and that it hurts you that you cant hang out with her anymore, and that she doesnt care that your not there
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Hey! First off im so sorry your best friend moved :( My best friend went off to college this year and shes about half way across the country. As sad as i was i came to the realization that things change AND PEOPLE change and its all inevitable so first you gotta accept that. Its definately gotta be hard for you to get adjusted to your new surroundings not to mention 1) get to know the area/people, 2) make new friends, 3) find ur place to fit in. So instead of living back at home i think itd be better to focus your energy on getting adjusted to your new surroundings. Being a best friend means being there for your friend even when shes not there for you. I know that can be hard but let her know you are there for her. When my best friend moved away for college we decided to designate a time each week when we would call each other. So far its working great!!! Keep me updated and stay strong. I believe you can work it out.
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i think you should tell her how are feel. i think you should say "hey, um sometimes i feel like you dont think about me any more, you dont really bother with me anymore, it makes me feel so sad" just tell her, she will understand.
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She's not gonna know unless you tell her but of course, you are probobly worried about her feelings being hurt. I think she will understand if you tell her in a polite manner. Just explain it to her: "I feel we've been growing apart but you are like a sister to me and I would do anything for you. I just want to make sure you know that". Being open with her will make her have even MORE trust in you and a friend like that is IMPOSSIBLE to forget.
xOx Emmz
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Both of you have very busy lives- chances are that she, like you, is very involved in school and may not have a lot of extra time because of homework or sports. Or she might not be the best letter writer. Either way, I think it's about time for you to move on and find some new friends. If she happens to come around, that's fine too. But don't waste your time waiting for this girl.
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I think that if you called her and talked to her about it then that would make everything better. Just be straight up forward with her about the way you feel. But..before you say anything, tell her that you dont mean for anything that you say to sound mean or bad but that you just had to tell her.. After your done telling her about how you feel then let her have her turn in saying what she feels. I think that if yall are completely honest with eachother than that means that you and her can get through anything.. Just remember that what you and her have is special in a friendship, so i think that she will understand when you talk to her.
I hope i helped...
Sam
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im kinda going through the same thing, but the problem is that its just not the same because you guys are pretty far apart and talking on the phone isn't the same as you and your friend talking to each other face to face. hope i helped.
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cest ne pas possible! :(
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