i recently started talking to my exboyfriend again, and my old feelings for him are kind of coming back. he seems a lot different than he was when we went out, but we had a reaally bad break up, and i don't think i want to get into again. hes not really in my group of friends, so it would be easy not to talk to him, but he still means a lot to me, and i don't want to lose him completely. what should i do?
xokaylanicoleox answered Sunday November 14 2004, 7:52 pm: Just keep on talking to him and if you don't want to hang out with him then don't, it's your decision. Just get to know the new him and see if you like that side of him. -Kayla [ xokaylanicoleox's advice column | Ask xokaylanicoleox A Question ]
krestel answered Sunday November 14 2004, 7:34 pm: tell him that you really still want to friends and that he is important to you. if it is so important for you to be friends with hm, maybe you should sacrifice your feelings and try giving him another chance. i know it is hard to get over big break ups. most people say that after a serious relationship someone could need as much as 1 year to feel normal again. [ krestel's advice column | Ask krestel A Question ]
AlEx Is SeXy Fo EvA52392 answered Sunday November 14 2004, 7:28 pm: if ur old fealing are coming back tell ur ex b/f how u feal he might feal the same way and if he does u should give him a nother chanse i am goin through the same problem i like my ex ex b/f again but he dosn't like me... so tell ur ex that u still like or u liek him agin him duha [ AlEx Is SeXy Fo EvA52392's advice column | Ask AlEx Is SeXy Fo EvA52392 A Question ]
cutebrunette answered Sunday November 14 2004, 6:57 pm: its ok to talk to your exboyfriend. but if you dont want to get back into the relationship you dont have to. if he does ask you out, just say, is it ok if we are just friends or lets just be friends. but if you talk to him try not to let your feelings comeback, but if they do and you dont feel comferable talking to him then just say g2g. ~hope it works [ cutebrunette's advice column | Ask cutebrunette A Question ]
SwEeTBaBe123 answered Sunday November 14 2004, 6:26 pm: Just because he is different when you arent goin out doesnt mean he hasnt changed. He may not like you, he may like you. But i think that you guyz are sending mixed signals to eachother. Even though he isnt in your group of friends doesnt mean you cant hang out. Get like 2 of your friends and get some of his friends and just go hang out as a small "group". He is probably a really great guy and even though you had a really bad break up, it doesnt mean there isnt any hope for you. He shouldnt spend the rest of his life mad at you for some bad break up you had a while ago. I hope i helped! sweetbabe123 [ SwEeTBaBe123's advice column | Ask SwEeTBaBe123 A Question ]
pRiiNcEsS_bRyT answered Sunday November 14 2004, 6:10 pm: aww i know how u feel...just tell him that u still have feelings for him cuz it feels alot better wen u tell a guy how u rele feel! and maybe u guys can become close friends! good luck! [ pRiiNcEsS_bRyT's advice column | Ask pRiiNcEsS_bRyT A Question ]
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