Question Posted Wednesday November 10 2004, 8:47 pm
Okay so I have this friend and she has a boyfriend and I am his friend a little bit like he talks to me and stuff and he gives me money but I asked him if I could have a sip of his Powerade and he said yes so I took a sip and my friend saw me and she got all mad at me and said that I have been flirting with her boyfriend, and that I like him even though I have my own boyfriend....I sent her a text message saying sorry and I even tried calling her but she won't answer. I need help what should I do
MeadowLark answered Thursday November 11 2004, 12:25 pm: First of all, if you were friends with the guy before they started going out, your friend has absolutely nothing to get mad over. Second, there shouldn't be a problem with you taking a sip of his powerade, it doesn't mean you like him, and if you told your friend u dont like him and u have your own boyfriend then she should believe you. But my main advice is to let her get over it by herself, she needs to grow up a little bit, even though that sounds harsh. Sorry if I offended you or your friend at all, but i hope i helped. [ MeadowLark's advice column | Ask MeadowLark A Question ]
dinoold answered Thursday November 11 2004, 7:55 am: sounds to me like your friend is really insecure. Sit her down..tell her the what is really going on..and find out why she is so insecure..could be he is flirting wiht others.
xSammieXlubsXux answered Wednesday November 10 2004, 9:59 pm: i know that you have said sorry and have tried to call her, but i think that you should give her a while to cool down and then after a few days i think that you should confront her and tell her how you feel. honestly, not trying to be rude, but i think that she is really overreacting. she also needs to chill.
XxRockon answered Wednesday November 10 2004, 9:28 pm: whoa that girl is totally overrreacting i think, she mite feel insecure with her relatonshio so she accused u that u wre flirting bec she needed to blame probs on her relationshpp on someone so she thought that u were flirting. Just leave her alone for a fe days and then try and confront her again aout it. It shud have blown over by then but if not tell her that u weren't flirting at all and that u have ur own bf and that u wooldnt evn think of chating on ur own bf and flirting wit hers. [ XxRockon's advice column | Ask XxRockon A Question ]
sunny411 answered Wednesday November 10 2004, 9:11 pm: Well if you tell your friend thats you are friends with him and she is not listing then she is NOT a true friend. Her boyfrind was just be nice of sharing. Just try to get a hold of her and talk to her and if she dose not listen dont blame it on you it is not ur falt you did not do anything wroung. And if none of that works try talking to her boiifriend (not around her) andd tell him what she is doing to you then he might go talk to your frind she should listen to him becaue it is her boiifriend.
angita answered Wednesday November 10 2004, 9:09 pm: heyy.. u noe wat i really think tat u should tell her bf to talk to her and tell her tat it really didnt mean n e thing.. n the 1st chance u get tell her tat u werent and y would u do tat if u had a bf.. and she should trust u becuz u wouldnt do tat to her.. gud luk.. xoxo angie [ angita's advice column | Ask angita A Question ]
Sherry answered Wednesday November 10 2004, 9:04 pm: Wow your friend is on crack. Try text messaging her saying "I just wanted a drink.." or have her boyfriend help you out and explain to her that its nothing. If she still is mad, I think shes too immature to be your friend anyway. I mean cmon who freaks out over a drink? [ Sherry's advice column | Ask Sherry A Question ]
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