My life sucks. I've never had a girlfriend, i always end up being her good friend, and they always give me that excuse of "they dont like me that way". Im made fun of and beaten up. Everynight i come home and i want to cry and i sit and i cook in my hate towards others but mostly myself, for i cannot figure out why all my friends have such good lives, and im stuck with this. Why is it that i come home everynight wanting to kill myself? Can you help me?
Brittnay answered Sunday November 7 2004, 1:07 am: I know exactly where your coming from, im in the same situation. You have all this anger inside of you, and you dont know what to do. All you want to do is commit suicide because you think only that your life sucks and thats the only thing thats going to solve your problem. It's really not, i've been there before and its not the right solution. If they beat you up, maybe you should tell your guardian, or a school member. I know it sounds stupid but it does work. If you need anymore help, my sn is dancingdreamer08, just im me if you need me, or you can email me at dancingdreamer08@aol.com
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Mesmerized answered Sunday November 7 2004, 1:02 am: With the girlfriend thing, rejection will happen throughout your entire life. You're still young, you will find someone someday just because you haven't had a girlfriend doesn't mean you never will. Don't listen when people make fun of you, and as for beating you up, I've never been in that situation but hell, I'd defend myself and beat them to the ground if they did that to me...don't kill yourself. It's not the way. Things will get better, just hang on. Feel free to IM me on MyPaper xx Heart or e-mail me at xhellsxbellsx@gmail.com if you want to talk [ Mesmerized's advice column | Ask Mesmerized A Question ]
Siren_Cytherea answered Sunday November 7 2004, 12:42 am: Well, I'm not sure if I can help you, but I can certainly try to console you a bit...my friend is seventeen and she's never had a boyfriend in her life. Your friends with such good lives, I'm sure, will have (or have had) their fair share of troubles. You're just going through a rough period. It'll smooth out. The only thing is, if you want it to, you have to wait it out. Don't kill yourself. Suicide is the coward's way out, in my opinion. You'd just be giving up. Do you really want to do that? As far as bad stuff, you want to know what sucks? Having crohn's disease flare ups, asthma problems, a cold/laryngitis, and a boyfriend in Vegas for two months. I had all those this past summer.
I know it's not the same, but still. Bad shit happens, but then things go well. My life, for example, right now, couldn't get much better.
I know people making fun of you has got to bother you, and beaten up...have you told an adult, or anyone? If not, you need to. You probably don't want to 'cause you probably think that'll make it worse. In all honesty, it might, but I still think you should tell someone with some sort of power.
If you want to talk to someone more about this, or just vent or anything, don't hesitate to IM SirenCytherea. I'm online nearly every night.
I hope this helped on some level!
-Siren =) [ Siren_Cytherea's advice column | Ask Siren_Cytherea A Question ]
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