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My boyfriend of a year his birthday is comming up and i have NO clue what to get him..last year i got him the Tupac CD and a card...and our anniversary was last month and i got him a sterling silver bracelet with mine and his name on it and on the bck it had our anniversary date and well his b-day is in like 2 weeks and i wanna get him something juss to top it all off! has anyone givin their bf sumn they really liked? can u tell me the story..even if its cheesy like u sang or danced 4 him..JUSS HELP!

haha! ok...i sang that song "i dont wanna miss a thing" by aero smith to my b/f on his birthday..and then i gave him his favorite cologne with a really "mushy" card..and he LOVED it..i dont really know what kinda guy ur going out with but he will probably LoVe It! ..good luck !

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How old do you have to be to give up on finding a girl friend. The reason I ask is that im 24 ill be 25 next may and ive never had a girlfriend or been in a serious relationship, I Know im not ugly and I can send you a pic to prove it, and most of the time i can talk to girls just fine, but it always ends up the same for me, they always say that im a real nice guy and that one day ill find the right girl for me and then the dreaded "LETS JUST BE FRIENDS".

I just dont understand what im doing wrong. and when i think about it it makes me real mad, that
there's girls out there with boyfriends that beat them, abuse them both phisicaly and mentaly,
they cheat on them and treat them like crap, but when asked why the girl stays whith him the anwser is always "cause I love Him". Life is just so f*cked up, how can guys that treat their girl like shes lower than crap get so much love, but a guy like me that alwas treats women with respect and is always nice and honest and caring
have to feel like hes going to be alone forever?

Ive had sex, but it was always one night satands and its not about sex. its about love, I want to love some one, life is just so empty and meaningless when you dont have anyone to sahre it with.

Now im getting to the point where the girls i meet are close to my age and want someone with experiance, witch i dont have.

So i figured if by the time i turn 25 i dont have a girlfriend i should just give up and not waste anybodys time.

what do you think?

your time will come...dont give up..God has the PERFECT girl for you..you just have to find her..maybe your trying to hard to find her ..and you dont realize she is right in front of you! good lucK!

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Ok, Im going to get married in about 6 months to a year. I know most of you guys are like 14 - 18 and some older. But do any of you know any wedding sites? Like for dresses for me and the bridesmaids. Besides davidsbridal. Ive been to there site and store and I dont like anything they have. And like any wedding sites that helps you plan it and ect. If you guys can give me anything that would be much help Thanks.

jessica mclintock
nikki livas
als try google for wedding dresses

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My life sucks. I've never had a girlfriend, i always end up being her good friend, and they always give me that excuse of "they dont like me that way". Im made fun of and beaten up. Everynight i come home and i want to cry and i sit and i cook in my hate towards others but mostly myself, for i cannot figure out why all my friends have such good lives, and im stuck with this. Why is it that i come home everynight wanting to kill myself? Can you help me?

ok babe..dont worry ..your time will come..and all of your friends will look at you in awe and wonder how your life is so awesome..ive had days like that ^^ and you just have to live your life like there is no tomorrow and just be happy and look at everything on the bright side:-) hope that helps!

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Hello, I'm 14 and am a Freshman.
Recently I have been dating my boyfriend for about 2 1/2 weeks. We have been getting along great except for one thing. I have been cheating on him. (I know I hate myself for doing so)
It all started when this guy I was friends with told me he liked me. I felt really bad for him because he always got picked on. So I told him I liked him because I did at the time. And after a week I started going around secretly after school kissing the guy every day. (I had to make stupid excusses for my boyfriend)
Today I stopped because I knew it was getting way out of control. ( I couldn't believe I was doing this to my boyfriend!!! And yesterday I almost french-kissed the guy! It turned out feeling terrible because I wasn't comfortable with him and it was his first time kissing a girl that way!) Today I wasn't late so I went outside and waited for my bus. Me and my boyfriend were having a great time playing around! But the guy I stopped kissing got mad at me because I wouldn't kiss him anymore and now started crying because I'm with my boyfriend. (I know how the guy feels, but don't I have a right to be with my boyfriend!) I feel like I am limited to what I can do with my boyfriend becuase I want to kiss him, but the guy is aways around to see and I don't want to hurt his feelings anymore!
Please help! I wish I had never cheated on him and I don't know what to do so the guy wont be mad at me anymore...

either break it off with ur b/f or the guy..listen to your heart and see who you really like more..honestly you need to tell your b/f also ..b/c if he finds out from someone else its going to hurt him more than if you explain to him why you did it!

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