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Tough Situation!
Hello, I'm 14 and am a Freshman.
Recently I have been dating my boyfriend for about 2 1/2 weeks. We have been getting along great except for one thing. I have been cheating on him. (I know I hate myself for doing so)
It all started when this guy I was friends with told me he liked me. I felt really bad for him because he always got picked on. So I told him I liked him because I did at the time. And after a week I started going around secretly after school kissing the guy every day. (I had to make stupid excusses for my boyfriend)
Today I stopped because I knew it was getting way out of control. ( I couldn't believe I was doing this to my boyfriend!!! And yesterday I almost french-kissed the guy! It turned out feeling terrible because I wasn't comfortable with him and it was his first time kissing a girl that way!) Today I wasn't late so I went outside and waited for my bus. Me and my boyfriend were having a great time playing around! But the guy I stopped kissing got mad at me because I wouldn't kiss him anymore and now started crying because I'm with my boyfriend. (I know how the guy feels, but don't I have a right to be with my boyfriend!) I feel like I am limited to what I can do with my boyfriend becuase I want to kiss him, but the guy is aways around to see and I don't want to hurt his feelings anymore!
Please help! I wish I had never cheated on him and I don't know what to do so the guy wont be mad at me anymore...
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well it seems to me that you just have to decide who you want more...obviously you love you boyfriend and its possible you may have feelings for the other guy (a little at least) you cannot go on forever like this...you have tell either one of them that this is not going to work out...no matter what someone will get hurt...you just have to decide who you love more...
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iam sorry, i know this probably doesnt help, but you really shouldnt have done that in the first place, i mean, seriously, would u like it if that happened to you?
well, sorry for the lecure.
chynna.
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Break off with you guyfriend and tell him why you can't see him anymore... Whatever you do, try to keep this away from your boyfriend! If he finds out from someone else, he will break up with you and if you tell your boyfriend, he may break-up with you too, but if you must tell your boyfriend then that's fine too, but don't say i didn't warn you! I hoped i helped!! :)
xO Chelsea Ox
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either break it off with ur b/f or the guy..listen to your heart and see who you really like more..honestly you need to tell your b/f also ..b/c if he finds out from someone else its going to hurt him more than if you explain to him why you did it!
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well be honest to both of them and kissing a guy everyday after school while ur going out w/ someone is just wrong
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Be honest with the other guy, tell him that it was a horrible thing to do to your boyfriend, and that you shouldn't have done it..I think you should tell your boyfriend what you did too, he has a right to know =/..But you don't HAVE to tell him..But anyways, yeah so just tell that guy that you don't have to kiss him, and that you don't wanna be with him..You wanna be with your boyfriend =)
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wow.. i fyou like that other guy then def. go out w/ him and forget bout the other guy.. but if you still like your boyfriend.. tell the other guy that.. tell him you made a mistake for doing that and your sorry for hurting him but you really gotta stop.. and tell you boyfriend the truth.. if he really likes you then he wont dump you.. thats what i woudl do *AaF me*
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Alright... what some of the people said was pretty damn stupid so I'll give you my honest opinion. Yes I do think that it was a very stupid thing to start making out with another guy just because you felt bad for him. 2 1/2 weeks really isn't that long of a time and you and your boyfriend really don't know eachother as boyfriend and girlfriend yet. You really should talk to the guy you made out with and tell him that you're really sorry for leading him on but you have a boyfriend and you want to stay loyal to him even though you didn't in the begining. You'll really need to talk to your boyfriend because if you don't and you hide this from him, it's going to hurt him more if he hears it from someone else. I really hope that everythign works out for you. Getting cheated on isn't fun. I've been cheated on with all of my ex boyfriends (6 of 'em) and it really hurts. You need to be honest with your boyfriend because if he finds out later on, he won't be able to trust you again. Hope this helped.
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