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ok here is the thing...im in 9th grade and so are my 2 friends..i know one of my friends since 7th grade and one since last year (8th) and well they went out from like 01/06/04 to yesterday (11/04/04)...she broke up w/ him bc he wasnt a boyfriend type person who didnt do much..they basically acted like friends who kissed (pecked) nothing else...anyways she broke up w/ him in front of me, my friend kevin and becky outside @ dismal...and after this happened becky was trying to get them back together..and it didnt work and he walked off w/ our other friend matt and she started crying as the 4 of us (me, her..becky and kevin) were walking to the busses..and we took turns holding her and all..then i was talking to her on-line and all last night and she said how she was still crying and i said well you made a good point and all about dumping him..dont keep saying to your self "why did i do that" ...and all..today she came into english crying, and my friend and i were just holding her and all....and we stood there for like 5 minutes and all..she showed me a note he wrote to her and inside was a poem of goodbye and all..and the teacher sent her and my friend to the time out room *basically guidence but all they do is listen to ur problems and thats basically all* and they came back after like 5 mins and she was all calm and etc..then 6th period lunch i was talking to my friend about what was gonna happen 9th period bc we all have study hall etc...it came to 9th period..we didnt even sit at the table...we sat on the floor in the corner of the caf..and after the others decided to ask to get a table open they sat at the table and i remained on the floor w/ her..and at one point i got up and went over to him and asked if he was mad at her bc she wanted to know..so i asked and he said "yeahh bc there was no good reason for why we broke up" and i came back and i told her and she says "yeah there is he didnt act like a bf!" and i said "yeah i knoww i agreeee" then i went back and i asked him why he didnt want to be friends w/ her anymore and he said " i didnt say that! im just steamed i need time to cool off" and i said "then?" he said "then we may become friends again" and i asked "like a month?" and he said " i just need time to cool off" and i went back to her and told her..and she told me to tell him something i dont remember what and that she stilled loves him and i went and told him..and he like "i dont caree" and i went back and i told her..and she was holding a braclet in her hand that she always wears and i know she wasnt trying to cry and i could see it her eyes that she wanted to but she didnt want to do it in front of him..and im not quite sureee...
any advice anyways ways of helpin her??? thx (link)
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Don't tell her anything like "Get over it", while she's still sad, because this will make her cry even more. Comfort her as best as you can, but think of her feelings too.
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I have this piece of hair that won't lay down on my head. I have this hair style where you twist your hair and use a claw to clamp it 2gether. this one piece won't lay down w/ gel or water or my perm junk please help i'll rate high (except for Snake Eyes) SO DON"T ANSWER SNAKEYES (link)
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If it is only a few minor strands, just tug 'em out. If it is a whole piece of your hair, then if you haven't used ultra heavy conditioner yet, I suggest you use it and keep it on for five minutes before you rinse. If absolutely nothing works, then maybe you could wear a heavy hat around the house or something. I hope this helped.
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K heres the thing. I have a bf and were gonna call him M. I like M more then ive liked anyone. But he acts like more of a friend then a bf. For some odd reason i don't want to dump him. Even though i would if K asked me out. well every saying i should dump M. (link)
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Try to bring M out of his "little hole". If you really like him, flirt and socialize with him more and see what happens. If you and M think that the relationship should be brought back to a friendship level, talk to him about it, but make sure that he has the same thoughts as you do. I know of a situation exactly like this, and its still stuck like it is. Trust me, you don't want the relationship to stay this way. If you break up with M and K asks you out immediately, tell K that you want to wait awhile before accepting, because M might be annoyed that you broke up with him and then started dating another guy closely following M. Good luck!
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