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Question Posted Friday November 5 2004, 8:35 pm

is it okay 2 have an online relationship? he said he is breaking up with his gf! and that he wants to go out with me because we have a conncetion! should i tell my friends and family about this relationship? i am scared 2!






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luckix528 answered Saturday November 6 2004, 1:28 pm:
Of corse its okay to have an online relation ship. but the only thing about htat is the distance and u wont be able to see each other most likely. and u wont no what hes doing behind your back. but i guess if this is something u really wanna do u should talk to your family about it!

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xoxoBRANDIoxox answered Saturday November 6 2004, 1:25 pm:
Umm online relationships aren't that awesome. Sometimes the people behind the computer can be the total opposite of what they say. They could be some 50 year old dude for all you know. And I don't think he should break up w/ his girlfriend when he doesn't even know you! I think going out with guys that you already know and can see all the time is alot more awesome then going out with a guy that you can only talk to online. I have a boyfriend and he goes to my school and it's an awesome relationship. Just think it over for a while! hope i helped!

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UWishUHadMyHemi answered Saturday November 6 2004, 12:19 pm:
online relationships are just on the side deals. he shouldnt break up with his gf just to go out with you, he doesnt even know you!! but if your scared, then you really should talk to someone about it. just try tellin this guy that you feel a connection, but an online relationship is not your thing. i recently met a guy online and we had that "connection" too. but it wasnt my deal.. i swear, telling him i didnt want a relationship was a really hard thing to do. but its all good in the end. just go with the flow, but if things get too weird, just call it all off. hope i helped sweetie..lemme know what happens. just drop sumthin in my inbox.

hey, and um..about your feedback.. I wish you would have put in your question "BTW, i dont care about opinions, you shouldnt answer this cuz I'm gonna be really rude about it and give feedback that says 'u suck!'" cuz i wouldnt have even wated my time with you. i swear, some of you people are so rude and plain stupid..next time you want advice and i answer, please remind me what a waste of time YOU are. have a nice day, rude insensitive bitch.

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liddylflirtx3 answered Saturday November 6 2004, 12:01 pm:
Online relationships can be really risky and dangerous because the person you talk to on the Internet may not be exactly who they say they are. If he wants to break up with his girlfriend, then that's totally up to him. I'm not sure if you should tell your parents, it's such an awkward situation becaus online dating is scary sometimes, sweetie! But, if you're perfectly sure of this guy - then, by all means, go right ahead and meet him and tell your friends and family! =)

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VanillaFrOstingOxO answered Saturday November 6 2004, 9:18 am:
Hey hun, well online relationships can be risky and dangerous. You can still talk to him but if he asks you to meet him in person, dont do it because you never know who your talking to on the internet. It would be nice if your family and friends knew but you dont have to tell them if you dont want to. Just dont meet him in person and dont give out too much personal information .. like ur phone number, address, full name, and stuff like that. I hope I helped !

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xObEaChbAbEoX answered Friday November 5 2004, 10:47 pm:
no way!!! They could be a rapist, molestor, murderer, etc DONT HAVE A RELATIONSHIP WITH THIS GUY!

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niinax3 answered Friday November 5 2004, 10:24 pm:
oh god.. it could be someone lying to u never believe those people .. they are nasty!

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carsoooN1359 answered Friday November 5 2004, 10:19 pm:
u never know... what if it is some fat ugly old man who is making up some lame ass story just so you guys can "cyber" or w/e .... i say dont do it. online relationships are stupid neways...its not liek you can actually do anything like go out with them unless ur ideal date is kissing the computer screen, know what i mean?

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advicequeen answered Friday November 5 2004, 9:59 pm:
I'ts okay only if you know the person. Yes, if you know the person, you can tell your parents/family.

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xXxpinky615xXx answered Friday November 5 2004, 9:57 pm:
If you are scared... then don't do it. I am completely against online relationships because you really don't know who the person is. My friend when she was 12 met this guy online and they decided to meet up. He said he was 14 and he wanted to meet her. Turns out he was this 30 something year old man, he raped her and she ended up in the hospital for 6 months recovering from shock and injuries. Don't have an online relationship. For the love of God, please don't. I don't want to hear about another incident like what happened to my friend. Hope this helped.

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kris567 answered Friday November 5 2004, 9:44 pm:
i dont think there is n e thing wrong with havin an online relationship as long as ur careful and i wouldnt tell ur family unless u KNOW 4 sure they will understand but i think u could tell ur friends.if n e thing--ill put it this way i like online relationships becuz u get 2 actually kno the person for their inside unless ur 1 of those people who wouldnt go out with some 1 cuz they arent cool or cuz they r ugly.

hope i helped!!
*kris*

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chocolatekissx answered Friday November 5 2004, 9:40 pm:
i honestly don't believe in online relationships. mainly because you can never be sure if the person is who he says he is. Plus it would be really hard if you've never even met each other face to face. in "real life" you may not have that connection.

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