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Is she my bff?


Question Posted Friday November 5 2004, 8:48 pm

Well, yesterday my best friend Rachael came over, and my crush Paul came over too. We all sat around watching movies and then Rachael goes, I'm in the mood to make-out with somebody, so she makes out with Paul 2 times!!! I was sitting right there too! She knows I like him and she just did it right there I got so pissed, and shes like dude jess your a stalker so she walked into the kitchen and they were holding hands n like his hands were on her hips as she was looken at me sayen "don't look jess" so i was like wtf whatever so i sat there with the mute on the tv cuz i didn't know how to react, they walk in and then i jus got so pissed i had to call my BESTEST FRIEND courtney and when i did, she had her phone off so i had no one to talk to. i was sitten on the computer talken to some people and then rachael stands up.. and walks into the dining room with her pants unbuttoned and i was like oh my god and she went to the bathroom i then flippen out on paul and when they left rachael said bye jess n i shut the door on her. you'd be mad too right? or do u think im just overreacting?

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P4TH3T1Cx1426 answered Sunday November 7 2004, 9:25 am:
no she isnt.

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Phoebe6124 answered Saturday November 6 2004, 4:24 pm:
i defaniatly dont think ur overreacting...i mean i would be extremely pissed..oh man that makes me mad just reading that..shes definaitly not ur best friend if shes gonna do that shit to you!

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joybell563 answered Saturday November 6 2004, 3:30 pm:
you are in no way overreacting my sister just did a simalar thing to me and i got mad too. this is coming from somebody who is mad about the subject, but i think you should just leave her alone and if she wants to salvage your friendship she will come to you.

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xoxoBRANDIoxox answered Saturday November 6 2004, 1:21 pm:
Okay it looks like ur best friend isnt really your best friend. You aren't overareacting at all. I would be soooo pissed if my friends did that to me. There would prolly be a lil fight goin on lol. And that's also kinda slutty of ur friend. You don't just make out w/ any random guy that's slutty. I wouldn't make out w/ a guy unless I really liked him and was like goin out with him or somethin but just to say " i wanna make out w/ someone so how about you?" is just really nasty. So your not overreacting. Hope I helped!

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KimRose answered Saturday November 6 2004, 1:17 pm:
That is so rude... jeez that makes me mad just reading about that. haha. my ex best friend did that to me also... grr i was so pissed at her. You definitly deserve better cuz u sound like a sweet girl, i'd say ditch that "friend" cuz u dont deserve to take crap like that from someone. hope i helped.
~KiKi

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PerkyPeacock answered Saturday November 6 2004, 1:13 pm:
o dear god, i think if my friend had done that to me there woulda been a cat fight. you had good reason to be mad. sheesh. what a horrible friend. i actually don't see why you put up with it for all that time. why not kick her out sooner? bah! she's a bad friend, bad!

best of luck


p.s. make sure you don't let this screw things up with other friends

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xoshaneyney3283 answered Saturday November 6 2004, 8:59 am:
omg...you have every right to be pissed off! Try talking to Rachael and tell her how you feel!

hope everything works out!

xoshaneyney3283

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behindxthesexeyes answered Friday November 5 2004, 11:05 pm:
Oh, I'd be furious, in fact, this has happened to me in the past, and I am proud to say I am no longer good friends with those girls. Instead of yelling at her though, seek revenge. "Look like the innocent flower, but be the serpant under it." Haha, sorry just quoting some shakespere, but it realy has some truth to it. Act like you are over it, but slowly seek revenge. Next time she has a crush, make sure your all over him. Be all over paul when theyre together, not totaly all out, but just flirt with him a little bit. Obviously your friend is a freaking slut, and she deserves this. Better yet...leave her an anonymous note in her locker, like a forged love letter...and tell her to meet them somewhere..then get paul by himself and explain how you feel. I know, it sounds risky, but trust me...you'll feel SO much better afterwords.


<3

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carsoooN1359 answered Friday November 5 2004, 10:15 pm:
ur friends a bitch

u are def not overreacting. i would be sooo effing mad!!! beat her up or something

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Invincible_Once answered Friday November 5 2004, 10:14 pm:
I'd be really pissed off too. Clearly this Rachael person isn't a great friend of yours and Pual isn't all hes cracked up to be. That's really low what they did and i dont think your over reacting.

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Xo_Blondii_oX answered Friday November 5 2004, 10:11 pm:
omg! wut a skank! u have every right to be mad no your not overreacting! shes deff. not a very good friend i woulda kicked her ass!!freakin hoe!

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EMIZZYAYA2U answered Friday November 5 2004, 9:42 pm:
ACTUALLY, I WOULD BE MAD. BECAUSE A FRIEND POINT BLANK WILL NOT DO THAT AT ALL. BESIDES YOU DONT NEED HER IF YOU HAVE COURTNEY. I DONT THINK THAT YOU ARE OVER REACTING AT ALL SHE NEED TO BE GLAD THAT YOU DIDNT GO OFF ON HER. BUT IN ORDER FOR YOU TO BE THE BETTER PERSON YOU SHOULD JUST TELL HER HOW YOU FEEL AND THEN SHE WHAT SHE HAS TO SAY. IF SHE SAYS SORRY THEN GIVE HER A SECONDS CHANCE. THIS TIME KEEP YOUR EYES ON HER. BUT IF SHE JUST ACT LIKE SHE DONT CARE AND DONT CARE HOW YOU FEEL THEN DONT TALK TO HER ANY MORE. IN THE END SHE IS GOING TO REALIZE THAT SHE NEEDED YOU MORE THAN YOU NEED HER.

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