Member Since: November 4, 2004
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Last Update: November 4, 2004
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ok i been with my boyfriend for a while n we have alot of ups and downs...i really love him...and i no i do...but he is confusing me with this whole "i love u thing" i really wanna say ti to him soooo bad! and he sed it to me first....but it was n my voicemail...he left a mssg for me and he was like i love u..bye and like when we talk on the fone he wont say it....only on mssgs! and in person he dont say it either....its really confusing me! what can i do? do i say it first? helllpp wat does this mean (link)
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first understand that sometimes people can totally feel like they love you but it just takes effort to actually speak the words so don't question is commitment or anything. if you really want to let him know and want to say it then say it. but before u do know this, if he doesn't automatically say it back don't freak out. you can't go into saying i love you to someone with expecting something back. you have to say it because that is how u feel and that all u want to do is tell that person. after u relize that and say it to him give him time. make sure u don't pressure him into saying it. if he gets used to hearing from you and know that u mean it then he will prolly say it back if he loves you. people that are guarded usually say it back automatically so if hes especially guarded give him extra time and keep on going with the relationship.
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I have a problem...i like this guy justin. I have liked him for like 3 years and recently my REALLY good friend Shilah started liking him and he liked her too...they went out for like 1 week and she thinks she loves him but i like him alot and recently we started "talking" like b/f g/f... and i told my friend about it and now she is mad at me... but i liked him first what do i do? Do i go for him and say forget her or do i forget him?
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Amanda (link)
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um i say first u need to talk to him and then talk to your friend and if u really value her friendship and want to remain close keep the guy as a friend for awhile and see how things work out. i mean they could go out for awhile or they could break up soon. but whatever happens stay true to your friend if u really keep ur friendship
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