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I went through a break up a couple months ago and haven't seen this guy until last weekend. i was trying to be strong and not hook up with him again cuz it took me so long to get over him the first time around, but i just went for it because i missed him. all my feelings for him came back but he lives across the country (im in cali, he moved from cali to jersey) so i only get to see him during holidays and stuff. i have this feeling we were meant to be together and i can't let it go-at the same time its torture for me.

how the hell am i supposed to get over him again im in so much pain. a little help guys how do you get over an ex?

think about all the bad things about him. if that doesn't help look for another guy and concentrate on him.

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ok i been with my boyfriend for a while n we have alot of ups and downs...i really love him...and i no i do...but he is confusing me with this whole "i love u thing" i really wanna say ti to him soooo bad! and he sed it to me first....but it was n my voicemail...he left a mssg for me and he was like i love u..bye and like when we talk on the fone he wont say it....only on mssgs! and in person he dont say it either....its really confusing me! what can i do? do i say it first? helllpp wat does this mean

`oh he's probably just shy =D ` lots of people leave e-mails saying "i love you" ` or a message because they aren't saying it to them directly. `hope i helped =)
shan xox

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This school year, I've noticed that nearly all my friends are boys. I've never really got on with boys before but nowadays I'm always hanging out with them. Is there something wrong with that? I do have friends who are female but I find I relate to boys better.
13/f

`Theres nothing wrong with that! ` Most of my friends are guys too.. and i definetly feel that I can talk to guys better than girls. `Being friends with guys is perfectly fine =D

hope i helped
Shan

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okay.... i have a crush... well more than a crush on this guy. He is so so nice and really good looking. he has the best abs and body. The only hook to this awsome guy is he's...well.. my brother. What should i do? Should i tell him my feelings or should i keep it hush, hush?

Please Help Me.

`WELL. `What the fuck is wrong with you first off?! `NO NO NO. `You HAVE to stop NOW. `Like holy crap, this is NOT good. `You can't tell ANYONE expecially your brother..

hope i helped
Shan

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I meet this guy at my best friends school dance. We danced and talked, and he seemed pretty cool so i gave him my number. Well a day later he texted me on my phone to say hi and to just see what i was doin that night. We haven't actually talked on the phone yet, but it has only been 3 days since i met him. Should i call him, or wait to see if he calls me?

And if i do call, what should i say???????

`Call him up. `The tell him you had a great time the other night. `Then ask him if he'd like to hang out sometime. ` I'm sure he'd love to!

hope i helped
Shan

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I was wondering any tips on helping me lose weight. I use to be pro at it and had a good diet and exercised... then I got my license and I have just gained gained gained! I'm not fat or anything I am 5'7 130lbs but i use to be 110 and thats where I would like to go. I know ALOT about losing weight and calories and exercise but i was wondering if anyone could give me tips that they think works that isn't the regular, cut your calories exercise more deal?

`Well just cut off all the extra fat off with a knife =]

hope i helped
Shan

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ok, well, i was babysitting the other night for these people and they were each going off to do their own thing. well, the mom left first, and the dad was supposedly leaving pretty quickly after, but instead he hung around for awhile. i was like, ok, um..why am i here if youre gonna sit around? well, i soon found out. he wasnt going anywhere. he put his kids in thier bedroom while i was cleaning something up, and he came up behind me and started grabbing me. he told me that if i yelled, hed kill me. well, i punched him where the sun dont shine and he let me go, but im sure that if i hadnt got away, he would have attacked me. but now i dont know what to do. he didnt rape me or anything, so should i really tell someone about it? all he did was grab me. they cant put you in jail for that, can they? im just wondering what i need to do about him....im supposed to go babysit again next week, and i cant exactly tell her why i dont wanna do it..so...HELP PLEASE

`wow. `sounds pretty serious. `hun, you should really tell someone. `don't go over and babysit, because you might get in an even bigger situation. ` tell your mom, or a counselor, or even a friend. `but im not sure u can go to jail.

hope i helped
Shan

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Okay here is my problem, I have a boyfriend and i was sorta upset... i shouldn't of done what i did..... i went down to my ex boyfriend's house and i was talking to him and then one thing led to another and we sorta kissed... okay we did kiss ALOT! I love my boyfriend with all my heart and i am afriad if i don't tell him what happened that my ex will, so he could break me and him up! So should i tell him or not.... maybe i could get away with him not knowing and everything will be fine! But then again i am always thinking about it and it gets to me. Please help me Thanks alot.

`I think you should tell him. It's better for him to hear from you, then anyone else. `Maybe if you tell him the truth and tell him you're truly sorry and you love him, he just might forgive you.

hope i helped
Shan

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but would you ever have sex with a man ? answer that..

`well not now, im only 13, but i guess if you want to .. ?

hope i helped
Shan

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would you ever have sex with a guy ??

`well i quess that would depend on if you really love the quy and if you're willinq to qet pregnant.

hope i helped
`Shan

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Katie Wagner

i didn't "pose" off of her, i just thought it was a cool idea, so i made my own.

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umm a friend of mine has this.did you pose off of her?????????????????????

well, whose your friend?

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