Okay here is my problem, I have a boyfriend and i was sorta upset... i shouldn't of done what i did..... i went down to my ex boyfriend's house and i was talking to him and then one thing led to another and we sorta kissed... okay we did kiss ALOT! I love my boyfriend with all my heart and i am afriad if i don't tell him what happened that my ex will, so he could break me and him up! So should i tell him or not.... maybe i could get away with him not knowing and everything will be fine! But then again i am always thinking about it and it gets to me. Please help me Thanks alot.
ask_the_becsturr answered Sunday October 31 2004, 12:43 pm: there is no such thing as a secret.everything comes out eventiaully. your boyfriend wont be happy but i'm sure he'd ratehr hear from you than from your ex. i'll take a while to gain back his trust but just keep being faithful and reassure him that you love him and that your really sorry about what you did. give him some time to be angry and eventiaully im sure taht everything will be ok.
PRECiiOUSx answered Sunday October 31 2004, 9:44 am: `I think you should tell him. It's better for him to hear from you, then anyone else. `Maybe if you tell him the truth and tell him you're truly sorry and you love him, he just might forgive you.
babycakes answered Saturday October 30 2004, 5:17 pm: iya hun
if you love your boyfriend you should tell him it will make you feel so much better and if ypu were him im sure you'd rather hear it from him than frm his ex girlfriend because that will just hurt him even more.if you think your gonna get away with it trust me hun u wont jst be honest n maybe he loves you enough to make it work but make sure you never do anything like this again
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gud luk hun xxxx [ babycakes's advice column | Ask babycakes A Question ]
bumdinger27 answered Saturday October 30 2004, 5:03 pm: You should tyell your boyfriend everything that happened, basically every detail. It happened to me, and I am happy that my boyfriend told me (it was at the beginning of our relationship) we have moved on and now are closer to each other, but one thing that has bothered me is that he took so long to tell me, I found out from the girl before him and that made it worse. Tell him right away and tell him how much you love him and how much he means to you that it was a big mistake and you will do anything to regain his trust again. [ bumdinger27's advice column | Ask bumdinger27 A Question ]
XXoHanny answered Saturday October 30 2004, 3:23 pm: listen>>> you need to tell ur boyfridn and te4ll him ur srry and if he says that hes pissed go fir your ex he offesilly like you>> hope it works good luk!!! [ XXoHanny's advice column | Ask XXoHanny A Question ]
Reesespieces022 answered Saturday October 30 2004, 3:13 pm: Relationships are based a million percent on honesty. maybe you'll get away with him not knowing, but what about the next time you have something to hide from him. And think about it- don't you want your boyfriend to always tell you the truth? i would tell him- he'll probably get mad, but if you guys love each other like you say you do, a hookup with an ex can be gotten through. and i hate to be straight foward, and idk about you, but if i didn't tell my boyfriend, id feel pretty guilty the next time i kissed him.
i hope this makes sense...good luck and message me if u need anything else. [ Reesespieces022's advice column | Ask Reesespieces022 A Question ]
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