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Member Since: October 4, 2004
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Last Update: November 15, 2004
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at my school there a girl who everyone likes and a boy who everyone likes..how do i make myself like that girl so the guys like me? (link)
ugh! every school has the 2...i would just try to stand ot a little, go up to the guys yourself and talk, leave a note in their locker...just start something yourself don't wait 4 them to come 2 u...hope i helped!


im a girl and my best friend is...well a slut...i really hate to say that about her but she is...shes really really pretty (and she knows it) and she has a boyfriend but she shows guys her underwear and she lets ppl touch her...i am a little jealous about how she looks but how can i stop? (link)
ok i think u went to far with the whole slut thing...i mean this is ur friend, bu 4 the jealous thing, just have ur friend give u a makeover and since it is ur friend u will somewhat look like her. hope i helped!


i dont know if i fat or skinny... my brtoehr always get made fun of from my brother being fat but all my friends say adriane ur skinny...but idk what do...im 13 and i wear 14 slim cuz im short but idk...what should i do or think?


signd,
confused (link)
confused,
it depends how u look at it, personally i think that is skinny, i mean that is wieghing in the what high 80s thru low 90s and that skinny. since ur confused shows that ur not, because believe ppl who r fat know their fat...plus most ppl who think they r fat r skinny twigs or just broad. hope i helped!


My best friend I and both like the same guy. He recently asked her out, and now everyone thinks that I'm mad at her; and I'm not!! I think that she might belive what thery're saying, and I don't want our friendship to fall apart. PLEASE RESPOND ASAP!

~Liz (link)
just go straigt up to her and tell her your not. it is that simple and who cares what other people think, if they think your that mad that they will spread rumors screw them.


Okay here is my problem, I have a boyfriend and i was sorta upset... i shouldn't of done what i did..... i went down to my ex boyfriend's house and i was talking to him and then one thing led to another and we sorta kissed... okay we did kiss ALOT! I love my boyfriend with all my heart and i am afriad if i don't tell him what happened that my ex will, so he could break me and him up! So should i tell him or not.... maybe i could get away with him not knowing and everything will be fine! But then again i am always thinking about it and it gets to me. Please help me Thanks alot. (link)
oh, not the right move, but don't feel bad, its already happened and u need to take responsibility and tell him exactly what u said without the end...and if he really likes u then he might just get mad but u will still be together and just nvr do that again. hope i helped


i have this really long closet...and im just wondering if there is any ways i can re-organize... (link)
go shopping and get a bunch of clothes to fill it up with, then get shelves and paint them so u can put shoes and such on them. get like posters and stuff, anything u think looks good pretty much. i mean its ur closet and nobody is going to c it, hope i helped


Ok this may sound really weird but lately ive been having this thick white discharge. Does any1 know what that can be and why im getting it? 16/f (link)
there is nothing to worry about, u get this right before your period, but if u need to know anything else about ur period, i would suggest going to your mom, she has been through exactly what ur going thru


Ok, I"m in a guitar Club at my school, and for a Spring Rally, we're going to Play I belive a country sound called,"When you say nothing at all" I'm not sure who sings it, it was origionally sung by a guy, but they remade it recently and it was by a girl,if you could give me the name of either of them, it would be a GREAT favor. I bleive it's 2 people singing it? or somthing? I think one of them is Cross or somthing? please help, I was assigned to find the lyrics and Chords, if you could give me the singers name, it would do much for me, thanks

*I rate 5's for all attempts*


~Signed~
Tone Deff (link)
the guy is keith whitley and the girl is alison krauss. hope i helped!


Well, i know for all of my life, my sister has been calling me fat..and recently my friend just called me fat...but later he went on to say he was joking..
Well, i am a 13 year old female..i am around 5'4 and i weigh about..150...
And if i am fat..does anyone have any ways to lose weight?
Thanks..
DazedxANDXConfused
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the best way to lose wieght is just run around your neighberhood with your dog (if u have 1) everyday, and eat healthy, u can also have desert every once in a while but make it very little, and make sure to eat less at meals. hope i helped.


there are no cute boys but 1 but i don't really like him..by looks..he looks like a girl..lol cause his features looks like blush and mascara..its quite funny..but he has a good personality..also i want him 2 ask me to the dance or atleast out..how do i do that..ugh HELP (link)
i am glad that u c the most inportant side of him, and that u still like him. for him asking u 2 the dance or out, u have to find out if he likes u first so just ask ur friend to tell his friend to ask then when they get the answer, if it is a yes then good 4 u. then all u have to do is ask him yourself because we girls don't usually know it but guys r really shy when it comes to girls. but if ur also shy then ask ur friend to ask 4 u.
hope i helped!


i got my eyebrows waxed about 1-2 months ago but it is still white around my brows what can i do to have it back to my skin tone without have to tan because i dont really want a tan face because im not really tan myself and i dont really want to get tan. (link)
hmm..i don't really know what to tell u, because i have never gotten my eyebrows waxed. but maybe next time u shouls pluck them instead or have ur mom help. but for right now just use makeup to draw on eyebrows until they grow back.


my cousin got me and her boyfriends brother 2 talk. and well he goes 2 my school now, hes a sophmore and im a freshman. we "got to know each other" for about 2 weeks. and we were just friends with benefits, and well after the two weeks he finaly asked me out, and its almost 2 weeks that weve been 2gether. and we are really close! and were planning on having sex, and were both virgins! im just nervous! any advice?! (link)
wow, 2 weeks? i would wait longer and get to know him better if i were u. but it is up to u and u r a 100% sure and comfortable then go ahead, but make sure to use protection!


hi. im 15 and my bro is 17 and he has alot of hot friends that are always at my house... and they are OBSESSED w/ me... there always like touching me and telling me how hott i am and like hey sexy and uh more feeling.. lol. im not going to lie.. i like it.. what girl wouldnt like attention from hotties.. but its gets annoying.. and sometimes its uncomfortable.
should i do anything (link)
it depends if it makes u comfortable or uncomfortable. if it is uncomfortable then u should stay further away from them and maybe even tell a parent. but if it is fine then just keep on doing wat ur doin. hope i helped!


ok well today i found out that my best friend has a third degree heartblock and soon will most likely need a pacer...all her life tho her doctor has been telling her she had a "heart murmur" but wut it realli was, was the echo from her heart not workin right..n me, her, her sister n her parents r havin a realli hard time trying not to cry n stuff bcuz eventually it can kill her...im realli upset cuz shes like a sister to me weve been neighbors/bestest friends ever since i can remember n have done everything..well my questions r

Can this kill her netime soon?
How can me n her sister help her get thru it?
And can her mom sue her doctor for telling her tha wrong information all these years??
Thanx ill rate u a 5~! (link)
omg, i am so sorry to hear that. that is so sad, it made me want to cry. i am not a docter or anything so i can't tell u if it will kill her netime soon, i sure hope not tho. u and her sister can help by making her feel more comfortable with the situation, and by telling her how much u luv and care about her and how she will get thru it. and for her mom, get a new doc. and if i was her i would go to court. i really hope i helped.


so is it okay 4 your boyfriend to call you baby but you wanna call him something other than "babe" but not like hunny, hunnybun, or other corney names?! like call him baby too or would that just be weird?? (link)
well, that depends. u shouldn't care if it sounds wierd to other people. just ask him if that would make him uncomfortable and if it doesn't then go ahead but if it does then ask him what he would like to be called. if he says babe then just come up with something together. if your a couple u should be able to come to an agreement.




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