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my cousin got me and her boyfriends brother 2 talk. and well he goes 2 my school now, hes a sophmore and im a freshman. we "got to know each other" for about 2 weeks. and we were just friends with benefits, and well after the two weeks he finaly asked me out, and its almost 2 weeks that weve been 2gether. and we are really close! and were planning on having sex, and were both virgins! im just nervous! any advice?!
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2 weeks is a very short time to be going out and decide that you're going to have sex. Hold it off for marriage or till u've been going out for at least a year. It's a very serious issue and u could become pregnant. I wouldn't take any chances and stick with abstinence. He's young and u obviously r young, so just wait. When it comes to sex you should be aware of the outcome of the situation, a baby, STD's, or even parent rejection. If ur nervous u're obviously not ready. Even if u use protection u have a chance of getting pregnant or getting an STD.
Sex can only occur when u truly love someone not when ur really close. Im really close to my best friend, but that doesn't mean I would have sex with him. Make a smart decision;)
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im not gonna comment on saying anything about waiting untill ur married or anything but if u really feel comfortable then go ahead but make sure u use a condom or something or else u will prolly end up pregnant hope i helped
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wow, 2 weeks? i would wait longer and get to know him better if i were u. but it is up to u and u r a 100% sure and comfortable then go ahead, but make sure to use protection!
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Okay... first of all... WHOA. You've known him for HOW LONG? like a month and a half? and you've been with him for 2 weeks? Most couples even at our age don't even start to have sex until after they've been with eachother for 8 months to a year. I really hope you don't decide to have sex with him because you haven't known him for that long. But hey, it's your choice. I just suggest you use a condom and please be safe. Hope this helped.
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wow your having sex after 2 weeks .. well idk but if your ready go ahead just remember that you cant do anything wrong bc he wont know since hes still a virgin too. have fun! hope i helped! -kayla
ps. use protection!
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Use protection..don't do it if you don't want to..if you are that nervous about it wait..don't jump right into things and if he's forcing you to do this then tell him no and leave! Not too much of a help sorry!
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