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hey howd u make ur background?

Well I went to paint and used a plaid pattern and then wrote in a font I downloaded at fontface.com. After you can upload it to a server and then you have a backround



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how do you get rid of zits fast...please dont tell me toothpaste, or proactive! thanks xNoS`

Pop them then apply rubbing alcohol or just apply rubbing alcohol. Be sure to add lotion right afterwards.


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Hi!! I was wondering what font you use for your background? I love it!!

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I used cheri liney, I hope that helps, you can download it at fontface.com.


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Ok whenever me and my boyfriend makeout he rubs me(with clothes on) and i dont know what i should do to him (when we're making out and he's rubing me). please help!!!

Well is it a bad rubbing. I mean a rub on the shoulder or cheek isn't that bad, but if it's somewhere u dont approve of, just talk to him and let him know what u feel. Talking works out everything. I hope u overcome your rubbing issues.


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uhh..ok this is really dumb...Ok well a week ago I had a dream that I had sex with my teacher...he is like 48 or something and I'm in the 8th grade and now when I'm in his class day dream about it...I mean its gross because he is ...my teacher..but i dont want to tell my friend because they will think i'm crazy! what do i do and what does it mean?

Its ok to have hormones and affection, but not towards teachers. I kind of went through something like that when i dreamed my teacher raped me. You're just a minor and most likely he's married, since most teachers are. Just stick to guys your age, cuz they last longer. Trust me and plus, older guys are uglier than younger guys.


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Okay, theres this chickk that goes to my school. I was haveing such a good day cuz I got my hair cut and I got stuff to scrunch my hair, and I thought I looked soo nice. EVERYBODY was complimenting me, and I've never got any compliments from any of these, like my best friend amanda told me i looked pretty, and I've never been told that i was pretty before so it was really cool. But this one chick, shes supposed to be one of my best friends, says I look really bad, and I'm trying to looklike one of my other best friends named Justine, But i wasn't, because Justine doesn't even scrunch her hair! And my belt had broken that day and It wasn't cuz of me, it was because I wore it like everyday and it was fallen apart, it was my favorite belt, and I like put pins in it so it wouldn't break anymore, and then of course I said. "look at my belt" in front of her, and she said "That's what happens when your fat" and I'm like "Dude your mean" and shes like "Truth Hurts", I dunno, she was never mean before, Do you think she was just mad that everybody was complimenting me and not her??

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It's obviously jealousy. Everyone can be a individual and have their own style. She just needs to stand her ground. If she's really that rude, she doesn't deserve to be your friend. It kind of reminds of the movie mean girls, but im not saying to ruin her life, but just leave her alone and don't talk to her anymore.


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Well i have a question, how do u rate someone/

Well after i post this it should say rate this advice. So click that when u want to rate advice.

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i just recently had sex and im worried im pregnet...what are some signs that your pregnet?

No period, a bigger stomach (sometimes), puking-like morning sickness, but thats all I can think off. If ur so worried why didn't u use abstinence?


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My friend amy has a boyfriend named Beau! They are what like 13 years old and 13 years old.. They havent been going out very long, but Beau wants to go n a shower with her n i dont want this to happen.. what should i do

First of all, why on earth is he at her house? He has no right to see her body and if she says no, Hes just a perv. What u should do is stop it before it's too late. Thats the time when she cleans her body and sicko who would want to watch that has no right being her boyfriend. Talk to both of them about it.
If u need any more help just post it. Id love to help.


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when should it be okay to have sex?

When you're married to a person you truly love, then it's okay

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Hey, I am a helper for my church's sunday school class. The class I teach is made up of 4th and 5th graders. Well one of the 4th graders suffers from a disease, I dont know what its called..But he cant really focus on things. Its sort-of like ADHD but worse. So anyway, instead of him listening to the storys and doing crafts hes out of control. Sometimes I have to get his mom so she can calm him down. I told her that I would play with him while the other kids listened to the teacher every sunday. But I dont know what stuff we could do. Does anyone have any ideas? I also have to keep him quiet...so I dont know. I was thinking about coloring but hes a boy and I dont thinks little boys like to color. Thanks and I will rate:)

Good job for wanting to help out with him and at church that really shows alot of dedication. You guys could play legos. They take alot of brainwork to figure out how the pieces will go together to build a certain assignment. Give him an idea of what tobuild and watch him build it and help him when he needs it. Good Luck!


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i have problems sleeping at night...i always imagine that somethings in my room or someones trying to break in and i feel really uncomfortable. also, when i blow dry my hair, sometimes i freak out because i think of someone on the news that went missing or was murdered and i feel like theyre standing right behind me haunting me..also at midnight, or late, when im walking down the hall, i always run just in case someone is follwing me...whats wrong with me and what should i do

I have the same problem. Most people do. Its just paranoia. What u can do is think of a song or something that makes u really happy. Good Luck and fight your fears.


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Omg! You're column is so cool! lylas!

Thank you

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A big problem. Ok... I'm in student government at my school. Were freshmans and are shut down for our ideas... even our teacher doesn't support us. Well, we have connections with stores and radio stations- and we want to organize a fashion show. I mean it's a huge responsiblity and were worried guys and girls won't come, and where thinking of dinners and so on. Please, give me some ideas on how to work this thing.. how to organize, promote, ANYTHING! Thanks- I rate higghhh

I think it would be a great thing to have a fashion show. What would be a great idea, is post up any fliers about the event up. Once u do that, everyone at ur school can some how find out-through the flier or through a friend. A great place to hold a fashion show is either at the mall or in ur gymnasium. Good luck and make sure u take donations for the event or have a fundraiser to put it on.

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Hey, is there any way to get rid of a cold/sore throat quickly? like by the weekend? If there are any remedies or things anyone can think of to help me that'd b greatly appreciated! thanks so much

If u live in a warmer area you might want to try running becuz it will make a sweatand u'll sweatthe cold off. For the sore throat take a cough drop and plenty of water. Also, u can try gargling lukewarm water with salt in it. Good Luck!


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Please does n-e-body know a website where a 14 year old girl can get a job!!!!!Heelllpppp please I need a job quick to help around the house.

It's best to either get a babysitting job or a fast food joint job. Many people r looking for young faces. I don't think any website will help u, unless ur area has a job finder website.
I hope that helps!


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my cousin got me and her boyfriends brother 2 talk. and well he goes 2 my school now, hes a sophmore and im a freshman. we "got to know each other" for about 2 weeks. and we were just friends with benefits, and well after the two weeks he finaly asked me out, and its almost 2 weeks that weve been 2gether. and we are really close! and were planning on having sex, and were both virgins! im just nervous! any advice?!

2 weeks is a very short time to be going out and decide that you're going to have sex. Hold it off for marriage or till u've been going out for at least a year. It's a very serious issue and u could become pregnant. I wouldn't take any chances and stick with abstinence. He's young and u obviously r young, so just wait. When it comes to sex you should be aware of the outcome of the situation, a baby, STD's, or even parent rejection. If ur nervous u're obviously not ready. Even if u use protection u have a chance of getting pregnant or getting an STD.

Sex can only occur when u truly love someone not when ur really close. Im really close to my best friend, but that doesn't mean I would have sex with him. Make a smart decision;)

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I really need help finding the Wonder Years Theme song. If any one knows of a site that will definetely have it, could u please notify me. Thanks

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i really want to become a vegetarian, but i dont know the right way to do it. i dont wanna be a vegan because i love milk and cheese wayy too much. but is just not eating meats the right way to do it so i'll still be healthy? i'll still eat eggs and stuff, but if i just dont eat meats will i be okay? any vegetarians here would be greatly apprecied!

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If u become a veg. u're going to have to become a exercise nut becuz u need meat proteins to help digest food making u gain extra pounds withhout it. I suggest u stay as u r unless u trully want to exercise everyday.

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ok well I just found out that I was pregnant yesterday. I told my bf and all and he was really really really upset and he kept telling me that he wasnt ready for a baby right now. I am 15 and he is 16 and neither one of us are ready. He told me that his dad would make him drop out of school and get a full time job and all and i dont want that to happen. He was already in trouble with his parents because of his grades and all and went to see him yesterday but we just met in town when he got off of work and he wasnt suppose to. I wouldnt let him leave and when i finally did he was in a hurry and he it his cousins car cause she parked right behind him and didnt know she was there. now his dad took his truck from him and he is in trouble and he has to pay for her car by himself. I dont know what is goin to happen. I dont know what i should do. Should I break up with him so he wont have so much to worry about or what???? Someone plz help

Every child needs a mom and a dad, but mostly caring parents of that mom and dad really make a difference. Whats best to do is not break up with him, but once u have the baby u might want to think about either keeping it, but babies have some many needs, or you can put it up for adoption. I know u think that after all that pain why would I want to give it up, but there'ssome couples that aren't alowed to have children or have a genitial problem. Do whatever you feel is best and remember, next time... use protection.

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