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hey.. lately.. its been really wierd for me to go through school without hating myself. theres always sumone that brings me down completely, or ppl really just dont care bout what i feel. there are times when i dont even kno where i belong and ppl totally care about this other girl... shes like the only one that anyone ever talks about. she was like my bestest buddie until some
"current things" happened... :/ because of that, i havent gotten the courage to talk to her anymore cuz i feel so inferior around her. idn what to do to make myself feel better... help.

wow..you just really need to find someone you can talk to..like a friend parent counselor ANYONE b/c this sounds serious. what happened to u and ur friend? is it worth it? i'd talk to her and get ur friendship back so u dont hafta have this low self esteem all the time. DONT feel inferior, your not, and no one can tell you that you are. people really truly do love u and i hope i've helped u. if u need someone to talk to u can always IM me im here!

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im a junior at CSHS and im kinda a good football player, but i totally have a crush on this freshmen girl at colleyville heritage. I think she likes me too because im on here advice page. but im too shy to talk to her because shes soo hott. I even went on this retreat because i wanted to get to know her better. what should i do?

i wish!!!!

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Hey Becky i have a question..
well im a freshman at ghs but i like this older guy...what year differences between girls and guys do u think is ok and when does it get too much?

for freshman i think that anywhere up to a junior is ok..definitly not a senior i think thats too much

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who is your best friend EVER?!?!

angie of COURSE!!!!

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okay its me again, its all good now bc the guy went up my shirt and he never did anything with the other grl that he went out with for 9 and 1/2 months so now i know he likes me more. him and her broke up this summer but he would always come to my house and we would hang and sometimes a lil kiss so i knew he liked me the whole time. but shh dont tell i think u know her.

im assuming this is a joke because this is an obvious one i know who ur talking about and if it really is who i think it is then you are so rude and u dont deserve to have her as a friend she is AMAZING so u better suck it up and tell her the truth cuz i know this has been upsetting her..

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i like this guy but i duno if he likes me...he n i r totally different, but i duno its jus something about him n how sweet he is to me u no? But one problem i think he likes this other girl. i no he has a thing for me to cuz i asked...hehehe. but i duno wat to do. He isnt friends with my friends n im not friends with most of his friends...should i keep tryin to get him, or back off for the other girl? I dont even no who she is but i dont wanna be n the way.

well how about u talk to him and be like "well who do you like more, me or her and BE HONEST" and if he says the other person, then you should let the other girl have him and it sounds like yall have a pretty good friendship anyways. but if he says you :) then he'll need to be honest with the other girl and say he doesnt like her anymore. and about the friends thing..you could introduce them to each other? or if u and him have the same lunch you could switch off sitting w/his friends and ur friends..hope that helps and good luck with the guy!!!

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Ok, that guy on your adive page is realllllly hott, and I can't stop looking at your advice page thing cuz they're so hott!!! What should i do about this problem?

OMGSH I KNOW ISNT HE AMAZING?!?!?! just keep lookin at my advice page b/c i cant stop looking at it either he is GORGEOUS!

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i recently got a boyfriend, and some of my friends are starting to feel left out. and my parents dont trust me anymore. they think im going to sneak off and stuff. but if my parents really knew me, they'd know that im not a slut like that. but sometimes..i have this feeling..and i flippin hate it..that things would be so much easier if we broke up...actually a lot of things would be easier, but im so happy around him. should i break up with him or try and resolve everything with my friends?

definitly the harder thing to do, but u hafta break up with your boyfriend. like u know the saying chicks before dicks? well yeah its kinda like that, your friends are way more important than some guy. friends will always be there for you, way after you and your boyfriend break up. true friends can make you SO happy, you dont need your boyfriend. and if your parents dont trust you, then that can affect your life soo much. a good relationship with your parents is SO important. so yeah i'd break up with him. i hope that helps!

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ok so im going out with this guy but he was going out with one of my friends first and i kinda stole him from her i guess, and now we dont really talk, well i dont care b/c i dont really like her but the guy hasnt really tried to go past kissing with me and that scares me. im afraid he still might like the other grl. i dont know if i really like him anymore but i dont want him to like her again b/c they went out for like 9 months. what do u think?

hmm..well how far did he go with the girl he was goin out with before? maybe he doesnt wanna go past kissing right now and just give it time u never know. and is the only reason u think he still likes her is that hes only kissed u? ask him about it then because u cant really judge it on that. and why dont u want him to like her again if yall break up? thats sorta selfish..but i'd prolly be the same way haha so just talk to him if your worried

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should i let my dog pchcologically trick me?

hmm lets think about that one..NO..unless you have a smart dog then that'd kinda help you!! lol jk

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so i have this friend that i met 2 yrs ago and likes me... a lot and she wont stop well she hasnt stopped liking me since 8th grade from what i hear, and i like her as a friend, and nothing more. how could i let her off that i wont like her again... or atleast not soon? I think i should take her to mc donalds and let her hook up with ronald. i dont know thats what i think.

wow..must be bad if u want her to hook up with ronald thats mean..lol jk but anyways just try talking to her and tell her you dont like her like that and you just want to be friends she'll prolly understand..and if it doesnt work then just ignore it and then maybe it will stop..am i a good ADIVCENATOR or what!! :OP

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ok one of my friends just got a boyfriend and lately shes ignoring me a lot. she always talks to her other friends..but leaves me out. ive tried talking to her and she says she understands but she still ignores me. im not jealous, im really happy for her...but how can i tell her in a way where she'll finally listen?

hmm thats a hard one. what if like one weekend you guys do somthing, just the two of you so yall can get back on the same page, and then maybe she'll talk to you again. or, you can just tell her how upset you are that shes not talking to you and maybe she'll be nicer after she sees how upset you are..i hope that helps! xox

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I'm going out with this guy and i've been going out with him for almost 4 months now. But now after school's started, I think i may like this other guy thats in a few of my classes...I dont want to break up with my boyfriend but I like this guy at the same time! what should I do?

you definitely need to break up with the guy. thats not fair if your leading him on like that..and i've totally been there i know how you feel and its HARD...just go with your heart, if it's a looks issue you really do hafta look past the looks, and if its time to break up with him then thats ok i mean were in high school. just dont do something you might regret.

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ok, like after i've been going out with this guy, some girls that i found out that liked him a while ago now like hate me! Some of them used to be my friends and stuff, but now they're just being jerks. Like when i try to talk to them in the halls and stuff they like wont even look at me. I'm like being hated by so many ppl and i cant stand ppl hating me! But, i dont even wanna think about breaking up or ne thing! What should i do about my friends tho..?

don't even WORRY about them. there just jealous of you, and don't let them bring you down b/c thats what they want. and if your being hated by so many people..at least you have other friends that love you, and your boyfriend!! i'd say just ignore these people, and at least now you know that they werent true friends to begin with..hope i helped!!

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ok so i kinda like this guy but idk if he likes me and im not supposed to like him bc he used to be a jerk u kno, what should i do, idk if he likes me or anything! but hes so cute and nice to me! ugh
~help idk

first of all find out if he likes you or not..even though its totally embarassing i'd ask him urself and not have a friend do it that's more impressive to the guy. and if he likes you how about like before you like actually become boyfriend/girlfriend you go on a date and see how he treats you and stuff and if he seems ok then i'd go for it, but if u get any of the "warning signals" then just say that you dont wanna go on another date or whatever...always remember looks arent everything!!!

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