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hi im thinking about getting sims 2. whats so great about it? what are some of the things you can do on it you cant to do on the other sims? (link)
The Sims 2 is so much more high-tech than the other sims games.
it's really cool because you can age your character.
you can really make the character look like you as much as you want.
there's more than just black or white skin, you can have a hispanic person or asian or mixed, or whatever kind of character you want, the expansion packs like university is really cool because you can follow them to college and continue their education, have them pledge for a greek house, choose their major, and if you don't like them going to college, you can move them back home and continue on as an adult. you also get tons of new furniture and clothing/hairstyle choices with the expansion packs like with university you get a vanity which at any point in the game if you buy it you can change what they look like face-wise.
the houses are amazing!
you can have up to 4 floors, you can make decks that the height is about 3/4 of how tall a regular wall is
you can have a foundation for your house and make amazing decks all around your house. you have tons of new paint, brick, and other wall covering choices to make your house however you want. the floors and roofs also have a huge variety as well as furniture, windows, doors, and garden items. you can change the color of your grass along with add a pond to your land. it's really awesome because the family you create grows together. you get a different kind of bonding that you don't get on the older sims games which might be a little more difficult and take a bit longer, but it's also alot of fun! it's crazy how much you can do and i havn't even gotten started on aspirations!
you can choose how they live their life whether its money oriented or family oriented to popularity or knowlege oriented to romance oriented. it's just so cool how you have so many choices and you never run out of things to do on it. i know, i know, i'm rambling on and on about how cool it is but really, there's endless possiblities to what you can do on the sims 2, while on the older sims games, it becomes boring and old.
hope i helped and not just wasted your time!


I don't know if this is the right category but erm yeah.

So, I have really jiggly, big calves & I want to slim it down and tone it. I've started to run 2miles and walk 2 miles 6-7 times a day & I know that it should help. But what are other more targeted exercises for the calves? NOT the thighs!!!

& I have really weak arms. I can't do a single push up, pull up, or hang on for more than .01 sec on flex arm hangs. And I'm not exaggerating either. You can go ask my gym teachers. I play violin but that's about all I do with my arms. Are there any exercises that I can do to improve my arms strength but not bulk it up? I can't do push ups very well & I was wondering how I should go about in starting it so I can improve on it.

I don't have access to the gym & the only weights I have at home are 2lbs and 8lbs >.<

Help please =)

15/f (link)
ok for your calves, i'll say that the running is very good. another exircise you can do is you can stand on stairs and just have the balls of your feet and toes on the step and be up on your tippy toes and then let your heels drop, slowly, and the slower you do it the harder it gets so make sure you go slow, running up and down stairs is good and running with weights is good. for your arms i would do curls with light wieghts like very light weights. it wont bulk you up because its light but itll strengthen your biceps


i normally never ask for advice. but i can't get around this one. my girlfriend broke up with about a week ago.(yes im a dude). reason why she did was because she was goin out with me behind her parents back, and they don't really care for me. so she breaks up with me because she felt bad about all that. i understand why she broke up with me. but damn does it hurt. i mean i really loved this girl. and i still do. so my question is, how do i get over her? hell, shes all i think about. i dont know what to do. oh im 16/male (link)
ok so you sound alot like waht happend to my friend.... umm like exactly... lemme guess you went out with her best freind and then they got to be not friends at all.. umm i would say that the way into her heart isnt going out with her old best friend. andd i'm sure that she has a boyfriend now right?
i wouldnt be rude to her online or anythign because that'll make it so much worse. she'll hate you. if she broke up with you because she respects her parents enough then its over forever. what you can do to help take ur mind off of her is to just do more stuff with your life. keep yourself busy. hang out with people that she doesnt. stuff like that.

hope i helped...

message me or something i think i might know you.


Hey, So I have Long Dark Brown hair an its curly like naturally an I was wanting to try something new. School is starting in a few weeks and I need a new style and maybe even a new color but I dont want any blonde like my friend told me a lighter shade of brown would look cute streeked into my hair. So yeah I was wondring is their any like type of treatment I can get done to my hair where it can cause it to be not as thick because my hair is extremly thick and I heard about an relaxer or something idk I dont wanna do it unless I have known someone thats done it before or can have some answers to what it will do like I dont wanna end up getting something to cause it to be not as thick then lose all my curls because um my mom would definetly kill me an I get payed tommorow an I rather do it without telling her an it look good rather then doing it an it looking terrible. So I need some CUTE hairstyles with how to do it steps, An different like stuff to use in thick hair or if an hair professional can do a treatment so it wont be as thick.

-Thank you so much-

:) (link)
i used to have reallyyyyy thick hair just like you, and mine's curly too. what i would do is get it thinned out. just when you get your hair cut just ask them to thin it out to take off the weight of your hair. also getting it trimeed a couple inches depending on how long your hair is and it'll make it seem like your hair's sooo much lighter!
as for color, if your hair is really dark, i'd go for carmel colored highlights or black lowlights


okay so this guy i like is going to move a the week i come back from camp and i want him to rember me and stuff!! like he has a girlfriend so im not really scared to makeout with hi sense i dont no her so anything wat could i do? (link)
ok first of all, dont make out with him, it'll make him feel really guilty and it'll make his girlfreind want to find out who you are!
i would say that if you are pretty good friends, you know him, so if he likes music, burn him a cd of ur favorite songs and his favorite songs, or make him a "i'll miss you" card or a good luck wherever you're going card. get crafty and make something that represents what you 2 have in common, he'll think its sweet and he'll want to keep it. dont buy him something though, like a cd or something make him something so it looks like you spent alot of time on it!


14/f
k so school starts and like a month and i'm going to be school shopping soon. i was just wondering how many shirts, jeans, etc. should i buy? i mean ofcourse i've done this before but like i always end up buying stupid things and i don't get more new clothes really until christmas. so what would you suggest? also i might add i am like the sale queen haha i could find one anywhere. but not everythings going to be so yeah :]
i already have like 3 pretty much new jeans i only wore like once last year so those'll be good.

ha more questions sorry for being so long :/

should i just bring a notebook, a folder, and a pen & pencil the first day of highschool?

i know these are kinda dumb but hey doesn't hurt to ask :]

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ok so for the first day of highschool, do what you normally did for say, 8th grade, even thoug it is a new school and all, you dont need a binder for the first day, usually teachers will tell you waht they want you to use, they'll give you a sheet of paper with everything you'll need on it so go school supplies shopping after school on the first day. i usually only take a notebook a pen and a folder to keep all of the papers together.


now onto the clothes


if you already have 3 pairs of jeans i think you should get maybe 2 or 3 new pairs depending on how often you do your laundry, shirts, i would get alot just because with jeans people dont really care if you wear the same pair 2 days during the same week but it looks like you wear dirty clothes if you do that with shirts.

umm for shoes i'd get a new pair, unless your ones from last year are still in good condition, other things you might want are hoodies or other sweaters, and jewelry!
i always find that sweatshirts are very good for winter because usually the school wont really warm, it'll be warm just a little bit chilly, so dont be wearin tank tops by themselves or you'll freeze to death!! ha ha umm other than that i'd get sweatpants.. they saved my life! =]


http://s151.photobucket.com/albums/s134/omgoshxitsxmeg/?action=view¤t=homie.jpg
theres me.
only.
i dyed my hair black.
and cut my bangs a little shorter.
:]
so.
my hair lady said if i got some platinum in my hair done.
[i wanted platinum blonde scattered throughout my hair.]
it would fry my hair like CRAZY.
so im thinkin some red highlights.
or a coontail.
[clip-in]
or both.
now you tell me.
which red.
heres how the highlights are gonna look:
http://s151.photobucket.com/albums/s134/omgoshxitsxmeg/?action=view¤t=the6db168c.jpg
and on the other side.
its gonna be like it rotates.
the bottom color is gonna be more in the front.
and.
the color further to the back is gonna be almost to the very back of my head.
while the color more to the front is gonna be by my ear.
:]
now which red:
http://s151.photobucket.com/albums/s134/omgoshxitsxmeg/?action=view¤t=242627_pack.jpg
that.
or:
http://s151.photobucket.com/albums/s134/omgoshxitsxmeg/?action=view¤t=603084250073_pack.jpg
:]
and about the coontail.
its optional.
but.
it would be platinum blonde and black.
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she said you'd fry ur hair because you'd have to bleach it...
either way you'd have to bleach it for the red or the blonde


so wait a while sayyyy a month, and then get the highlights.. unless you want all ur hair to fall out?


so i'm on this diet thing... well it's not really a diet because it's healthy and safe... so it's more of an eating plan...

I stay between 1500-1800 calories a day...

and well, i get all shaky and feel like i'm about to die or black out or something when I can't have my food that I actually want- whether it's junk food or just pasta or something...

and i know there have to be days when you just plain don't think about what you're eating.


How often can I have these days?

once a week? twice? once a month? i just don't know (link)
obviously if you get all shaky then ur body isnt getting the nutrition it needs! make sure you're eating healthy foods just not eating a small amount. a good diet is actually 2000 calories a day so if you need to bump it up! dieting shouldnt be torture and you shouldnt let it make your health suffer either! eat right and excersize if you want to get thinner

good luck!!


Ok well im 14/f 15 in september and well i need money..and i dont want to work at my local krogers so any ideas what i can do for money?! (link)
not many fast food places will hire a 14 year old so i say try babysiting cousins or freind's little brothers and sisters!!

good luck getting money!

ps: you can also try making a deal with your parents.. how about doing extra chores around the house? it will definately show your parents you are responsible and show them you're growing up it's a great bonus to getting some extra cash!!




i used to have abs but now they have kinda gone. im not fat or anything but since summers coming soon i would like to know good exercises that could help get abs faster. any ideas? (link)
regular crunches or sit ups work really good and if you wanna work on it hardcore: laying stomach down on your elbows and toes for a minute without touching will strengthen your torso sooo much!

hope this helps and good luck!



okay i cant find a good deoderant that keeps you smelling good all day and dry all day..and its really hard to trust the commershals.
please help. i need as many opinions as possible.
thanks in advance (link)
i use secret and it's the kooky cocobutter smelling kind. it smells great and it keeps you dry all day! also my sisters use ban and my mom uses soft & dry. all those seem to work great but i've been using secret for 3 years and it's always worked for me!

good luck!



I got a Mystic Tan yesterday for my prom. My hands are a little screwed up today because of how difficult it is to evenly apply any spray/fake tan to hands...but that should be gone by tomorrow and even if it isn't, it's not embarrassing.

My skin gets dry this time of year and moisturizing is sometimes an inconvenience so I forget to once and a while. There were these two spots on my knees in the same spot where the bronzer collected and it looks like I have bruised or dirty knees.

Well, my dress for prom goes to the floor, but the after the prom party I'll be wearing a skirt. I'm trying to moisturize those spots now to smoooth it out, but how can I get rid of those by tomorrow night? (link)
this happends to me alot and it goes away pretty quickly if you mix together a little bit of baby oil into the lotion you use. it works great!!



good luck and have fun at prom!!!
hope this helps!


can someone clearly explain to me in detail exactly
what birth control does... like what's up with this whole
"skipped period" stuff! thanks! (link)
birth controll is something either a pill or a patch that you take to keep from getting pregnant if you are sexually active. many girls over the age of 18 use birth controll to regulate their periods. birth control doesnt make you skip periods but it does make it so every period is 28 days apart every time. it makes it soooo much easier!

good luck and hope this helps!




I have this weird thing in my nose...its almost like a pimple but without a white head, darker, and more tender. Its like in my lower inner nostril..close to the cartilidge. This whole week the area has been hurting..it felt kindof like a bruise. Now its this weird pimple-ish thing and it still really hurts. What is it? How does it go away? (link)
ok i've seen this on people who do school sports like swimming or wrestling.. if it itches sometimes and is black then it's probably a staff infection. you should go to the doctor and get it checked out and if it is, dont worry it's totally treatable!

good luck!



I'm currently just a friend to this guy.
He's sweet and thougtful. I told him once I realy like him, but he never responded on that subject. I can't tell he likes me or not. (He kissed me twice....)

When I write emails or txt msg to him, he will respond right the way,(I like that) but he usually just rwspond my question, not really asking me question (almost it seems doesn't matter to him).
If I asked him out, he will usually says yes, but 3 out of 5, he will cancel it or come out some kind of excuse that he can't make it.

I'm confused. Does he like me or not? (link)
1st. it seems he does like you if he kissed you. but you never know. some guys just like messing with girl's heads... not to make this seem harsh and rude but you never know. the best thing to do is go straight to him and find out.
good luck!



My shoulder hurts so badly, from carrying my backpack. It's been like this all year, and it got even worse recently. I think that it might be considered a muscle knot, but I'm not sure.
Besides visiting a doctor, taking advil, and using a different kind of backpack, what can I do to make it feel better?
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a heating pad and a muscle relaxer will do wonders for your aching shoulder! look into buying a heating pad that plugs into the wall... usually it lets you controll the heat and they last a really long time! muscle relaxers are really great for on the go its like a portable massusee


hey im a guy 13, and i was wondering whats the most important thing to girls to make a guy hot. is it clothes, looks, popularity, sports, scent etc...... (link)
ok to start off with this one, all girls have different opinions on what they like in a guy. for me, i definately like a boy that's nice. not a "niceboy" but certainly a guy that is going to treat me good. i hate it when a guy is conceited. i absolutely hate it and when he knows he's popular or hot or he knows he's like the big man on campus or whatever. most girls wont actually want to date a guy who's super hot because they end up being jerks. just be yourself and be nice.
good luck!



i really want a boyfriend. what are some ways to attract a guy? you seem like you'd know... so i just thought i'd ask. PLEASE help xoxo (link)
1st off... i know that almost all girls have a boyfreind and you want one too! do you really want one just to have one or do you want one because you like them? you may pick the first one because you really want one but you'll never be truly happy with a guy you dont even like. also, if you want to attract a certain guy, try talking to him. get to know him get to know what kind of things he's interested in. who knows maybe you'll have something in common!
good luck!



This just started happening last night... When I restart my computer all my desktop settings go back to default. I have the default background and all the icons are back like they were when I first bought the computer. I still have AIM but every time I restart my computer everything gets deleted from it. (All the screen names at the sign on. All my favorites in my internet explorer are all there but now they're all in alphabetical order... Does anyone know what's going on or anyway I can stop this? Thanks. (link)
ok well this sometimes happens with my aim at least i think its what it is ok so when my aim deleted all the screen names from my buddy list i had a bad internet connection ask someone to check it out and maybe u need a new connection. if u have charter email and internet its probably charter because i had charter and we switched to yahoo sbc dsl and it works alot better!
hope i helped!
xoxo


is being a vegetarian a bad thing?? my friends think it`s like being anorexic or somthing! (link)
no it is totally not bad. one of my best friends is a vegetarian and she is totally not anorexic. but it does make u skinny because you dont eat meats. its still ok.




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