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Member Since: October 12, 2004
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Last Update: October 24, 2004
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I have this black panch with a lot of holes in it (u know the stitching) and the neck on it is round like a tee-shrit and I was wondering if anyone had any ideas on what shirt to wear under it with jeans. I've worn one of those double v-necks and it was maroon and it looked ok. I guess a think strap tank top would look ok but it's too cold for that now. Any suggestions would be awesome! This is a hard question :) (link)
You could wear a long sleeve shirt wiht nothing on it. The following colors would look hott:
Any shade of pink
White
Red if red looks good on you
and maybe lime green


Ok well I'm having a little trouble deciding if I should go back out with my ex again or not..we went out for 1 month and then it changed I didn't feel the same way about him..but we hang out sometimes and he flirts..he tells me he still likes me and wants to go out again..its been going on since may when we broke up? any suggestions? (link)
Well i went back out with my x we ended up breaking up again, but now he is my best friend. I think you should if you like him alot and if it doesnt work out you could still be good friends. but you never now if you dont try. Good Luck


ok heres my problem.. i like these 2 guys. One is my best friends ex. boyfriend and they broke up a few days ago. Hes a sophmore. And hre goes to Ligonier. (Cord Taylor) The other one is a senior at Mt. Pleasant. (Spank Kastner) I dont know which one i like more. Mostly every weekend im with Cord and we might go tro Fright Nights this weekend. But if he takes another girl then i wanted to take Spank. Spank knows i like him though. His uncle told him biut i dont have the guts to tell Cord. My one friend was supposed to talk to him butidk if she did or not.
I want to go out with one of them that i can havbe fun with. Cause every time i go with friends, they always have a boyfriend or girlfriend with them and im always left out.
What can i do? i need help and alot of advice.

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Troublesome Redneck (link)
Well what ever one you have more fun with and what one you like better, if you cant decide then ask your friends what one you should go out with, cuz if they always have there boyfriends with them and you dont have anyone you should pick one they like too but most importantly pick the one you like the best.Good luck


Ok, I am dating this guy, we have been together for a while now and every time I go somewhere, my mom doesn’t want me to be with him, my mom hates him basically… and I wish she didn’t cuz I really love him and he loves me, but it is hard with my mom, so every time I go somewhere with a friend of mine, I sneak him with us, and every time I go anywhere, I sneak to his house or whatever. We’re not having sex, but we are getting to know each other pretty darn good. And I hate having to sneak him with me, but it is the only way we can spend time together, and I feel really bad having to lie to my mom to spend time with him. I’m 17 and I believe my mom should let me see him…what should or could I do to improve my situation…he knows how bad I feel having to lie to see him, but I love him and it will be worth it in the end. I just don’t know what to do, I don’t wanna sneak and lie until I turn 18. (link)
Well you should probelly talk to ur mom very nicely dont yell at her and tell her how much you like him and how he is a good guy. That is all i can think of for now!! Hope it turns out ok!:)


i came to school today thinking i dont have friends anymore and that id have nobody toturn to if anything happened well i found out different except i still find somethings are wrong and stuff... for a while like an hour today i kept thinking of killing myself... i know it sounds serious but i dont think i would have really done it... should i get conseuling or just leave it alone... i think im in control of how i feel so it really wouldnt matter this was the first time i ever thought fo doing this... i also thought of cutting but im not the kind of person that wears sweaters and stuff so everybody would know and that whould get my friends not tlking to me... they would kill me so whatever... but is this something i need to tlk to somebody about? i think it just might be that i need some more sleep because i know i wake up tired and im tired for most of the day... like i am now. but im pretty sure i got over the killing myself thing. (link)
Well if you are a good enough person to not have dont it that is could you might want to consider talkin to a counselor about though. You should not want to kill urself. And what ever you decide to do do not kill your self or cut ur self sit down and think of all the good things you have in ur life.Good luck


im 18/m. I had a gay realtionship about a year ago, and it went on for about 6 months. Im now tired of guys and im with my girlfriend. I really should tell her that i was with this guy, she has no idea that i was. She even knows the guy. How can i tell her w/o her finding out who it was, and will she leave me if she finds out? (link)
Well i think you need to tell her if she is mad well tell her it was in the past and that you both had to forgive eachother for the stuff you guys did. Dont worry about if she finds out or not cuz she need to understand that you are not gay anymore and that you want to be with her. Hope i helped sorry if i didnt.


hey, ok.... ive been feeling sad lately b/c my bf dumped me. we went out for about 3 weeks and then someone told him i was breaking up w/ him. that wasnt the first time it happened. we continued to have these problems until one day he told me he wants to be single anyway for the first marking period. i didnt know what to say so i just acted like it was ok with me but its really not. were still acting like friends but sometimes i get some clues toward thinking that hes with someone else now. hes asked my friends many times why i broke up w/ him. he didnt want to be with me then b/c he thought i couldnt decide whether i wanted him or not. i think hes moved on but sometimes thinks about me again. i wish he would really want me back. this guy is really important to me alot. ive only had like two bfs b4 him and this one means alot. i feel like ive lost something i didnt deserve to lose. every day i wonder if he will go out with me again in the second marking period like he promised. if he doesnt i dont know wht i will do. please if u have any advice let me know so i wont feel as depressed. thanx so much! ~tepy - 13 -female~ (link)
I think you should tell him u like him or u could find someone else you may be interested in and if he doesnt go back out with you by the second marking period you should try to become good friends with a nother guy you like. And to not feel as depressed no that u always have your friends and friends are very important and you have alot of fun with your friends! Hope i helped!


Hey, is there any way to get rid of a cold/sore throat quickly? like by the weekend? If there are any remedies or things anyone can think of to help me that'd b greatly appreciated! thanks so much (link)
Get lots of bed rest and drink lots of liquids besides pop like water and juices!!


Well i am a little bigger than all of my friends they all do sports to i want to do sports but i am not good at any of them. Plzz help me to find a sport that i like and how can i become better at it? (link)
Well there are tons of sports out there that you could do if i were you i would go with basketball, tennis, or volleyball. If you wanted to be better at it you could ask yer dad or mom to help you learn how to play that sport or you could watch a sports channel like espn or another one you can think of and write notes on what they do and practice for a while then try out for the sport next year or if htere is still time this year go 4 it! Hope i helped you


i think my bf is always trying to make me jealous like he is always telling me about oh this girl at my work tried to give me her # and like last night we were talking about what we want to get pierced and all of a sudden he tells me this story about before we met this one girl got he belly botton pierced because she though he might like it and how she would tell him he would look really hot if he got stuff periced should i just make up something like he might be doing to get him jealous too or just leave it alone and make him see that it doesnt get to me maybe he will stop. (link)
You need to tell him how you feel tell him you dont really like him talkin about other girls like that!If that doesnt work after a couple days or so then just mind your own bussiness or just be friends! Hope i helped you! Good luck ;)


me and my bf have this problem see he has watched porn on tv when he knows i dont like him doing that and it hurt me because it feels like im not good enough for him and a long time ago i gave an old bf a hand job i didnt want to but he kinda made he i didnt do it but for like a min at the most and when me and my bf now fool around he told me he cant help but think of what i did with my old bf i told him to forget about it just like how i forgot about what he watched he said he cant then asked me to help him to forget it what should i tell him to do to forget it. i keep telling him to just think that it never happened but im not sure if its working what else can i say to help him forget it ever happened. (link)
Say something like please forget it. It was in the past and i dont like you watching the porn on Tv, but i forgot for you because i really want to stay together!! That is all i can think of i hope it works! :)


Well, there's this guy I really like. His name is Brent I don't care if you all know. Lol. He's really fun to be around and sooo sweet! I love talkin to him or just being with him. He likes me too. I know this for a fact cause him and all of his friends tell me and he flirts like crazy. Well, he wants to see me some more then he's gonna ask me out according to his best friend. See, I really wanna go out with him but I'm afraid if I do I might not be everything he looks for in a girlfriend and it won't work out and we'll end up hating each other and I couldn't live with that cause I like him as a best friend as well as something more. I know I should just go for it and see what happens and that's probably what I'll do I just need to know, if we do start dating and end up breaking up....how can we keep our friendship the way it has always been? (link)
If you really like this guy you should go out with him. If you have alot of fun around him and think he is sweet. Dont worry about not bein what he looks for in a girlfriend. Just be yourself around him. I no how you are feeling about the friendds thing. I have this best friend he is a guy we were really good friends then i broke up with him. He decided to go out with my BFF i was a little mad. But me and him stayed great friends and i no we will always be friends. If you ever break up with him or he breaks up with you just keep talking to him like you used to and you may become better friends then you ever were!!Good Luck




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