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Ok, I am dating this guy, we have been together for a while now and every time I go somewhere, my mom doesn’t want me to be with him, my mom hates him basically… and I wish she didn’t cuz I really love him and he loves me, but it is hard with my mom, so every time I go somewhere with a friend of mine, I sneak him with us, and every time I go anywhere, I sneak to his house or whatever. We’re not having sex, but we are getting to know each other pretty darn good. And I hate having to sneak him with me, but it is the only way we can spend time together, and I feel really bad having to lie to my mom to spend time with him. I’m 17 and I believe my mom should let me see him…what should or could I do to improve my situation…he knows how bad I feel having to lie to see him, but I love him and it will be worth it in the end. I just don’t know what to do, I don’t wanna sneak and lie until I turn 18.
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If you haven't done so already, you should probably try to talk to your mom and tell her how good of a person he is and that he really makes you happy. Then give her a couple days to think about, and go into everything gradually. Ask her if its okay that he comes over for dinner one night so she can get to know him better, and then work from there.
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stand up to your mom don't tell her what u r doing but tell her u really like this guy and it is important to you and you won't be happy with out him in your life and that if u say i can't see him i will be miserable maybe she will give in or you could say i am gonna be with him weather u approve of him or not u have to make ur mom understand this is really really important to u and its the grewatest thing that has ever happend to you good luck!!
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Does you mom know him well? Maybe if she got to know him a little better than she would be okay with you seeing him. Invite him to dinner, or a family party (reunion thingy or whatever).
...But if he has a criminal record I see where's she's coming from...If anything like that is true then she's just looking out for you like most mom's :o)
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hey! i think you're right, your mom should let you see him, 'cause it doesnt change anything, except that now you have to lie to her about it. i dont know why your mom hates your bf, but you should try to talk to her about it and prove her wrong so that she will let you see him and you wont have to sneak or lie anymore. so try talking to your mom about it to change her opinion. i'm sure that he's a good guy, so it whould work. if you need me, hit me up on aim, hope i helped! good luck with your guy, peace and love!
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i had the same problem, cept im only 15. well, i had to sneak to see him too. and i found out after i broke up with him that he was still smoking weed after i asked him not too and stuff. so he pretty much LIED to me the whole time we were together. (8 months) my mom told me i could be with him when i turned 18. but that was too long away. i told him i was gonna stay with him, but it got really hard. ive heard around that he will *F* any girl that was willing. and that made my trust for him go down even more. well..i finally broke up with him and just today he told some girl to tell me he thought this girl named corin was cute and sweet and was thinkin it would make me mad. and i told him i didnt care and good luck and if he thinks it makes me mad then f himself. SO DONT GET YOURSELF IN THIS SITUATION. do whatever feels right! you will be 18 before too long! SO just let your heart tell you what to do. and if it makes your mom mad, i dont know..just follow your heart! Good Luck! *Bethers*
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Well you should probelly talk to ur mom very nicely dont yell at her and tell her how much you like him and how he is a good guy. That is all i can think of for now!! Hope it turns out ok!:)
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You shouldn't have to lie about seeing your boyfriend..and your mom shouldn't stop you from seeing him..just because your mom doesn't like him doesn't mean that you don't have feelings for him and that you shouldn't hang around with him. You should tell your mom how much he means to you and that you love him and maybe just maybe she migth change her mind. Sneaking around to see the one you love isn't something you should have to do. sorry if this didnt help.
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yea your right you shouldn't have to lie to her just try talkin to her and if that don't work then you should just keep doin what your doin because you know that ur not have sex with him she should know that because that's really what she is think happens when you are with him
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