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well l feel that I really like this girl but idk if physcailly I can take her she seems very aggresive with a hand job but be hi d the wheel she is a lameo

if you really like her and you too are at that point of meaningful hook ups then you should talk to her
see what she likes the best and tell her what you like the best, so its most pleasurable for the both of you.
and if i recall aggressive hand jobs are better. but its your opinion that matters.
all i can say is that if you fumble and dont know whether you can handle what she likes then you need to step up and tell her what to do. not negatively, just i like an easier hand job and more intense...blah. you like fingering better or oral? and just find out more abotu eachother it may sound awkward but once you start hooking up again it will be a ton better now that you know what to do. a few surprises is still fun but stick to what you know at first.

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this is kinda a weird question for me.
usually i would be asking how i would know a guy likes me.
right now i'm asking how i would know if i'm acting like i like him.
or just for a site saying something like, how to tell if she likes you.
'cause last time i got a site from wiki or something saying how to tell if he likes you.
so um, thanks ahead of time.

Alright, i'll see if i can help you out.
im a girl too so im not sure if this is what your looking for
but i asked my boyfriend your question
and he says
See if she flirts with you uncontrollably or avoids you altogether. She'll usually all of a sudden get louder or quieter when you come around.
Notice how she looks at you--she will either hold it for a long time or pull away immediately.
If her friends are loud and immature, you'll hear "(your name), (her name) likes you!" If she denies it more than 3 times with a smile or while laughing nervously, then you can assume she likes you.
Watch for her being extremely mean or extremely nice to you for no reason.
Look for her eyes to light up when she sees you or hears you or your name.
Check if she seems mad or will say comments like "just kiss her already" when you flirt with girls.
Notice if she touches you more often (or finds any excuse to do so).
Be aware if she seems overeager to fix you up with someone.
If she stalks you, she likes you.


Ha well thats what comes straight from my boyfriend, so i hope it helps
so if you act like that then your acting like you like him

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i'm 14 and i don't know if im old enough yet but i want to get a job at abercrombie or hollister. if anyone knows from experience or anything else, how much does it pay? what are the usual hours? how much of a discount do you get? anything else you know will be great. thanks sooo much!

umm you are old enough, but high end clothing stores dont usually higher kids at age 14 cuz they want more people with experience in the work force, sry hun : (. But there are plenty of other jobs out there. Now i kno im supposed to give u positive advice..so i'll tell you some things, your 14 and y you want a job is none of my business but if allowence isnt how you roll, then being a soccer referee ( i kno kind lame) but you get payed 15-24 $ an hour thats about the same as a regular job at a clothing store! if you want job 4 the oney soccer referee-ing is the best solution, if you want is 4 other reasons such as discount or popularity boost then...you mite have 2 wait a year or 2! (sry)

:P good luck hun!

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After I straighten my hair it goes wavy after like 10min. Then I straighten it again, and it gets better. Still I want it straight the first time, does anybody now any tips I could use?


*Thanks

i suggest right after you straighten it to put some form of style gel in it to protect from it going wavy. You can also put your straightener on the highest heat and it will stay straight...but dont do that all the time becuase its very damaging.

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Its time for a new myspace layout... NOT A PICTURE...BUT A LAYOUT

Any color is fine except black

Nothing with hearts or love

Something that is fun and crazy... not too crazy though

I like swirls and cool designs

Something unique.. not whats popular at the time


No repitions of pictures... just something simple but still good

If somebody could give the website or the code... that'll be AWESOME!! thank you! I'll appriciate it, even if it's not what i'm looking for... thanks for taking the time to help

ok when im looking 4 cool texts or backrounds i go to www.cooltext.com works 4 me good luck!

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Ok... I have no idea what this goes under.. so I put home decorating.

My birthday is coming up soon in autumn.

I'm turning 14

There will be about 3-5 girls

I do not want a halloween party

I've already had these ideas so I do not want them again:
sleepovers
movie theaters
shopping
swimming
bowling

I live by a park

I do not need a budget

Has to be within 5-10 hours

ANY IDEAS???? THANK YOU! :D

ok well my friend always throws the coolest birthday bash, what she does is she buys this kit called teen mystery and it has a whole bunch of different kinds of mysteries and u and like 5 friends dress up as the characters and get books of clues and u host a mystery. Its really cool, and everything is explained in the box. You can do it at home, my friend decorates her place according to the theme and has this huge 7 course meal its really cool.
good luck!

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I have an under-the-skin pimple on my forehead. It is really painful, red, and it sticks out too much to cover up (right in the middle of my forehead so my hair doesn't cover it). I've tried tea tree oil and other acne treatments but after three days it just seems to be getting worse. I don't have much money, but does anyone know any treatments, homemade or storebought, that could help?

well pro-active is the best acne treatment i've ever expeirenced! if you get the whole line and follow the directions you should clear up in no time. Meanwhile if anyone is wondering whats on your forehead just tell them its a mosquito bite or fly bite almost everyone buys it.

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16/f.ok so i just moved to a new school and the very first day i met this really nice girl. shes so sweet, and i sit with her at lunch. ive even gone over to her house and hung out with her. shes not really the type of person i usually hang out with, but shes so sweet. but over the weeknd i met these group of girls that go to my school and tehre more my type. they invited me to sit with them at lunch and they want to hang out with me more, but i dont know what to do. these girls dont liket he girl i met the first day and they dont really associate with her. who should i sit with and how do i break the news to the other one? thanks.

p.s-sitting with all of us together would NOT be an option. thanks.

who says you have to choose? i have friends in different cliques too. Just sit with one group one day then with your other friend another day, so alternate. If you hang out with your friends one weekend then hang out with the other girl the next weekend, you have to find a balance in your friendships, if someone doesn't want to be your friend because they don't like your other friend then they are not a true friend.

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i don't know what's wrong with me!
im so freakin obsessed with this one guy, i'll do anything!
im like the evil girl in every soap opra, who will step over bodies to get to the guy she wants! im like sami loving austin on days of our lives! no matter how much i try to stop, i obsess and it ends up with me manipulating and playing games to get to him..
..and with friends too.. its like i would do anything to become their main focus, or to make them love me more, or notice me or whatever.. that i do stupid stuff!! ive tried to stop! to discipline myself.. but i cant!! and i always end up feeling bad and regretting it, and i know someday soon its all gonna blow up in my face, so help me stop please! how do i stop??

ask him out! just directly walk up to him and say it, then if he says no, it will help you get over him because you will know how he feels about you and can stop trying to impress him thinking he could possible like you. if he says yes you won't have to impress him because you know hes noticed you

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Tonight possibly, or eventually sooner or later, im gonna hang out with my ex boyfriend..who was deffinitly my first love. I like this kid so much, even after we broke up at the beginging of summer till now my feelings havent changed. I tried being with other guys over the summer, but everytime i was with them all i could think about was my ex. Reasons why we broke up were cause he thoguht i didnt wanna be with him. just little things he said. and we fought so much, but over basic things like jealousy. My friends also were a big reason we broke up, they didnt want us together.. and they told him things that werent true. Anyways, schools started.. and now we're in the same school together. I see him everyday, and it hit me the other day. Whos he gonna take to homecommin? i flipped out. Seeing him in school with another girl or anywhere, would honestly kill me. I just wanna tell him very soon in person, how i feel. He used to always tell me i was the closest thing to love he ever felt. One of the guys i tried talkin to over the summer, made me realize how i treated my ex. If i had actually understood that i did that, i wouldnt have. Now I know, and I just need to tell him i still am like in love with him, I dont wanna be with anyone else, and i understand what i did wrong. Its not that easy though, cause right now its like our second time hanging out since we broke up, and things are still awkward


In person, how should i tell him this. I have so many ideas in my head but some are commin off to strong, and i cant just force him into anything. I need help! :(

even though its awkward just make your self tell him what you just told us, you have to get it off your chest otherwise it will haunt you for a long time and if you do and he doesn'tt feel the same at least you know. or you could give me his email and i'll send your question to him, so he won't know who sent it but will realize the way you feel about him

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I feel really stupid but i just don't know wat to talk about wit my bf and i guess we like talking about more personal things wat can i ask him

that happened to me for awhile but, i find its easier to learn about eachother over the phone or online, so talk to him then and just ask stupid questions like wats your favorite color for awhile until you know almost everything about him then conversation should come easier because you will know wat he likes and stuff that you have in common, so start with the basics!

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How can i tell my mom that i cut my rist 17 times?

well i can't help u that much because i don't know why u did it, but to tell your mom the direct approach would be best, walk up to her no matter how nervous you are just say im really upset about____and its making me feel like i have to resort to cutting myself can i get some help?

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Hi! I was wondering, how do I give myself a wet, curly look if my hair is perfectly straight?

when your hair is wet, put in non heated curlers until your hair is as dry as you want it that should give you soft sort of wet curls

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what is the best kind of cheese that you know of? I am really addicted to cheese and I need some new flavors

i heart molby jack cheese with my crackers so give mt favorite a try

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Ok, this is a random question, but; is there a way to buy movies that havn't been released in American but in other countries for an extremely low price?

i think that is illegal, good luck though

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okayy... so my little cusion.lost her best friend .. this boy liked loved her for 8 months.
and my cusion secretly love/loved him too.but he thought she didnt love him.so he would beat him self up and stuff.then he started going out with my cusion's best friend so forget about my cusion.
and it worked.he says he got over her.
they dont talk any more.
now my cuz relizes she really loves him.
shes terribly heartbroken.
if that made any sence.
any way.
shes at my house right now.
crying x345354
i feel bad.
i'm cheering her up.
but not so good.
because i've never really been heartbroken.
or inlove.
so does anyone have ANY advice about how she can
like get him back or something.
haha.
or like have them talk again?
p.s
they were with eachother last night because they were hanging out with other people too and stuff.
and she just wanted to talk to him but he was being mean to her and then thatt night
she went on aim
and he broke her heart even more
by telling her that he doesnt miss them being best friends.and mean stuffff!
ahh please please help.
btw you can tell im a good listener by that
haha.

she should try to "sabatoze" the other guy's relationship, then make him jelous by having her go out with someone els. Maybe if thats too intense then you should talk to the guy rough him up a little give him a guilt trip about your cuz

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Hey, I'm getting my haircut tomorrow and I know I want something a little different, but I have no idea what! I was thinking of maybe short layers in the front and long layers in the back, but I'm not sure. Right now, my hair is about 3 inches below my shoulder, and I want just 1 inch off. I also want it to be straight. If it helps, here's a picture of me: http://www.myspace.com/go_weasel

Thanks, I'll take any suggestions! I'm really bad with hair, so please help!

i think you should get your hair cut shoulder length with layers that frame your face. Also a really good look is side bangs they may sound iffy but they look so cute/sexy. If you want something a little extra maybe some highlights!!

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is there a way that i can delete everything off my computer. i want to be as fast as it used to be when i first got it. can someone tell me a good way and is there a way where i can my written documents on a cd (not a floppy disk because i have one in my computer)? thanks. i will rate

well if you do it by yourself its hard and it might get messed up. I say call the geek squad they are really good or get someone from the company of the computer to help.
To transfer it onto a CD open up the documents then put a blank CD in, save the documents under the "my computer" section then click removealbe disc and then click save.

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Hi,I was wondering how to French Kiss someone.I saw on some websites that your supposed to tilt your head like a normal kiss but it don't say what to do after that like how do you move your head or what are you supposed to do??Can someone please describe to me how to do that?...Thanks i rate 5.

well you tilt your head as usual but don't do it as much just slightly.If that doesn't help check google. Also another tip let his or her tongue go in first and if it doesn't happen slowly put yours in, and make sure you don't stick your tongue around like an icicle just slowly slide it around, side middle other side middle back to the other side you get it, and make sure your nose isn't clogged cuase your not going to be breathing through your mouth.

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How can you tell if a girl has a potential interest in you and does resting her head on your shoulder signify anything? Also, what if she lays with you on the grass with her head resting on your stomach without a care in the world of what a group of friends think?

Rick- Age: 18 / Gender: Male

Another thing to bring in to consideration is that she is a little older than me; I am 18 years of age and she 20 years of age. The kind of person she is would have to be ambitious, inteligent, mature yet she maintains a good sense of humor, generally speaking she knows what she is doing. We have talked alot on AIM (Aol Instant Messenger),sometimes til 2 or 3 in the morning. That has been going on for the longest. We have gone out, but in groups and most of the time when we go out to eat we just happen to sit next to each or across from each other and end up talking regardless of our friends around us, meaning we pay attention more to each other...

well ask a froend to talk to her and ask her who she likes or casually throw in the question would she consider going out with you. It seems like she is flirting with you alot so that is a good sign. Another way to find out that is the hardest is just ask her out if she says no then you know she just wants to be friends but it seems like she would say yes.Plus you don't have to ask her to her face ask her online to go out with you then it is less awkward. So i suggest get a friend to find out or ask her out online.

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