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How should I tell him


Question Posted Sunday September 10 2006, 2:38 pm

Tonight possibly, or eventually sooner or later, im gonna hang out with my ex boyfriend..who was deffinitly my first love. I like this kid so much, even after we broke up at the beginging of summer till now my feelings havent changed. I tried being with other guys over the summer, but everytime i was with them all i could think about was my ex. Reasons why we broke up were cause he thoguht i didnt wanna be with him. just little things he said. and we fought so much, but over basic things like jealousy. My friends also were a big reason we broke up, they didnt want us together.. and they told him things that werent true. Anyways, schools started.. and now we're in the same school together. I see him everyday, and it hit me the other day. Whos he gonna take to homecommin? i flipped out. Seeing him in school with another girl or anywhere, would honestly kill me. I just wanna tell him very soon in person, how i feel. He used to always tell me i was the closest thing to love he ever felt. One of the guys i tried talkin to over the summer, made me realize how i treated my ex. If i had actually understood that i did that, i wouldnt have. Now I know, and I just need to tell him i still am like in love with him, I dont wanna be with anyone else, and i understand what i did wrong. Its not that easy though, cause right now its like our second time hanging out since we broke up, and things are still awkward


In person, how should i tell him this. I have so many ideas in my head but some are commin off to strong, and i cant just force him into anything. I need help! :(


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suicidalkiszxl3 answered Sunday September 10 2006, 6:32 pm:
omg, girl i am like in a <b>very<b> similar situation. but i think you should tell this boy that you still like him. you can't be like i miss you and i want you back or anything because like you said, that is commin off too strong. but i think you should deff. tell him you like him. ask him how he feels about you. as much as it may hurt, knowing the truth is a thousand times better than wondering. trust me. and then take things from there. good luck, and i hope i helped. <3

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Chicagostar113 answered Sunday September 10 2006, 6:25 pm:
even though its awkward just make your self tell him what you just told us, you have to get it off your chest otherwise it will haunt you for a long time and if you do and he doesn'tt feel the same at least you know. or you could give me his email and i'll send your question to him, so he won't know who sent it but will realize the way you feel about him

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