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Stay friends??


Question Posted Tuesday October 12 2004, 4:14 pm

Well, there's this guy I really like. His name is Brent I don't care if you all know. Lol. He's really fun to be around and sooo sweet! I love talkin to him or just being with him. He likes me too. I know this for a fact cause him and all of his friends tell me and he flirts like crazy. Well, he wants to see me some more then he's gonna ask me out according to his best friend. See, I really wanna go out with him but I'm afraid if I do I might not be everything he looks for in a girlfriend and it won't work out and we'll end up hating each other and I couldn't live with that cause I like him as a best friend as well as something more. I know I should just go for it and see what happens and that's probably what I'll do I just need to know, if we do start dating and end up breaking up....how can we keep our friendship the way it has always been?

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XxSXyKaYlYnXx answered Tuesday October 12 2004, 7:39 pm:
Hey! well being friends before you two actually get together is a really good thing! usually being friends before the relationship ends up lasting longer. Dont worry about him not thinking your good enough as a girlfriend because he already thinks your a good friend and he must like alot of things about you because yall are about to be together! if yall do break up promise eachother that yall will always stay friends and that it wont ruin your friendship!

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sHeLLbEe933 answered Tuesday October 12 2004, 7:13 pm:
just don't get mad at each other and do things as friends with benefits and just go with the flow...let me no how it goes!

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xokaylanicoleox answered Tuesday October 12 2004, 5:35 pm:
well thats awesome that yall both like eachother. and sweetie if you didnt want to date you or didnt think you were everything he wanted in a gf then he wouldnt want to ask you out .. i mean girls think of those things too like if hes going to be a good bf and stuff like that and make sure before he asks you out or when he does that you want to make sure yall stay best friends and nothing will change and make him promise that to you so even if yall do break up in the future and yall are heart broken yall can still go to eachother and everything. i hope i helped! -kayla

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missing-identity-seeker answered Tuesday October 12 2004, 4:56 pm:
TO: Stay friends??

first off make the rules before you go dating..like say when we date up no akward silences and like we'll still be frends and all that...that way its like insurance...also if you feel like you guys are getting apart after you break up (IF you break up) then start talkin to him and stuff ya noe...if it dunt work out just pick things up where you last left them off as frends...ya noe?

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XoSoBlonde93 answered Tuesday October 12 2004, 4:44 pm:
If you really like this guy you should go out with him. If you have alot of fun around him and think he is sweet. Dont worry about not bein what he looks for in a girlfriend. Just be yourself around him. I no how you are feeling about the friendds thing. I have this best friend he is a guy we were really good friends then i broke up with him. He decided to go out with my BFF i was a little mad. But me and him stayed great friends and i no we will always be friends. If you ever break up with him or he breaks up with you just keep talking to him like you used to and you may become better friends then you ever were!!Good Luck

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Sherry answered Tuesday October 12 2004, 4:22 pm:
Before you go out, promise eachother that no matter what happens..you'll be friends. It works because my friend dated her friend, and they broke up and their still friends cuz they promised eachother they wouldent stop talkin..

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