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she broke up with me.
i normally never ask for advice. but i can't get around this one. my girlfriend broke up with about a week ago.(yes im a dude). reason why she did was because she was goin out with me behind her parents back, and they don't really care for me. so she breaks up with me because she felt bad about all that. i understand why she broke up with me. but damn does it hurt. i mean i really loved this girl. and i still do. so my question is, how do i get over her? hell, shes all i think about. i dont know what to do. oh im 16/male
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You're only 16, and if she's broken up with you it's not the end of the world. You may find someone better, in the future.
I'm not a guy but i think you should go out with your male friends, have a good time, and forget everything.
It might help if you get rid of any thing she may given to you or something that will remind you of her. you don't have to do it straight away but slowly slowly, i broke up with my fiance couple of years back, i was so upset but i thing it was anger mostly and i ripped up all the pictures of us together i cut mines out thou i looked good. and then i threw anything he gave me away. felt so much better after that and happy.
but just think to your self she's not worth it!! you deserve someone much better, and you will find the person when its the right time. and you will fall in love with someone who will love you just as much.
hope it helps, good luck.
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If you love her, tell her. Now listen, tell her everything you love about her, what reminds you of her, and send her flowers in the mail. Big deal, my boyfriends parents hate me I dont care :] lol. Tell her parents one on one that you care about their daughter, alot, and would never want to hurt her or anything like that. Also say something like i know you don't like me but i really want to see your daughter again. Hopefully if this girl loves you too, she'll try to talk her parents into seeing you. But if you really want to get over her, spend a few hours crying on day, let it really pour out instead of an hour a day thing. Realize, if shes willing to leave you just because of her parents dont like you, she may not be the one. Good luck and tell me how it goes :]
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getting over things like that is hard because you don't really have closure, and if you really believe you don't have all you can do is move on with life, you can't dwell over something that's not going to change, because it doesn't do you any good. and coming out of my mouth, that sounds so hypocritical because that's how i spent my entire last year, when my boyfriend broke up with me, i watched a couple sad romantic movies, and cried. and then i kept myself as busy as possible, find a new girl, someone who will make you feel incredible, and you will. i promise.
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ok so you sound alot like waht happend to my friend.... umm like exactly... lemme guess you went out with her best freind and then they got to be not friends at all.. umm i would say that the way into her heart isnt going out with her old best friend. andd i'm sure that she has a boyfriend now right?
i wouldnt be rude to her online or anythign because that'll make it so much worse. she'll hate you. if she broke up with you because she respects her parents enough then its over forever. what you can do to help take ur mind off of her is to just do more stuff with your life. keep yourself busy. hang out with people that she doesnt. stuff like that.
hope i helped...
message me or something i think i might know you.
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