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Ok my situation might be retarded but see me and my bf have been going out for 11 months and he wants to "do the dirty" but he doesnt want to use a condom he says it takes the fun out of it for him but i dont want to get pregnet would birth control pills be just as good protection as a condom?
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who cares what he thinks its eithr condom or nothing because birth control isnt a 100%
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Nope, birth control pills would not be just as good protection as a condom because they only protect you from getting pregnant but not getting STD's, which your boyfriend may have. Don't do anything that you will regret. Don't let any one force you into doing something with them. Hope I helped :)
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If his excuse is that it isn't as much fun for him, then clearly, he's thinking with a clear head... *coughs*<br>
Don't let him drive you to choices you don't like.<br>
No form of birth control, other than abstention, is 100% effective. But if you are hesitant to get on the pill for whatever reason, don't let him force you down that path. The choice is not his alone, if his at all in many cases.
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Okay whatever you do DO NOT have unprotected sex! I dont care what your boyfriend has to say make him wear a freaking condom! Birth Controll pills usually work but it is better to be super sure when it comes to big things like that! And idk how old you are so SERIOUSLY think about if this is what you really want because you might regret it a lot in the future. If You are younger than like 18 DO NOT HAVE SEX! and if you do decied to USE A CONDOM! -Manuela-
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DONT have sex wit him without a condom... i dont think u should have sex with him period... you BOTH are takin a big risk by not using a condom... condoms prevent STD'z as well as gettin pregnant... so tell him that if he loves you enough to have sex with you... he needs to respect the fact that you want to use a condom which is best for both of you...
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Only a condom can prevent you from getting STD's so if he doesn't want to do it unless there is no condom, don't agree to it. "Before you slip between her thighs, just be sure to condomize" "Before you attack her, cover your whacker." You can't go wrong if you shield your dong." Sorry, just a couple of quotes to use to help guys USE a condom. If he's not gonna use one, then he's putting YOU at risk of getting STD's and getting pregnant. Even though birth control pills do help, a condom protects you from STD's. Hope this helped.
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first of all, how old are you? you shouldn't be fooling around like this at a young age, and i think that maybe you should wait until you're old enough. also, birth control pills probably aren't the best thing. because just like a condom, they aren't 100% safe, and they dont work 100% either. so...you might want to reconsider and rethink what you're doing before you make the wrong choice.
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Well take it from me b/c ive been there already..the smart thing to do is to wait but if ur like me n u really feel right when ur with him then i would do it, but be smart about it. I would use a condom but if ur not going to use a condom the next best thing would be birth control..Birth control has a 99.5% effictive rate so theres a really low chance of u getting pregnant. But they dont protect from STD's or AIDS and a condom will if used correctly. Birth control is what i use but i know that my boyfriend is clean because we got tested together before we had sex...so maybe thats something to look into before u do it...hope i helped and just remember if he wont ware a condom or if he wont go get tested then he prob just wants u for ur body.
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Birth control is not enough.
Just a condom is not enough.
Both is ok, but abstinence is pretty much the only sure fire protection.
Screw him (bad choice of words) and his pleasure, make him wear a condom or tell him that there will be no sex at all.
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noooooo way. Don't even think of doing it without a condom birth control controls birth not STD'z. Please, its the difference between having a kid/ getting aids....or havin nothin happen to you. And for that its definetly worth "taking the fun out of it" for him.
gl xoxo
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