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how do i get over a guy i think im meant to be with
I went through a break up a couple months ago and haven't seen this guy until last weekend. i was trying to be strong and not hook up with him again cuz it took me so long to get over him the first time around, but i just went for it because i missed him. all my feelings for him came back but he lives across the country (im in cali, he moved from cali to jersey) so i only get to see him during holidays and stuff. i have this feeling we were meant to be together and i can't let it go-at the same time its torture for me.
how the hell am i supposed to get over him again im in so much pain. a little help guys how do you get over an ex?
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think about all the bad things about him. if that doesn't help look for another guy and concentrate on him.
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it's hard as hell i know i've been trying for a year to get over my ex, but you've got it made girl you don't have to see him every single day, just start dating again, sooner or later you'll get over him, and when he does come to visit and you see him, make sure that you're with friends that way you're not tempted to hook up with him at all
*~*shan*~*
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YOU FIND SOMEONE BETTER.. You only think your ment to be with him trust me. You'll find someone so much better.
lol.. i doubt that one helped,
tifany
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wow-does this sound familiar or what?!!? ive been in a situation sorta similar....im sure everyone at some point or another has been in your situation before and im guessing you are feeling really hurt and angry and just frustrated as heck. if you have a feeling you were meant to be together then have faith in that-you never know what will happen in the future or what could potentially bring you 2 together again. But in the meantime don't make yourself suffer, go out and find some GUYS!!! While it's difficult to let go of someone at first, the faster you are able to put it behind you and open yourself to new experiences, the faster you will get over him-this doenst change the fact that you still care about your exbf, it just means you have grown as a person. Anyways best of luck hope i was of some help.
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Wow. This situation kinda reminds me of what I went through a few years ago. It was awful...I think I know how you feel. We had broken up, and about a week later I moved to another location. I felt so depressed and angry for breaking up and felt like he was the one I was meant to be with. I still have the feeling, but not as strong. But this is about you! Not me! I do believe the best thing is to keep in touch - write e-mails, IM each other, write letters. He might realize the effort you are making to keep in-touch and talk to you about it. But at the same time, try to distance yourself (a TINY bit) from the idea that you two were meant to be together forever. Just feel good about yourself and the whole situation. So keep in-touch...and distance yourself! Lol. Hope this helped.
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This guy you may never completely get over, but try dating other guys to get your mind off of him. It will get you to thinking of other guys, rather than thinking of him constantly. Plus, you will have lots of fun. Hope this helps, well, I know this helps for almost any girl. -Kayla
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I honestly believe that true love can last- even over the longest distances. If you and him are meant to be together in the end- you will be. If I were you- as bad as it seems; keep yourself busy with your friends and other guys. Don't stay all depressed and wishing on him when there's so many other options out there! Have fun while you can, and keep your options open. If something is going to happen with you and your ex- it will. Please rate me! =)
-Jennifer
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if you're meant to be together then you're meant to be together talk to him and ask him why he dumped you or why you dumped him.. Talking is the key to everything
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