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BreakUps
I have an exboyfriend that I don't like-like but I do like him as a friend. I want to be his friend but every time I get around him I don't want to talk becuz the last time we did he said why did you break up with me. I ran off so I couldn't answer but I broke up w/ him bcuz I think that i was using him. i haven't had a boyfriend in a while so i wanted one real bad so i went out with him. we hugged but didn't kiss and it still didn't feel right. How do I talk to him without hurting his feelings or making him mad? (sorry its so long)
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when he asks.. say it just wasn't right between us. and ask him if you two can try to move past that... it may get alittle dirty but it's a risk you'll have to take.. goodluck and i hope i helped
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hey hunnie! just talk to him. try to be his friends. if he keeps bringin up ?'s about ur relationship.. then tell him it was in the past and things juss werent right.. or tell him the truth. but running away from it doesnt make it go away.. or make it any better. but if u address the problem.. then it will go away. sometime we have to confront people about the issues we have with them. and just DONT go out with sum1 just b/c you think it'll b fun or co0l. cuz that other person has feelings too. and u didnt accomplish ne thing by doing what u did. and personally i dont get how u can use sum1 for hugs.. but thats okay. i understand what u were trying to say. go0d luck. hope i helped. and if u need nething else.. drop one in the inbox! c ya. L0v3. brittany
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HI!,
My Advice would be to just sit down and tell him. If he is really understanding, then he might understand....But, It's better to tell him the truth and then it won't be soo awkward being around him and stuff!!! If he doesn't understand at first...then eventually he will...and if he doesn't than screw him...you can do better than that!!!
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Even though the truth hurts, honesty is the best policy. Its going to be hard to tell him and you shouldnt let it all on him at once, but if you want to be friends with him, you have to tell him whats going on.
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damn....lol well i think you should tell him that the reason why u broke up wit him was b/c u werent feeling him no more...at the begning you thought u did like him but them u realized u didnt so u didnt want to use him so thats the reason why...i think this is better then tellin him "i broke up wit u cuz i used u from the BEGINING" or w/e xoxo effy
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I really think that you should go on with your life acting the exact same around him than u normally would if u never went out with him..if he brings it up again, roll ur eyes and be like seriously i dont wanna talk about it..and then make it OBVIOUS that u really dont wanna talk about it.....be kool about it not like mean, be just be frank..dont run off if he brings it up!!! hehe thatll hurt him even more, it realy will...
love kristin
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