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Friend flirts without knowing...
My friend has this bad problem with flirting with people and not even realizing that she's flirting with them. For example, she told my boyfriend that she thought he was cute, started giggling, and blushed. My boyfriend was rather...irritated...by this, as he can not stand my friend. Whenever I confront her about it, she swears to God she hasn't flirted. How can I get her to see that she really has a problem with this? It just irritates me to see her flirting with my boyfriend. x_x Please help?
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telling her while she's doing it right there when it happens might help every time you see her flirting. and maybe tell your boyfriend to talk to her and say something.
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i have a friend just like that! and its sooo annoying, i know exactly how u feel! some girls need attention, for various reasons but you should just be like "i know you you honestly think youre not flirting with my bf but could you at least try to stay away from him (so then she doesn't have to TRY NOT TO flirt) cause then it'll prevent all problems between the 3 of us" ...or somethin glike that
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My friend flirts w/ boys all the time 2. it is really annoying i told her not 2 talk 2 boys (or at least try) and it worked even tho i waz afriad of her flirting w/ her teacher it didnt happen after that (her flirting) try that if it still doesnt work then OH OH
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Augh i know how this is.. I too had/have a friend like this (she's gotten better) Whenever I would like someone she'd flirt with him even though she didn't like him. Eventually I just confronted her and you should do the same thing.. Just sit her down and explain things like " I know you don't think you're flirting but when you say my bf's cute that's sort of wrong.. he doesn't like that at all and neither do I... and then when you lie about it it hurts me even more" maybe you could get a few of your other friends to help you talk to her.. I also said to my friend... "If a tree had eyes you'd flirt with it!!" lol i don't know if any of this helped at all but i really hope it did! Good Luck!
~Lana
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shes overreacting. tell her that yu didnt have a hissy fit when SHE went out with HIM and YOU liked HIM FIRST! choose whoever yu thk yu have the best relationship with and which would last longer. bf/gf doesnt lasst THAT long, and friends last long. mayb if yu become b friends with him (like bff kinda thing) so yu kno that he will stay ur friend. c when she gets over him, then go. i thk yu should still just hear her opinion, because even tho she totally turned on yu, yu dont wanna b a bad friend like her. but doo as yu feel!
x00x00x00x Loverx33
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Sorry, but you don't say something like that to someone and <i>not</i> realize it's flirting. It sounds like she's just making excuses.
I wouldn't worry about her and your boyfriend. He doesn't like her she probably only flirts with him because she enjoys attention.
People like that seriously crave attention from the opposite sex. There are a lot of women who feel incomplete unless they're being complimented by or being flirted with by a guy.
There's really nothing you can do about it because that is just her personality, but you can ask her to chill out. Express to her how much it bothers you that she's making a move on your boyfriend. If she does it again, it might be time to re-think hanging out with her.
Good luck. :)
♥ Lorelei
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hey i knwo EXACTLY what u r goin through and what u ahve 2 do is tell her that hey dont care if u swear 2 god itis going on and tell her if u want me 2 i will tell u net time u r doing it and that will most likely get her atention if that dont work have ur bf tlak 2 her and tell her that it is makein him and u uncomfortable
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