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Member Since: October 31, 2004
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Last Update: April 13, 2005
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Ok i have this friend that is like a big drinker and i try to get her to stop but it is just not working what should i do. if you can help write. M.Lee (link)
tell someone else about this so that they can help you. its hard doing this kind of stuff on your own.

hope i helped

~megan~


Im a 13 year old girl. I really like this guy but the only problem is that hes kinda popular and im scared that it would be embarassing if i asked him out and he turned me down. Can you tell me what i should do? Should i flirt with him...or not? (link)
well just go for it. if he turns u down then thats his problem and hes making a big mistake saying no and to start ot make him notice u then ya u can flirt wiht him.
hope i helped

~megan~


ok my boyfriend is physco..he knocks on my window in the middle of the night and said he loves me and he thinks we're ready for the next step which is sex..but i dont wanna do that..i cant say kno cuz he said he'll kill himself if i dont do it with him.HELP (link)
well if yur boyfriend wants to have sex with u and u dont then u shouldnt be forced to just talk to him and tell him that ur not reasy yet and that when u r that youll tell him
hope i helped

~megan~


Ok, the guy i like is like 5 feet. give or take a few inches. And i'm like 5 8. It's a HUGE height difference, and idc about looks, but i dont want ppl making fun of him b/c he's going out with a giant or make fun of me for going out with a midget. We're both in 7th grade. I think i should just continue liking him. I think i have a good chance with him. What do u think? (link)
well i think that u shouldnt care what other people think just go out with him because u like him and if people make fun of both of u two for going out then thats their problem
hope i helped

~megan~


hey im asking this question for my friend val

my friend n her bf have been together for a year and 4 months and she lost her virginity to him wen they were together for 8 months and he lost his to her and they just broke up a month ago and he makes out wit other girls in front of her and makes her feel stupid he tells everyone hes a pimp and that he can play anyone so he went out wit like 4 girls aleady my friend still isnt over him because she loves him and loved him or atleast she thoguht she did shes a junior and hes a sophomore shes going out wit this other kid for 2 weeks already but i think shes wit him to make her ex jealous im not sure because she said hes just ok looking and he has an ok personality so i dont think she really likes him i dont feel sorry for her ex tho but people say she used her ex wen they werre goin out beause hes rich but i think it was love well anyways i dont have anything else to tel her and ifeel bad for her that she has to face him everyday if u have any advice please write back i rate good thanx toodles (link)
well if he broke up with her and hes goin out with other girls then hes not worth it. she deserves better then that if he refers himself to a pimp and is going out with other girls already.
hope i helped

~megan~


this is kinda long beware

hey 15.f.cali here

ok i have a few questions and i am in need of some insight... Well i like this guy and he is so flirty and we are friends and we have been for about 4 years and now we hangout alot and talk alot and we have all the same friends and what not and he knows i like him cuz he asked me in a note (we have 2 classes together and he sits next to me) and i said well you but i dont want anything to change if you dont feel the same way. ok and so after i said that he wrote we need to hangout more. and everyday almost he tells me i looke really cute and tells his friends im so hott and because they ar my friends too then tell me...we have so much fun together and i think we would make such a cute couple cuz we are both open minded people and we are into the same things... my question is what do i do? like a few of my friends are like he is shy when it comes to that so ask him out. but i am too and i could never do that. whats a girl to do???

muha thaks
Lisa (link)
well what u could do is instead of asking him out person to person then u could write a note to him saying that u want to ho out with him or u could have one of yur friends ask him out for u

hope i helped

~megan~


ok, well ive been dating this guy for a like a year, but now i feel like the realitionship is faded and i dont like him as much. now i always feel awkward around him. I still want to be with him, but im just so confused. its not fair for both of us to not be able to date around becuase we have been together for so long. So im asking advice for two things: How can I get over this whole doubtness and how can i tell him i want to maybe date exclusivly.


-lost in love (link)
well it depends if u still like him or not and just talk to him and tell him how u feeel tell him that u feel like ur relationship is fading and stuff and see if maybe he feels the same way.
hope i helped.

~megan~


sorry, this is kind of long but i really need help
Ok, im a thirteen year old girl. in 7th grade i was popular...but indeed a train wreck when it came to looks. now i have slimmed out alot, done my hair differently, my skin cleared up, and i guess i have fun grown up a whole lot more(body/face).and lately i have been noticing that guys have been a lot more flirty with me. they always liked my personality but now i think they actually see me as a woman. some of my guy freinds are always telling me how georgiouse i am. but anyway...our school resently split into 2 schools, one is across town now. alot of my freinds left, including this boy that i was freinds with. and i havnt seen him since this party i went to last weekend. before the school split, we were freinds and all, but i never really think he thought of me as a REALLY FUN girl that deserved more attention. anyway, at the party, he started REALLY to joke around with me and flirt(i think) and give me a lot of attention. plus he looks at me very differently. when i left he came over and made sure to say goodbye. i felt so special. What does this mean? Does he like me or just want to be freinds with me? personally, i think that attraction isnt the most important thing, and yet is is really important. if anyone could help me i would really appreciate it!!! thanks!! (link)
well in order to know the real truth is to ask this guy wether he like u or if he just wants to be firends, but if hes looking at u differently then maybe he likes u maybe he just thinks ur prettier but he just wants to still be friends. so ask him. hope i helped.

~megan~


I am a 15/f and i like this 15/m. His name is Bryan. we btoh like each other, but have no signs of dating at all yet. now the only problem is is that he wants to do stuff i dont want to do right now. I don't like when he gets mad at me just b/c i wont do it but i dont want to do it right away, i mean we are really good friends, and i guess u could say, "Good Friends, Lots of Benifits." i just dont kno what to do, should i ask him out, or ignore it and deal with it. He knows i like him, but he seems to ignore the fact that he does as well. Is he embarrased?

Please Help Me!!!
Thanks
DirtRider (link)
well sit bryan down and have a talk with him about the things that bother u that he is doing or just tell him that yur not ready to date him and that if he keeps this stuff up that u wont like him anyomre that might make him stop.

~megan~


if anyone could tell me how to make $210 really fast that would be great!! thAnk yOu!!! (link)
either help babysit for some one or babysit for a sibling or a cousin or something

~megan~


I kinda like this guy but he likes one of my two best friends. Everyone likes my best friend and it kinda makes me feel bad about myself and have no confidence. Anyways im friends with this guy and he's always talking about how he thinks my friends hott and how he wants to go out with her. He kinda thinks she's something she's not but i dont wanna tell him that because she's my friend. Today i realized that i do like him cuz all day in school i felt depressed and lyk i had no energy.I'm afraid to tell him that i like him cuz im pretty sure that he doesnt feel the same way about me and if i did things would feel akward afterwords if he doesnt like me. what should i do? (link)
well just tell this guy that u like him and if he doesn't like u then get over him cause then hes not worth it if he likes someone else. THen ask ur friend if she likeshim frist and if she doesnt then talk to him and tell him that she doesnt like him and that u do

~megan~




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