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hey im asking this question for my friend val
my friend n her bf have been together for a year and 4 months and she lost her virginity to him wen they were together for 8 months and he lost his to her and they just broke up a month ago and he makes out wit other girls in front of her and makes her feel stupid he tells everyone hes a pimp and that he can play anyone so he went out wit like 4 girls aleady my friend still isnt over him because she loves him and loved him or atleast she thoguht she did shes a junior and hes a sophomore shes going out wit this other kid for 2 weeks already but i think shes wit him to make her ex jealous im not sure because she said hes just ok looking and he has an ok personality so i dont think she really likes him i dont feel sorry for her ex tho but people say she used her ex wen they werre goin out beause hes rich but i think it was love well anyways i dont have anything else to tel her and ifeel bad for her that she has to face him everyday if u have any advice please write back i rate good thanx toodles
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I HATE THAT EXACT SAME PROBLEM. And I learned the very very very hard way to get over some1.. This is what she needs to do: PLAY IT OFF AND ACT LIKE SHE DOESNT CARE!!!!! Tell her NEVER EVER to look at him, call him etc [which im sure she never dOes], get alottttt of new guys friends but dont like flaunt it when hes around just like in general get alota new guy friends and kinda flirt with them when hes around because trust me he will be paying attention, ..do that kinda stuff, just make sure itseems like she doesnt care. when some1 asks if she still likes him, tell her to say HELL NO. because that will get around to him that she said that then he will be like what the hell i thought she was obsessded with me..andt hen he will miss her and try to get back with her..
i really hope this somewhat helped..im sorry for what she has to be going thru..
love kristin
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well if he broke up with her and hes goin out with other girls then hes not worth it. she deserves better then that if he refers himself to a pimp and is going out with other girls already.
hope i helped
~megan~
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well if he treats her like this then obviously hes over her....so she needz to find someone even better then him to get over him...getting over someone is hard especially if they went out that long....so talk to her and let her no that its ok to still have feelings for him just dont let it show cuz obviously he doesnt care....but good luck!
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i think u should tlk to ur friend and tell her that the guy isnt worth it and that she should just move on. she says she loves him and that may be true but look at what he does to her. she shouldnt take that shit from him. she should just move on and forget abnout him. love is a 2way street, u gotta have both ends or else it dont work. point is.....he dont love her. i kno the feeling. and i kno it sux. to care soo much about someone and they dont see u as anything more than a friend. or worse they may not see u at all. or in ur friends case they hate u. tell ur friend to do what i do. try to stop tlkin to him for a lil while and try to avoid him in the halls. and then when/if it dont hurt anymore. ease ur way ^ to him.....hope i helped.
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this is a sticky problem...i mean from reading this it just makes me mad...i would try to get my friend out of the house dating other people and just hanging out with eachother and if she keeps feeling sad about the topic then get her a big bowl of ice cream...hope this will pass over
good luck
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hey.. i think you should talk to your friend and if she says she was really in love with him for him not money or anything then you should talk to her ab telling him how she really feels.. but it seems like in a way he *thinks* he's too good for her, and she should move on and get better than him, sound's like a good girl and he's jus like the rest of the guys out there.. a lil playa not grown up yet! and it seems like he wants to go explore a little bit more since theyve been together for awhile.. or maybe you could talk to them both & tell em to go jus see wat else is out there .. like takin a break mess with some other people thn see wat happens from there
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