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ok my boyfriend is physco..he knocks on my window in the middle of the night and said he loves me and he thinks we're ready for the next step which is sex..but i dont wanna do that..i cant say kno cuz he said he'll kill himself if i dont do it with him.HELP
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well yea i would say he has some mental problems. honestly i would try to get out of that relationship. you should never feel threatened to have sex. and your obviously not ready for it. so if he can't deal with that. then you need to end the relationship.
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this is a big problem. you should tell an adult about the situation. watever you do dont let him pressure you into having sex! let an adult handle it i think your bf has some problems and might need counciling. i hope this helped you i kno how scary it is i've been in the same situation.
-cassie (rate me)
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well if hes sayin hes gonna kill himself try talkin to a counsler or someone that can help him...or be like if u rele love me then u wuldnt wanna do n e thing im not ready for and im not ready for sex....im sorry!
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well if yur boyfriend wants to have sex with u and u dont then u shouldnt be forced to just talk to him and tell him that ur not reasy yet and that when u r that youll tell him
hope i helped
~megan~
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if you don't want to have it just say you love him A LOT but you just can't have it! if he dose not listen and say he is going to kill himself he is not being a good boyfriend he is just trying to have you do sex with him. And he is making it harder because if you say no he is going to kill homself that is not really a good thing to do. just sit down with him and say you don't feel comforabe have sex. if he is a TRUE and GOOD boyfriend who LISTENS then you should be fine if he understands and won't ask to have sex untill you are ready.
hope we helped and good luck!,
..::..sunny411..::..
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if your bf is physco call the cops the next time he comes at night and say it was your mom or dad. Maybe he'll stop coming at nite
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He is just saying things so that he'd get you to have sex with him. Don't give in... not to anything. Tell him your not ready, and if he really loved you, he WOULD wait and respect you. If he doesn't, break up with him, no matter what he says like "Oh, but I'll kill myself." Also, tell someone about this who you really trust, and an adult as well.
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tell him that you love him so much but your not there yet to have sex ! i mean is probley just saying that ! guys do things stupid but it is okay to say no
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Don't give in to it. He wouldnt kill himself over that. He's obviously an idiot and you really need to say something to him about his actions. And if he doesnt listen and accept your feelings... find someone who doesnt stalk you in the middle of the night lol
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i would advise you to talk to a counsler and have your bf come along
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this is seriousyou need to go to a coucelor or a friend or someone who can help you and him...whatever you do ..dont have sex with him if you dont want too...just try to delay it until you can find help! i hope everything works out!
GOOD LUCK
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*emily(
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He just want you to have sex with him. He wont kill himself, but he might break up with you. but hes not worth it cuz all he wants is to use you..break up with him before he hurts u
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