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ok i just broke up with my boyfrend like last monday... well theres a dance comin up next friday... n ithink he still likes me but he likes another girl named caroline and he already asked her oout n everything like 2 days afta he dumped me!! but she said no.. ne ways.. hes obveously gonna dance with caroline but if he asks to dance with her but if he asks to dance with me.. should i? wat if he trys to kiss me or something? i need help! i still hav a small microscopic crush on him (the reason he dumped me was because he didnt want to get sick of me n then when we really had to break up tht he neva would talk to me again) n the girl he likes is so much bossyer like she tells him wat to wear n how to style his hair... i neva did tht!!! wat do i do!?!?

Well the same thing happend to my friend. her old bf said she was to bossy and then asked sumone else out. she was really crushed but i told her the same thing i'm gonna tell you, guys aren't worth crying over yeah your gonna feel bad for a while but that will pass. remember your the prize to be won! so move on it might be hard at 1st but then u'll relize that he's not worth it and who knoz someone else might be crushin on u! good luck!

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When ever i babysit for this one family, they never pay me until weeks later. Im kinda shy to ask for it..but what should i do?

If you want the cash you have to speak up. but be polite you don't wanna sound rude. ay something like could you please pay me tonight because i need the money. good luck

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i hurt my arm the other day and it's broken... i don't want to go to a doctor.. what can i do to get it healed

Why dont u wanna go to the doctor? If a doctor doesn't look at it it could heal wrong and your arm could end up messed up! You should def. get a doctors opinion.

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ok my boyfriend is physco..he knocks on my window in the middle of the night and said he loves me and he thinks we're ready for the next step which is sex..but i dont wanna do that..i cant say kno cuz he said he'll kill himself if i dont do it with him.HELP

this is a big problem. you should tell an adult about the situation. watever you do dont let him pressure you into having sex! let an adult handle it i think your bf has some problems and might need counciling. i hope this helped you i kno how scary it is i've been in the same situation.
-cassie (rate me)

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My friend has a dog that won't stop eating like when she takes the food away he growls at her a bites her .all he does is lay around by his food and if anyone walks by he bites them
what to do

if the dog has bite through your skin or tried to this is a big problem. if i were you i wouldn't go over your friends house. just tell your friend that you're uncomfortable being around a dog that could hurt you.
-cassie

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What should I ask first?

a)screen name
b)cell number

Shes kinda, quiet. How do I get her to open up a bit? We both play guitar... I dont know if that owuld hlpe at all.

thats awesome that you have stuff in common if she's the shy type start off slow like just talking in school or where ever you see her the ask for her screen name and gradually work up to cell # you dont wanna scare her off.
-cassie

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Okay, picture this.. if you look at your teeth not the two front, not the next ones. but the next ones.. i haven't lost yet, their the only ones i haven't lost and i have an extra tooth growing out of my gums and its like way up there, and you can kind of see it when i smile but i think its grown to its fullest. but i dont wanna get my two teeth removed because i am 14, and I'll get picked on really bad, would u get them pulled?? or would u just wait for them to fall out?? please help

i would do what my dentist recommended.trust me no one is going to make fun of you for fixing your teeth! and if you dont do what he recommends it could make your teeth worse!
-cassie

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Okay, I like this girl. We have one class together. I know shes a little hesitant about a relationship, but how do i casually get to know her (bear in mind i want to make a move later on)

Just be yourself! And if she's not into you then move on they're are other fish in the sea! it might take a while but you'll get over her.
-cassie

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My parents wont let me have a new phone for christmas. I got one about 7 months ago but it's not very good and I really want a new one. I tried negotiating with them and asking if I could have it as a joint present from them and my grandparents but they said no. I can't afford to save up for it myself and I'm only 13 so I can't work for the cash. My parents wont let me babysit. How can I persuade them to let me have the phone? Or, how can I raise the money to get it myself?

i know what its like but my parents made me buy it myself! sience you kno they're not gonna break and they wont let you baby sit try doing chores around the house. rake up the leaves in your neighbors yard collect can and plastic bottles and turn them in for cash all of this will add up and b4 you know it u'll have the phone of your dreams!
-cassie

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aight well im going out with this guy who is great. but i hooked up with one of my best guy friends last night and i made out with him accidentally. i dunno what to do. should i tell my boyfriend what happened???

ouch! datz not good you should definatly tell him because if you dont he'll find out and then he'll be even more upset. but tell him the truth dont jus say it was an accident cuz honey u did it freely wheather u regret it or not.
-cassie

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ok wut exacally do people means when they say friends with benefits??? my coach and my this girl on my teams brother say there friend with benefits but it's bugging me cuz i dont kno wut they mean by that!! help!!

Friends w/ benifits means that your not dating but you still go places together and make-out and stuff like that. basically its having a gf (or bf) only ur not considered that

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Hey im 14 and this guy is 16 .. Soo we hang out all the time but my BEST friend hates him and thinks hes bad and stuff.. but whenever his around me hes really sweet my friend just says .. Oh he just wants a piece of ass and all this other stuff.. and i think my friends parents are itimated that he can drive ( because he drives me places). Were not going out by the way but everyone thinks we are becuz we act like it. hes a drinker too =/ liike he has this rep that he always goes to parties and gets drunk and throws up everywhere ! .. so yea =/ what should i do? should i stick with him.. i mean i like him but my friends hate him =/ PLEASE HELP

well it seems like this guy here is a party animal. 14 and 16 is a BIG difference in maturity level. He wants sex while you wanna cuddle and kiss at the movies. if thats the case i agree w/ your friends this situation could turn ugly especially if he's violent when he's drunk i hope your not driving w/ him while he's like that. i hope you make the right decision, i can tell you and your friends can tell you how you should continue this but in the end its up to you and only you. i hope i've helped and up date me, i want to know how this turns out.
-cassie

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Ok, the guy i like is like 5 feet. give or take a few inches. And i'm like 5 8. It's a HUGE height difference, and idc about looks, but i dont want ppl making fun of him b/c he's going out with a giant or make fun of me for going out with a midget. We're both in 7th grade. I think i should just continue liking him. I think i have a good chance with him. What do u think?

If you like him and he likes you thats all that should matter. You shouldn't care whay other people think about you two. so GO FOR IT GIRL!
-cassie

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My friend is going out w/ this boy. When he asked her out, he said that he didn't want to tell anyone. I'm the only one they told. His friends tease him because they hang out so much. She's starting to think that he won't tell anyone because he's embarresed of her. What do you think? If it's just because he doesn't know how to stand up to his friends, do you have any advice?

Did you ever think that his friends are just jelious of him? Another thing to think about is what kind of guy is he? If he could be the "player" type then maybe thats not his only gf. but i wouldn't jump to conclusions. and if your friend isn't happy with the way he's treating her then maybe she should talk to him about it. maybe he doesnt know that it bothers her. and if that doesnt work then maybe your friend should consider a break-up. remenber that your the prize to be won not him! i hope my advise helps update me on the results.
-cassie

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Hey, I'm sorry if this grosses you out but it's just something that happens and I'm wondering if there is a reason why. Well I usually don't go #2 a lot, like people tell me you're supposed to go everyday but I only go like once a week sometimes longer, and it's not like I don't eat because I eat a lot and I don't gain any weight either, I'm 14 and weigh 100 pounds. So I'm wondering if that's normal or what I should do or any advice about that.

Thank you, I rate well.

well sience you dont eat healthy that probably means you dont eat alot of fiber. Fiber is what helps you go #2. Fiber is in alot of wheat products like oat meal. So try that and if that doesnt help you might want to ask your doctor.
-cassie

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i am the girl that said she was anarexic for six months and was 5'8 and 13 years old... i now weigh 120 pounds cuz i checked into a hospital and they made me gain ALOT of weight... is 120 to fat for a 5'8 13 yr old? my doctor said that that is how much im suppost to weigh since im so tall... but is that still to much?

no way! tall girls (and boys) tend to weigh more because of their height. trust me your not fat and you should love your body the way it is. no one has a perfect body, i know i dont! i hope i've helped you.
-cassie

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how do you kno when u need the next bra size up?
[wheneva a bend down i "fall" out, does that mean i needa new size?]

it depends on what kind of bra you have. if its ment to be low you might just need to tighten it. but in most cases you shouldn't be "falling out"
-cassie

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Hey guys. I'm 14 and I am dying to see the movie Thirteen. I've read the script and I've seen almost every clip there is to see on the internet! The movie is rated R though. I'm pretty sure I can convince my mom to let me see it, but she'd want to see it too.. and the movie has parts where Tracey cuts herself. I cut myself also, and I do not want her to catch on about my self injuries until I'm ready to tell her. Any ideas on what I should do?

i've seen the movie and in the end her mom finds out. i think it would be a whole lot easier if u tell her yourself. i'm not saying right away but when your ready. as you probably know cutting is a very serious problem and you shouldn't keep doing it. i think u should really tell your mom as soon as possible. i hope i've helped you, and good luck

- cassie

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