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My friend is going out w/ this boy. When he asked her out, he said that he didn't want to tell anyone. I'm the only one they told. His friends tease him because they hang out so much. She's starting to think that he won't tell anyone because he's embarresed of her. What do you think? If it's just because he doesn't know how to stand up to his friends, do you have any advice?
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Well she said she did not want anyone to know. Maybe he is just being loyal and doing what she says by not telling anyone. I dont think he is embarresed. I think he is just doing what she told him to do.
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Did you ever think that his friends are just jelious of him? Another thing to think about is what kind of guy is he? If he could be the "player" type then maybe thats not his only gf. but i wouldn't jump to conclusions. and if your friend isn't happy with the way he's treating her then maybe she should talk to him about it. maybe he doesnt know that it bothers her. and if that doesnt work then maybe your friend should consider a break-up. remenber that your the prize to be won not him! i hope my advise helps update me on the results.
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I'm not saying that this is the reason for him not coming out about their relationship, but he might not want to tell anyone that they are dating because he might be with another girl also and doesn't want anyone to know that he's a cheater. I'm speaking from experience so I know how it feels to have a guy say that they don't want anyone to know about it and I end up finding out that he's going out with someone else and didn't want the other girl to know he was cheating on her with me and vise versa. I think you should talk to the guy and ask him why he doen't want anyone to know about them. Maybe he has a good reason for not wanting anyone to know. But you can never be too sure. Hope I have been of some help. ~Candy the Wiccan
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One reason why he does that is because he might not be aloud to date so he's doing it secretive. Also maybe he wants to wait a little until it gets told to everyone so they can have a better relationship without interuptions. Thats really nice that your looking out for your friend.
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i think he should tell them straight up...who cares what they say...its his disicion(i cant spell).Thats all i can say, i dont know what else to tell u, hope i helped a lil
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I think that when a guy goes out with a girl, and says dont tell anyone..thats heading for trouble. Yes, they may like eachother. But if he likes her so much then why wont he tell other people??? HONESTLY! there isnt ever a good reason. Tell your friend to ask him, dont be shy about it. Just like he shouldnt be. Stand up to his friends, be tough..and just tell them off. Tell them to mind their own business..or i bet you couldnt get a girl so shut up. Just show them up..make your voice count, its the only one you got.
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he shouldn't care so much what his friends think/say, but obviously he does or he wouldn't be so afraid to tell them about her. if it is just that he's chicken, he just needs to let his friends know that he likes your friend, that they're dating, and that their (his friends) opinions don't mean diddly when it comes to their relationship.
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if he really like this girl then he should not be embarresed of her, he should be proud of them being together
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He shouldn't be embarresed, if he is then he shouldnt be going out with her. If his friends make fun of him then they r not his real friends. Hope i helped!
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well..i would say this boy def. does not know how to handle, treat, or be with a girl. if you are with somebody, you should be proud of it and tell as many people as you can. obviouslly he just wants to see what he can and if he can get somethin out of her. dont let him get to her! why would you go out with somebody you dont want anybody to know about? hmm..tell her to dump him before she gets hurt and embarass him and front of his friends! *Bethers*
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I think he's embarrassed to be seen with your friend... if I were your friend, I would break up with him.
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noooo. biatch.
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Tell her to ask him about it. It sounds like he is embarrassed of her, which isn't right. He shouldn't be embarrassed that he likes someone and asked them out. Well, the only way you can find out the truth is to talk to him. Good luck
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casey
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