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dance comin ..... help!
ok i just broke up with my boyfrend like last monday... well theres a dance comin up next friday... n ithink he still likes me but he likes another girl named caroline and he already asked her oout n everything like 2 days afta he dumped me!! but she said no.. ne ways.. hes obveously gonna dance with caroline but if he asks to dance with her but if he asks to dance with me.. should i? wat if he trys to kiss me or something? i need help! i still hav a small microscopic crush on him (the reason he dumped me was because he didnt want to get sick of me n then when we really had to break up tht he neva would talk to me again) n the girl he likes is so much bossyer like she tells him wat to wear n how to style his hair... i neva did tht!!! wat do i do!?!?
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WELL THIS GURL SOUNDS MEAN AND IM SURE HE IS JUST KEEPING HIS OPTIONS OPEN. LIKE OKAY PUT IT THIS WAY THIS GUY THAT REALLY LIKES ME KISSED ME BUT THEN MY DAD FOUND US KISSING AND WE GOT INTO TROUBLE. WELL I KNOW HE LIKES ME BECAUSE HE ADMITED TO IT BUT WE ARE KINDA DATING OTHER PEOPLE SO THAT WHEN WE GET OLDER WE CAN GET TOGETHER SO WE ARE TRYING NOT TO GET SICK OF EACHOTHER AND JUST BEING FRIENDS FOR NOW SO THATS THE SAME WAY AS YOUR PROBLEM. JUST GO OUT WITH ANOTHER GUY FOR NOW AND SEE HOW HE REACTS. THEN IF HE ASKS YOU TO DANCE WITH HIM THEN YOU NEED TO SAY YES AND IF HE TRYS TO KISS YOU JUST DO WHAT FEELS RIGHT TO YOU.DROP ME A LINE AND TELL ME HOW IT GOES!!!!
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Umm hon, i think u like him more then u lt on. cuz ur sed he likes sum1 else so obviously he doesnt like u . even if u wish he likes u he doesnt *:.Natalie
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Nah, let it go. The guy sounds kind of jerky, anyway--I mean, his reason for breaking up with you was that he "didn't want to get sick of you"? Not to be cruel, but what a load of BS that is. You obviously have more than a "microscopic" crush on him, or I suspect you wouldn't be asking this question in the first place...but listen. Go to the dance, meet some new guys, HAVE FUN. It'll burn out, so just don't worry about him!
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Well the same thing happend to my friend. her old bf said she was to bossy and then asked sumone else out. she was really crushed but i told her the same thing i'm gonna tell you, guys aren't worth crying over yeah your gonna feel bad for a while but that will pass. remember your the prize to be won! so move on it might be hard at 1st but then u'll relize that he's not worth it and who knoz someone else might be crushin on u! good luck!
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hmm... well i can understand both yours and his sides... i say you should just leave it to him. yes, you're gonna get jealous, especially when you see him with another girl, but thats totally normal. well at least for you and me. i've felt like that before. i broke up with my boyfriend and then two days later i'd get jealous that he was flirting with another girl, but its life. lol, you're gonna feel that way. but if you stop liking him in like 2 weeks, then its good. i know how you feel, but just let him make the first move. if he asks you to dance, then dance. i mean, come on, why not? (especially since you still kinda like him) and if he kiss you, then well go for it, i mean, that is if you like him =), but afterwards talk to him and see if anything is gonna happen between you guys. and ask him about caroline, maybe he's over her, but whatever happens, don't go after him, let him come after you cause guys are asses like that, when they see that you like them, they can use you, mess with your head, play you ...all sorts of things. do what you feel you should do, good luck with everything!!! i hope i helped! have fun at the dance!! =) ! tell me how it goes ! ! ! ! ! ! ! * xox - angie *
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Ohhh... you should definately play "hard-to-get-" with him!! Make him drool over you! Act like you dont even care he's around and flirt alot when he's around. I'm sure you still like the kid and im sure he likes you, too. But don't act like it around him. Just act like you don't care cuz then he'll think "damnit!! I want to talk to her!!" and he'll come back for ya :) I'm sure you're a waaaay better g/f than that other chick!
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If he asks you to dance, just dance with him! It's alright to dance with friends! Just make sure if you don't like him like that, you tell him. Just so he knows. Say something like "I'll dance with you, but I want you to know that..I only want to be friends with you. Is that okay?" He'll probably say yes, because he still likes you. Just do it, don't make him feel bad :( But don't kiss him or anything, if that's not how you feel. Good luck :)
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Well if you ask me this guy sounds like a total jerk. He broke up with you for a stupid reason. I dont mean to be so harsh but just from hearing the reason why he broke up with you makes me think he never liked you in the first place. I know you dont want to hear this but its just the truth. So dont dance with him/hook up/even talk to him bcuz hes just using you to get some and you dont wanna get sucked back into his little games..sure he may seem like Prince Charming but believe me..forget him and move on..any boy that breaks up with his girl and asks another out 2 days later is just an ass. Hope I helped!
Ciara
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If it were me i would get a way hotter guy to go to the dance with to make him like soo extremely jealous..but hey thats me !! Or..u could just like ask him to dance and tell him how u feel while ur dancing good luck gurlie !
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