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Hey im 14 and this guy is 16 .. Soo we hang out all the time but my BEST friend hates him and thinks hes bad and stuff.. but whenever his around me hes really sweet my friend just says .. Oh he just wants a piece of ass and all this other stuff.. and i think my friends parents are itimated that he can drive ( because he drives me places). Were not going out by the way but everyone thinks we are becuz we act like it. hes a drinker too =/ liike he has this rep that he always goes to parties and gets drunk and throws up everywhere ! .. so yea =/ what should i do? should i stick with him.. i mean i like him but my friends hate him =/ PLEASE HELP
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I think you should stick with your other friends. I dont mean to judge or anything but this guy sounds a little too old, and i dont think its cool that he drinks. With his rep., you might get a bad rep., if people think you are going out with this guy. And again, i dont mean to judge.
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i don't know what to do in a situation like yours it sounds like a self stuggle you really have to dicide for yourself
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i am thinking your friend wants him..but I could be wrong..again..i would sit them both down and say hey you are my freind and you are my b/f..i care for you both..but you have to get along. If you both care for me..you will tolerate each other when we are all together.
Alos..your g/f CANNOT say anything bad to you..that is not fair..she needs to keep her thoughts to herself.
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well it seems like this guy here is a party animal. 14 and 16 is a BIG difference in maturity level. He wants sex while you wanna cuddle and kiss at the movies. if thats the case i agree w/ your friends this situation could turn ugly especially if he's violent when he's drunk i hope your not driving w/ him while he's like that. i hope you make the right decision, i can tell you and your friends can tell you how you should continue this but in the end its up to you and only you. i hope i've helped and up date me, i want to know how this turns out.
-cassie
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You can still be friends with him... you can help him with his drinking problem as well, and support him when he gets help...
Or you can see less of him. Put more limits...and keep an eye on him if he really does want a piece of your ass and whenever you are alone with him WHILE he is drunk.
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ok heres what i think. Friends are forever, but most of the time, at your age, guys are just temporary. So, stick with your friend and tell the guy to get drug help. drinking like that when your only 16 isnt a good influence for you.
Hope I helped!
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love can blind us...it sounds like this guy likes you ..but you never know if when he is drunk one night and he may try to take you somewhere and make a move.....your friend is trying to look out for you! if he has done anything bad to any of his previos girlfriends i would be VERY careful! GOOD LUCK
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*emily*
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Its obvious he's in it for the rep. If you want to move up the "social latter" go for it. If you don't care about your virginity, go for it.
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Talk to your friend about it. Maybe she knows something you don't know or see. And I don't really see what her parent's have to do with what she thinks, but yeah just talk to her.
Good luck!!
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WELL..u should talk to him about it nd ask him if it'z tru nd stuff...if i were u i would get to kno him better to see if he'z reali lyk tht cuz alotta pplz talk $h*t about tht kinda stuff nd if UR FRIEND'Z PARENT'Z dont lyk tht he can drive tht'z 2 bad 4 them..i mean there not YOUR parent'z nd bedside'z they could be wrong about him..u shouldnt listen 2 evryting evrywun sez..u should get 2 kno him betta nd see if it'z tru nd if it iz then u should talk 2 him about it.
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i think that if hes nice around u, u shood hang w/ him! im 13 n i talk to a 16 yr old all the time! were not as close as u n ur friend r but hey! i think that u shood def talk to him about his drinking habits! u dont want to end up gettin in his car w/ himw en hes drunk n like get in an accident! but tell ur freinds how he is! maybe u cood all hang out sumtime so they cood get to no him!
briana
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you are not always gonna make everybody happy. so if you want to go out with him, go ahead. your friends will get over it. if it works good, if it dont...forget him. i mean i think your friend is jelous because he drives you places and you spend time with him instead of giving all your attention to your friend. just tell em to get over it and if they dont like it too bad. tell her to go find her a boyfriend and get out of your face. :) *Bethers*
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Sometimes when you become really interested in a person, you fail to see his flaws..But the people around you who love you, like your friends, seem to ALWAYS catch that persons flaws..which is such a great thing because they are only looking out for you and only want the best. If your friend/s thought this guy was a pretty decent guy to date who had flaws, obviously, because no1 is perfect, then they would encourage you to date him and to try something new. But in this case, they really dont like him at all,which says a lot. You really gotta think about the ups and downs in this guy. If he drinks and parties and even has a rep, then smoking and taking drugs Im sure are something else that he has probably tried also. I would think about it again if this guy is really for you. Remember, the people you love only want the best for you. And since they dont like him, he is obviously not the best and may even be a bad addition to your life..:-/
love kristin
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well some times you have to just listen to your heart on what to do, but some times you also have to listen to what your friends say because some times they know whats best for you. but im sure you will make the right decision
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