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Makin' The Move.... Again


Question Posted Saturday November 13 2004, 9:52 pm

What should I ask first?

a)screen name
b)cell number

Shes kinda, quiet. How do I get her to open up a bit? We both play guitar... I dont know if that owuld hlpe at all.


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carmextHiEF answered Sunday November 14 2004, 9:08 pm:
i would say screen name if she is quiet. i'm very shy. i started talking to my boyfriend online before we started hanging out. i was more comfortable that way. i don't feel comfortable talking on the phone with a guy until i know him a little better.

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LoLo2454 answered Sunday November 14 2004, 8:33 pm:
awwwww...well in order to get one of them just start a convo about guitars and stuff like that and what songs you can play or w/e. Then when you/she has to leave, ask for her screen name AND her cell number. Thats what most people do. Hope i helped, and good luck! ;)

~*~*~Ren~*~*~

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EllenBy92 answered Sunday November 14 2004, 8:32 pm:
definately get her sn first because that way you can talk and she might not be as shy. talking over the internet is way easier then talking on the phone. The fact that you both play guitar is awesome because that will give you sumthing to talk about. After getting to know her better online, feel free to ask her for her number when the time is rite.

~EllenBy92~

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DancinChica7 answered Sunday November 14 2004, 7:31 pm:
thats awesome that you have stuff in common if she's the shy type start off slow like just talking in school or where ever you see her the ask for her screen name and gradually work up to cell # you dont wanna scare her off.
-cassie

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redhotchiki answered Sunday November 14 2004, 7:19 pm:
im 13f n id ask for her sn first then while ur tlkn to her online and uve gotten to kno her bettr then ask for her number so then there wont b any akward silences or anythin like that

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Jason38X answered Sunday November 14 2004, 2:33 pm:
ask for her cell cause if you ask for her screen name it will make you sound like a computer NERD

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tkd_shorty answered Sunday November 14 2004, 1:16 pm:
ask her sn and then when she finds out more about you ..and the guitar playing..and things you have in common..i'm sure shell give you her number..soon..or you can..
hope i helpd..
tkd_shorty

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RaineyDaze answered Sunday November 14 2004, 12:02 pm:
If she's shy, then you should probably ask for her screenname first, it's less pressure for a shy girl.
You both play guitar, so start talking to her about that. Once she opens up a bit and she can consider you a friend, ask for her number. Since she's shy, it would help a lot if she could talk to you first, so dont just ask her out right away. Give her time and let her know she can trust you.

Good luck, I hope everything works out for you.

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wildchild6134 answered Sunday November 14 2004, 10:08 am:
screen name

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Ryan_10 answered Sunday November 14 2004, 8:35 am:
i dont know about your gf, but first when i waz at home my gf called me to say hi and thats it. lolz this was the only to words she said " hey Ryan" and then there was a puase lolz. I would go wit the sn becuase i dont think u want that puase on the phone lolz, hope i helped

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S_C answered Sunday November 14 2004, 8:13 am:
in my opinion, the screen name. That way you can talk to her on IM, get to know her a bit more through that. Then eventually, it'll come up where she'll give you her cell #. Just be patient. But yea, the screen name would be a better choice.

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MrNeWyOrK answered Sunday November 14 2004, 7:39 am:
Ask her for the sn first cuz she wont be as shy when she talks to you
cya
*Mr.NeWyOrK*

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AgGiEcUtIe771 answered Sunday November 14 2004, 1:09 am:
Hey,
If she is more of a quiet person, maybe she'll be more comfortable talking via internet. Soon, she'll feel more comfortable talking to you and soon enogh you'll have her number and things will run smoothly.
Hope all goes well
AggieCutie

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ShytHappenz answered Sunday November 14 2004, 1:05 am:
S/N..then you can talk to her more and find out her interests :) And from there you can determine if you really like her or not. Good luck! :)

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mob-boss answered Sunday November 14 2004, 12:22 am:
ask her for both she'll open up soon

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XoMiSSGuCCiOX answered Saturday November 13 2004, 11:46 pm:
i think you should go for the screen name first because if shes shy she might be afraid to speak on the phone with someone she dosent know that well..chat with her for a couple of days then ask her out to the movies or mall thennnn ask for her number =) hope i helped!!

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gUeSsHoO278 answered Saturday November 13 2004, 11:28 pm:
I think screenname because then you can get to know her better online....and den u can ask her for her number...by then you'll already know if shes into u or not ...good luk

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xXaLiCiAXx answered Saturday November 13 2004, 11:11 pm:
i say maybe get her screenname first if shes quiet bc that'll get her used to u and then be like after a while "hey can i have ur cell phone number?" and then move on from there

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jewishqt answered Saturday November 13 2004, 11:10 pm:
try screen name first its more of a friendly gesture

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xolilabbs214ox answered Saturday November 13 2004, 11:08 pm:
screename. b/c then after talking to her you can ask her for her number so u can textt message her!! hope i helped
XoXo abbey XoXo

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superstar10 answered Saturday November 13 2004, 11:04 pm:
this situation sounds familar...id say screen name first and then later on the cell number..if u need anymore help just let me know!

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PerkyPeacock answered Saturday November 13 2004, 11:00 pm:
screen name is easier sometimes for shy people, i guess it's because it provides a little bit of anonymity. i know i've said things over im that i've yet to say in person. once y'all get a bit more comfortable talking to her, then try getting her cell.


just chat with the girl, i'm sure it'll work out wonderfully. best of luck!

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A-reynolds-C answered Saturday November 13 2004, 10:59 pm:
Screename! And then once you get to know by talking to her online then ask for her cell-phone number!
I hope this helps!!
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