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Age: 13
Member Since: November 14, 2004
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I have a friend, sarah, and she has a boyfriend, john that I'm good friends with. Suddenly though, shes using me because her parents wont let her see john! i became some sort of lifeline, i call and she tells me what to say to john, she can be demanding, and im so f'ing sick of her shit. Should i ditch her? and also, i'm one of her only friends, people talk abotu her behind her back and stuff. keep her or lose her? any tips on making new friends? also, i dont want to end my friendship with john, he hanst doen anything wrong, but im sick of being used by sarah

thank you in advance, I'll rate you all

~Allysa (link)
if she is a good friend, you should tell her whars going on and she should understand. if she doesn't , thhen give her time. if you want ot make a new friend, then just be yourself.


I've become pretty good friends with this guy and he's recently been dumped by his girlfriend of two months. Things had been deteriorating for a while but he still liked her. He's kinda into 2 of my best friends but still flirts with me too. One friend doesnt like him and shes gonna say no to him if he asks her out. The other friend wants to her him out but doesnt wanna hurt my feelings. I've been working up the courage to ask him out as well but I'm really confused. The friend who wants to ask him out doesnt really like him but theyre best friends and I really think theyd ggo kinda far. With me, I think he'd say yes but I am not sure and thats kinda being retarded, and I dont wanna be afraid of anything like that as I learned from the last relationship I was in. I dont wanna hurt my friends' feelings either but she wont give me an answer whether its okay to ask him out or not. I really like him and feel happier than Ive been in months when Im with him and he seems pretty happy too =/ Thank you =( (link)
work smething out with your friend so neither of you get hurt


Today I was sitting in class and I just picked up this needle thing and started running it up and down my arm. I don't know why but then I started scratching myself with it really badly so that I had marks all over my arm. After school, my boyfriend saw but he made a joke of it. I think I did it because I want attention because my parents don't really give me any. I was really upset that my boyfriend didn't care, does it show that he doesn't care about me? Everybody that saw what I had done just ignored me. (link)
odnt pick up things that you dont no what they are. i sure you boyfrien loves you . he was kidding . go to a doctor if it get worst .p.s. your parents love you , dont worry


HeY..
This week it started getting freakin cold in texas *where i live*. And my skin freaked out, it has these spots where it's dry i guess but it looks like my skin's peeling. Ha ok it doesn't look as bad as that sounded, it's really not noticable but it is in my magnifying mirror! Ne ideas of what i can use to make it go away, or not show temporarily? Foundation just makes it look worse! (link)
use cream go to a skin doctor bundle up


Okay, I'll put it to you this way: I'm OBSESSED with mashed potatoes. I make them all the time when I come home from school. I normally eat them plain or with corn. I need to mix it up a bit. Does anyone have any thing I could put in them to make them good? Anything will be good for me. I eat anything pretty much, especially mashed potatoes. Heh. Anyway, if anyone has any ideas as to how to spice up my mashed potatoes, that'd be great! Thanks if you can help! (link)
ketchupt, pepper, salt, whater ever you want


Where can i get really cute Xanga layouts?? (link)
I don't

know


ok just started wrestling and im a grl. .but umm i get body slammded all the time and my neck hurts soo bad does anyone no how i can get the pain to go away faster?? (link)
ice your neck. take a hot shower. move your neck. get a heat pack


at my school there a girl who everyone likes and a boy who everyone likes..how do i make myself like that girl so the guys like me? (link)
you should'nt try to like tjis girls just because every body dose be an unique person and follow the beat of your drummer.


I need help getting my toe touch. I just can't get it high enough. I stretch everyday and still not progress. People tell me to "roll my hips" but I dont know what they mean. Help! (link)
just keep practicing with ur flexibility.it mite take a little while but ull get it eventually


Hey Guys,
Last weekend i went to the movies with my boyfriend. We planned to kiss and make out and all that good stuff. When that moment came up i panicked because it was my first time. After that day i could think of nothing but him and that moment. Now all i want to do is make out with him or at least talk to him about it. I am also afraid that i dont know exactly how to make out with some one. Plz give me tips and should i talk to him?????
HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
dont worry i have the same problem i hanent had a bf fer a while nd ive nvr even kissed anyone n im afraid i don kno how, yu should definetly talk to him again so then hell know that u do like him you just kinda panicked


Im a 13 year old girl. I really like this guy but the only problem is that hes kinda popular and im scared that it would be embarassing if i asked him out and he turned me down. Can you tell me what i should do? Should i flirt with him...or not? (link)
well if u want him to like you then you should flirt with him, it shouldnt mattr if hes popular or not just do wat ud do if he wasnt popular to him to like u


What should I ask first?

a)screen name
b)cell number

Shes kinda, quiet. How do I get her to open up a bit? We both play guitar... I dont know if that owuld hlpe at all. (link)
im 13f n id ask for her sn first then while ur tlkn to her online and uve gotten to kno her bettr then ask for her number so then there wont b any akward silences or anythin like that


Ok: so i love scary movies... spook houses, and doing the ouiji board. I live down in the basement all alone and after seeing freaky movies... like Saw I can't sleep. I think that there in my basement gonna come kill me.. and even though I'm 16... i still sleep with my t.v. on all night... even though I can't stand a speck of light in the night i LOVE watchinng scary movies... but i get so scared I sometimes cry! What can I do? (link)
dont watch them anymore if they scare u so much. if u rlly rlly hafta tho then watch somthing aftr you watch the scary movie like mean girls or sumthin thats not scary and is funny


i am the girl that said she was anarexic for six months and was 5'8 and 13 years old... i now weigh 120 pounds cuz i checked into a hospital and they made me gain ALOT of weight... is 120 to fat for a 5'8 13 yr old? my doctor said that that is how much im suppost to weigh since im so tall... but is that still to much? (link)
yea you arent overwight at all,bsides even if u r a little overwieght its bettr then being super super thin cz that just looks scary




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