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Brokenhearted
I've become pretty good friends with this guy and he's recently been dumped by his girlfriend of two months. Things had been deteriorating for a while but he still liked her. He's kinda into 2 of my best friends but still flirts with me too. One friend doesnt like him and shes gonna say no to him if he asks her out. The other friend wants to her him out but doesnt wanna hurt my feelings. I've been working up the courage to ask him out as well but I'm really confused. The friend who wants to ask him out doesnt really like him but theyre best friends and I really think theyd ggo kinda far. With me, I think he'd say yes but I am not sure and thats kinda being retarded, and I dont wanna be afraid of anything like that as I learned from the last relationship I was in. I dont wanna hurt my friends' feelings either but she wont give me an answer whether its okay to ask him out or not. I really like him and feel happier than Ive been in months when Im with him and he seems pretty happy too =/ Thank you =(
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work smething out with your friend so neither of you get hurt
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ask him out! more likly chances he''ll say yes!!! xO-kT!
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Here's what I think... Give him some time. If he's been dumped and you say he still liked her, he's probably hurt. Talk with him, and flirt a little bit more than usual. If he responds well, tell him how u feel before jumping into it and asking him out. Also ask him how he feels about u. You dont want to get into a relationship where you don't know where his feelings are at. A boyfriend liking your friends isn't anything good either. Bad bad road to start on. But anyways, just tell him how u feel to start with. Hope I helped you. -Jor*
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All i can is you cant explan love when it hits it hits like a brick it a feelin you get where it feel that things couldnt feel any better and when ur in love all u wanna do is be with that person and u cant stop thinking about him all i can say if true love is tha best gift so once u get it dont let it go!!
Blayre
Ps: your never to young to be in love soo no matter whut people tell u go with your heart bc you'll kno when u r!
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Ask him out! i know your friend likes him but if she did not ask him out yet, then you go for it. You dont have to wait for a yes or no if you can ask a boy out. Ask him out, im sure it will work.
good luck.!
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of you think you two have some type of connection then ask him out. if he says no then it was worth a shot. and as for your friend if she wont give you a straight answer, it may be because she doesnt want to tell you no to hurt your feelings and come off as being obsessive over him and she may not want to tell you yes because she likes him and sees something about the two of them being together. So she doesnt know what to tell you to do. Did you ever thing she hasnt answewred you because she just maybe doesnt want you too and that she doesnt know how. That is a possibility amoung many others. So good luck.
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You sound like an awesome person, u really do. I mean compared to other girls questions who say like, "my friend and I like the same guy but I want him to like me not her!" n stuff like that i mean they sound really immature. I think that you have a lot going for you with this guy. The thing is though, its kinda like he gets to choose which girl he wants to date you know? And you want to be the one choosing who youre going to date. If I were you, I would kinda baCk off..I know that wOuld suCk, but you dont want to be just another girl trying to get with him you know? Or, if you dont want to do that, try and become like best friends with him. Like let him tell you his problems, etc, and try and help him out n stuff, and just get to be really close with him. Then I really think he would start to like YOU and he would ask you out you know what I mean?? I hope this somewhat helped..
love kristin
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well i think you shouldn't keep waiting because if you don't gather the courage to ask him out.some other girl will ask him out before you and he might say yes.so i think you should give it a try or you will never know if he would say yes or no i really hope i have helped you with your question
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Never doubt yourself when u think something think it positive plus ppl say that if you think the'll work out u have a better chance. if u are still scared bout the other friend ask him wut he thinks bout dat friend. then ask ur freind 2 do the same 4 u
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