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Am I prude
Hey Guys,
Last weekend i went to the movies with my boyfriend. We planned to kiss and make out and all that good stuff. When that moment came up i panicked because it was my first time. After that day i could think of nothing but him and that moment. Now all i want to do is make out with him or at least talk to him about it. I am also afraid that i dont know exactly how to make out with some one. Plz give me tips and should i talk to him?????
HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Ok thats normal!! i remeber my first time whoo was i scared!! But now your just regreting it and thats okay. The time must have no been rite becos you would have done it if it was !! I think you should definitly talk to him tell him you were scared and youd like to give it another try.
TiPS: the only thing really too it is to just move your tounge around in his mouth ..and if your ready ..let him touch your boobs and stuff...sit on his lap to make it really in the mood
if your the shy type make him do the stuff have his arm around you and things like that
hope i helped
x3 spiCy x0 hoTt
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Your not a prude, you're normal. Just tell him how you feel and that it's your first time and then just jump on him and french him... he'll be so suprised that if you do it badly he won't care. lol... don't stress. :)
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the best help u can get from anyone is to go talk to him. and when u kiss him it will come naturally. and no ur not prude. it was going to be ur first kiss so u were scared nothing terrible. just be urself and be honest wid him.
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Whats the big deal... just kiss him.
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Well first of all if you cant talk to your boy freind about sexual things then you shouldnt being doing things wiht him. you need to be able to talk to him about it and tell him what you like and what feels good. Aslo making out is justa natural thing relax and just gow ith the flow you'll never stop after your first time.
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Ohh wow.. lol I was SOO scared my first time too.. but you just gotta let it happen.. EVERYONE knows how to make out.. It's natural.. and I know u've heard that SOO many times and it still scares you n all.. But babe.. ITS SO TRUE.. Just let it flow babay!! haha.. Don't be scared.. that's the worst thing to do.. Just Do It! Like Nike says!! haha.. ;o)
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it's completly natural to panick the first time, especially if you guys had planned it first, because then you're going to be thinking about it all the time. the best way to do it is let him make the move, and then just follow along. making out is easy. all you have to do is open your mouth a little, and follow his moves and you'll be fine! i don't think its necessary for you to talk to him about it, unless you really think you need to. otherwise, just let it go, and don't worry about it! hope this helped, and keep me posted!
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Well thats normal, idk how old u are but I'm 14 and I'm a guy and I still haven't made out with a girl, the ost I've done is just a little peck. I would panic too. Everybody always says just follow the guy, what if the guy doesn't kno. I mean seriously are guys supposed to be born knowing how to kiss? but anyways, my advice to u is just tell him that ur kinda scared that its ur first time. If he's a good b/f he should understand. ask him to give u some help with it. but I have been told it just comes naturally other than that i've had no experience with this here. hope that helped
-Sirna
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if your naked, there is no wrong way to make out.. just a tip i have learned from the many girls i have been with. the ones topless are better
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dont worry i have the same problem i hanent had a bf fer a while nd ive nvr even kissed anyone n im afraid i don kno how, yu should definetly talk to him again so then hell know that u do like him you just kinda panicked
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lol well go somewhere private with him...then just start makin out...uhmm it comes naturally lol just go with wut he duz!
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u shouldnt be nervous you cant learn how to kiss from someone telling you how it was to be from pratice. so go get one of ur close guy friends and be liek cani pratice kissing on u!!
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Yeah, you should talk to him. lol. There is no sense of making out with someone if you can't find yourself comfortable enough to talkto him about it. But tips eh? Well, it's just like kissing .. and that comes naturally. You just keep on kissing. And you can kiss him in other areas too, like the neck, the collar bone the chest. Those are some major hot spots for a guy. Just don't drool. lol. To make sure you don't drool all over him when making out, breath while you kiss him. Also, use your hands as well as your lips. Hug him while you kiss him, rub them down his back, his chest, the inside of his leg. He'll love it. Don't be nervous. It's fun!
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hi well first i think that hmmm i dunno but wit mah first b/f i talked bout it and i told him that it was gonna b my first time kissin him...even though most girls dont do dat b/c they dont want the guy to kno that he is their first for somereason that i dont get to understand...anyways i say talk to him and tell him that u never made out b4 or anything like that and u kinda panic when the moment comes but that u relly wanna kiss him and ur afraid u wont do it rite...but let me tell you girl that when that moment comes you'll do it and there will b no panic and there is no right or wrong in kissing...each and every person got their own way in kissin...the more ppl you kiss more experience you get and the better kisser you become...(i suppose) b/c like i said each and everyone got their style and u learn from each of their style and u kinda mix it sometimes :) if u kno wut i mean ;) dont worry everything will b ok...xoxo effy
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Awww girl! Every single girl out there [not counting the hOeish girls] always feel like that for the first time kisSing!!! What I did when my first kiSs came around, was I made like a big joke outta it and was like, "'jon' i really suCk as kiSsing because .. okay fine ive never kiSsed bEfore.. will you teach me...? =] " and say it in a cutesy way to make him giggle...who knows maybe its his first time kissing too. If it is both of your first kisses, then im sorry to say this but itll SUCK ASS!!! lol, trust me itll suck but like after u 2 practice together for along time u both will like know how to kiss hecka good! but im sure its not his first time, so yaeh just say in a cutesy way whut i said..hope it works out!!
love kristin
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