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Hey everybody. My name is Mark I go to Parma High School, I'm a Sophmore, I get very good grades. I've done ski club for the past 3 years and am planning to do it this year ( I snowboard not ski). I like to go ice skating on fridays with friends (I can't figure skate). I've been interested in helping ppl with problems, and giving ppl advice for a while now. I would someday like to be a pyschologist. I've been through alot of tough stuff in my life, socially. I used to get made fun of all the time non stop, and hated my life. I think this has made me a better person though, because it has made me tougher, and to actually understand ppl with the same prioblem. But that was then, this is now. I've become very self confident, and have realized I make alot more friends that way. So if u have problems with self esteem I can definately help, and help u along the road to being fully self confident. I also have a very good understanding of girls, seeing that most of my friends are girls, so girls i can help u with alot of relationship, and friend problems, actually any problem really. Guys I can also help u too, seeing that I'm a guy. I often find girls asking are there any guys out there that want something other than sex, and that aren't pervs, and that are truly sweet; To be honest girls yes there are guys like that, there aren't many of them but there are some. I am one of those guys, and proud to be that. I have been told by many girls that I'm the sweetest guy they know.

My main goal here is to help ppl with problems, and give advice. Feel free to ask me anything. I am also willing to talk to anyone, if u just want to talk, for any reason, about anything, just im me on Yahoo, MSN, or AIM. If there is anything u don't feel comfortable asking on here u can e-mail me, and i will answer back. I'm looking forward to helping u all. Bye



-Sirna

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Hey...There's a girl I rele like...but I just met her...There's one problem though...She has a b/f...She told me that she rele likes me...and said that when she's around me she doesn't have feelings for her b/f...yet she's still with him...and she still spends time w/ him...idk what to do...sooo..if ya could...then help

well to start, since you've just met her you should wait a little while and get to know her ALOT better first. Nothing worse than rushing into a relationship and not having anything in common then you try to make it work and it never does and..... eh then it gets nasty. So get to know her. if she says she really likes you while she has a b/f and says she has no feelings for him around you, that could mean that she is not too great of a g/f and may do the same to you. Or she could have just done what I told you not to do. Somethign along those lines. And of course she's going to spend time with him still he IS her b/f. but I think just get to know her alot better and see if you still really like her. Then just see where it goes from there. If you need anything else IM me on BurtonXBoarder13, or yahoo phatty6911@yahoo.com, or MSN phatty6911@hotmail.com.


-Sirna

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whats the normal dick size for a 13 year old?

it all depend on the person an average size is about 6 inches, but for a 13 year old... it all depends how fast you mature. and you're 13 you shouldn't be using it yet

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i like this guy and it seems like he likes me. he always flirts with me and stuff (i mean REALLY OBVIOUS flirting) but then i went on myspance and on his webpage was all about his girlfriend and how he loves he and there was a pic of him and her kissing...he wrote that"he wished he could live this way forever". i really like this guy and i dont know if he likes me or if i should even continue to like him. if this is what he does behind his gf's back, what kind of guy is he? help! im 14/f and yes this guy goes to church :(

Well first off, just because this guy goes to church doesn't mean anything. there is a couple different possible things that could be going on here.

First, He may just be flirting for fun, we all know flirting is fun and a lot of people do it for fun. I personally haven't seen this flirting (obviously) but you can probably tell for yourself if its just for fun, or if he's serious.

Second, He may be tired of his girlfriend and looking for a new one... but he feels insecure and wants to make sure he can have another girl after he breaks up with his. Therefore he flirts with you, to see if you like him back. Then he knows that he could have you when he breaks up with his girlfriend. The part about his girlfriend thing on myspace he might just have that up there just so its unexpected, just trying to make it seem like he still likes her.

Third, He is a jerk and he's just flirting because he thinks he's a pimp (lol only word I could think of). so he just flirts with anyone and isn't truly loyal to his girlfriend. Which would obviously make him a bad choice for you.

My personal opinion here... I know everyone will tell you to do this and you'll probably be shy to do this.(I know I always am). but just ask the guy just randomly ask out of nowhere just say hey do you like me? if he says no and you don't want to be embarassed then just make a story and just say eh didn't think so. but my friend just said you did but I thought she was joking. soemthing like that.

I know a lot of people will tell you this as well. But this is coming from another 14 year old here. Being in a relationship isn't the greatest. they usually don't last long, and really you're young ust have fun with a bunch of people. don't devote urself to 1 person yet. being single is a whole lot more fun. If you want to get into a realtionship wait a little while. When every1 is more mature relationships work alot better.

if you need anything, just e-mail me at phatty6911@yahoo.com or on AIM BurtonXBoarder13.

I hope I helped

-Sirna



any reason u chose to ask me for advice... just wondering.

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how do i get better balance and posture?! are there any exercises?!

Just try to sit up staright all the time, and walk staright up, and tall

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Hey Guys,
Last weekend i went to the movies with my boyfriend. We planned to kiss and make out and all that good stuff. When that moment came up i panicked because it was my first time. After that day i could think of nothing but him and that moment. Now all i want to do is make out with him or at least talk to him about it. I am also afraid that i dont know exactly how to make out with some one. Plz give me tips and should i talk to him?????
HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Well thats normal, idk how old u are but I'm 14 and I'm a guy and I still haven't made out with a girl, the ost I've done is just a little peck. I would panic too. Everybody always says just follow the guy, what if the guy doesn't kno. I mean seriously are guys supposed to be born knowing how to kiss? but anyways, my advice to u is just tell him that ur kinda scared that its ur first time. If he's a good b/f he should understand. ask him to give u some help with it. but I have been told it just comes naturally other than that i've had no experience with this here. hope that helped



-Sirna

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This is a very stupid question being a computer person, but does anybody know where quick shutdown options are on windows XP?

u can just use the the keyboard and hit...

the windows key then hit "U" 2ce

they're shortkeys

and for 98 u can just hit windows key "u" "s" enter


-sirna

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This might be a stupid question, but how do you know when you're in love with someone? How does it feel?

Lets see... Love is a very hard topic, it can be different for everyone, but there is one thing that is alike for all people that are in love, and that is love is the greatest feeling in the world. Me personally have never expeirienced love (being only 14), but i know very much about it. Love, as I said, is different for everyone. Usually u just know when your in love, u may not believe when ppl tell u that and u may just think its a load of bull, but when u are in love u will just know. When your in love, and the love is returned, U will never feel alone, it will always feel like u have somebody by your side. Because when your in love there always is someone by your side, and that would be your "lover". If your not sure the love is being returned, such as in a situation where your good friends with someone of the opposite sex (or same sex if u go that way) and u have been friends for a while and u have a very open and close relationship, and u think u are starting to love that person. Some signs to tell if u really are in love are....
1) If u always look for that person in the morning at school and get excited when u finally find them, or just can't wait to talk to that person.
2) You sometimes find yourself getting into conversations about love with that person, and wondering secretly what it would be like to be with that person.
3) The person just so happens to be the main topic of just about everything u talk about.
4) You find that u can usually relate just about anything to the person (usually just so you can get the topic on them)
5) You can't get the person off your mind, and often find yourself thinking about that person, without even trying to.

There are many other signs.... but these are just a few.

Also remember that there is a difference between love and infatuation. and infatuation is just a really big crush, almost an obsession about the person. usually u don't really kno the person that u have an infatuation with.

always remember "You can give love all that u can possibly give, but unless the love is returned it is not true" (I just made that up btw cheesy I know lol)

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well im 13/f n since i was abut hmm 8 or 9 years old i've liked guys n since that way young i've always gotten hurt in someway or another when i was 8 i liked this guy who was like 11 or 12 n now hes 17 or 16 n he hurt me n then so did some other kid whose 15 now n then a bunch of other guys i liked..n now im scared to get hurt again..my heart cant handle it ne more i just want a nice guy but dont wanna get hurt..is that too much to ask??

It's as simple as this... most guys are jerks. Not all but most are. I am one of the ones that isn't a jerk, thank god. but no that is not too much to ask. i think all guys should treat girls with respect. Most of my friends are girls, and i've seen them get hurt by guys, and all i can do is watch, most of my "girlfriends" describe the perfect type of guy for them, and usually that decrption fits me, except for that they want a good looking guy. I like alot of my close g/f's and they have no idea. So what I'm trying to say is that if u have any close guy friends that really care about u, look to them one of them may really like u, and can be your perfect match. as i say love is found in the most unpredictable places.

hope I helped

-Sirna

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there's this guy who i've met at school and we're getting really close. we like eachother but we didnt start dating... yet.

well his parents and grandparents died and he really doesn't have a permenant home, he just goes wherever and is constantly out on his own. he doesn't really have anyone to support him and buy him clothes and stuff

but im afraid if i date him, my parents will not approve because we've always been brought up from good homes and families. it doesnt bother ME at all but my parents always look down upon "poor" people. also, what should i do/say to him? he doesnt know that i know. i feel bad. should i offer anything? help! thanks

Well if u really like him... maybe go out with him. Buy him a nice pair of clothes for, say its for a one week anniversary or sumthin... just make something up. have him put that on. or u can skip getting it for him if he has a nice pair of clothes. But have him put on a nice pair of clothes and introduce him to your parents. See if they like him (but don't tell them he's poor) and if they like him then u could tell them hes poor and they should react ok if they like him. If they accept that ur going out with him then maybe he can move in with u. (after a while of course). and for the part about if you should offer him anything, I'm not sure he might take it as an insult, or he might accept it, it depends on how he is.

hope I helped

-Sirna

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ok well i think im pretty but theres alot of girls in my school that our too and i dont get it when im out of school all the guys i meet think im gorgeous but in school evry 1 doesnt they think im kinda pretty...its relle confusing shuld i base my looks on what guys think or what my friends and family say i relle odnn no ..please dont delete this i need answers..xoxo tessa

No don't base yourself on what anybody thinks... if somebody gives u a compliment accept it, but u have to know (notice I didn't say "think") that you're pretty. Yes everybody is pretty in their own way even if its not physically. But if people say ur pretty u most likely are.

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