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I have a problem with a guy from church!
i like this guy and it seems like he likes me. he always flirts with me and stuff (i mean REALLY OBVIOUS flirting) but then i went on myspance and on his webpage was all about his girlfriend and how he loves he and there was a pic of him and her kissing...he wrote that"he wished he could live this way forever". i really like this guy and i dont know if he likes me or if i should even continue to like him. if this is what he does behind his gf's back, what kind of guy is he? help! im 14/f and yes this guy goes to church :(
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Well first off, just because this guy goes to church doesn't mean anything. there is a couple different possible things that could be going on here.
First, He may just be flirting for fun, we all know flirting is fun and a lot of people do it for fun. I personally haven't seen this flirting (obviously) but you can probably tell for yourself if its just for fun, or if he's serious.
Second, He may be tired of his girlfriend and looking for a new one... but he feels insecure and wants to make sure he can have another girl after he breaks up with his. Therefore he flirts with you, to see if you like him back. Then he knows that he could have you when he breaks up with his girlfriend. The part about his girlfriend thing on myspace he might just have that up there just so its unexpected, just trying to make it seem like he still likes her.
Third, He is a jerk and he's just flirting because he thinks he's a pimp (lol only word I could think of). so he just flirts with anyone and isn't truly loyal to his girlfriend. Which would obviously make him a bad choice for you.
My personal opinion here... I know everyone will tell you to do this and you'll probably be shy to do this.(I know I always am). but just ask the guy just randomly ask out of nowhere just say hey do you like me? if he says no and you don't want to be embarassed then just make a story and just say eh didn't think so. but my friend just said you did but I thought she was joking. soemthing like that.
I know a lot of people will tell you this as well. But this is coming from another 14 year old here. Being in a relationship isn't the greatest. they usually don't last long, and really you're young ust have fun with a bunch of people. don't devote urself to 1 person yet. being single is a whole lot more fun. If you want to get into a realtionship wait a little while. When every1 is more mature relationships work alot better.
if you need anything, just e-mail me at phatty6911@yahoo.com or on AIM BurtonXBoarder13.
I hope I helped
-Sirna
any reason u chose to ask me for advice... just wondering.
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