Phatty6911 answered Wednesday September 29 2004, 10:02 pm: Lets see... Love is a very hard topic, it can be different for everyone, but there is one thing that is alike for all people that are in love, and that is love is the greatest feeling in the world. Me personally have never expeirienced love (being only 14), but i know very much about it. Love, as I said, is different for everyone. Usually u just know when your in love, u may not believe when ppl tell u that and u may just think its a load of bull, but when u are in love u will just know. When your in love, and the love is returned, U will never feel alone, it will always feel like u have somebody by your side. Because when your in love there always is someone by your side, and that would be your "lover". If your not sure the love is being returned, such as in a situation where your good friends with someone of the opposite sex (or same sex if u go that way) and u have been friends for a while and u have a very open and close relationship, and u think u are starting to love that person. Some signs to tell if u really are in love are....
1) If u always look for that person in the morning at school and get excited when u finally find them, or just can't wait to talk to that person.
2) You sometimes find yourself getting into conversations about love with that person, and wondering secretly what it would be like to be with that person.
3) The person just so happens to be the main topic of just about everything u talk about.
4) You find that u can usually relate just about anything to the person (usually just so you can get the topic on them)
5) You can't get the person off your mind, and often find yourself thinking about that person, without even trying to.
There are many other signs.... but these are just a few.
Also remember that there is a difference between love and infatuation. and infatuation is just a really big crush, almost an obsession about the person. usually u don't really kno the person that u have an infatuation with.
always remember "You can give love all that u can possibly give, but unless the love is returned it is not true" (I just made that up btw cheesy I know lol) [ Phatty6911's advice column | Ask Phatty6911 A Question ]
Siren_Cytherea answered Wednesday September 29 2004, 9:55 pm: There are NO stupid questions. The only stupid ones are the ones left unasked. ^_^
Okay, now that I'm done with that shpiel...
Love feels different for everyone. To me, it's kind of a drunk feeling, lol. Now it's more of a calm ecstasy. I've been with my guy for almost 11 months, and his kisses still make me dizzy.
Love for me is when I can picture myself with this guy for the rest of my life. I can picture it with this guy, and I know it's real.
No one can tell you you're in love. You just know it through and through. As cliche as that is, lol, it's true.
Everyone also has different definitions of love. Real love for me is the guy I'm gonna marry/be with for the rest of my life. It might not be that for someone else.
Hope this helped!
-Siren =) [ Siren_Cytherea's advice column | Ask Siren_Cytherea A Question ]
Paige answered Wednesday September 29 2004, 6:12 pm: Hey~I'm not sure that anyone can tell you what love is until you find it yourself. Its just a feeling...you know when you really are. ~Paige~ [ Paige's advice column | Ask Paige A Question ]
xopamxannox answered Wednesday September 29 2004, 5:36 pm: whenever ur around them ur as happy as u can be, u can tell him ne thing u cant keep nethign from him.. its a great feeling, u miss them when there gone even like 10 min.. u cant really explain what it is.. but ull kno if ur in love..hope i helped [ xopamxannox's advice column | Ask xopamxannox A Question ]
penguinxown answered Wednesday September 29 2004, 4:49 pm: x you think about them non-stop
x you think they are the most elegant creature on the fucking planet
x you want to hear their voice, youre just fucking addicted
x you cant even think about anybody else
x they are always in your dream even though they might not be in it, you feel them next to you
x you squeal like a little girl (wait..thats just me)
x you want to do all these stuff for them
x you would DO ANYTHING i mean seriously ANYTHING for them, for example, they ask you IM HUNGRY GO GET ME FOOD, and i would ride on my bike and go all the way to whatever fast food they like and get it for them
x you want to be with 24/7
x if youre like me you would get jelous of all the people that surround that person cause youre like DAMMIT I WANNA BE WITH HIM/HER NOW YOU LUCKY BITCHES
x sometimes you get paranoid
x when you say i love you .. as much as you say it will never add the amount of how much you actually love them
x oh and last of alll..
Hannah answered Wednesday September 29 2004, 4:46 pm: Hey Hey,
You will know when you are in love when you can't picture you life without that someone. When you are around them, you don't have to put on a show or act a certain way but your self and they are cool with it. You have a certain amount of confidence when you're with them and you can't think of anyone but them. Their touch makes you feel like you are walking on the clouds and when you look at them, everyone else disapares. That is how you know when you are in love.
luvya12095 answered Wednesday September 29 2004, 4:24 pm: whem your in love you forget wat the guy/girl looks like! u only think about how nice they r. u can only think about them. then u go crazy and get obsess with them.
Tori_Dori answered Wednesday September 29 2004, 4:22 pm: First of all,your question isn't stupid.My teacher always tells me,"There is no such thing as a stupid question, it's only stupid when you don't ask it." You'll know what love feels like when it happens to you. It's a very special feeling you get perhaps the greatest feeling ever. It seems like you'd die for that person and just think of him/her 24/7. lol, it's hard to tell because most kids think they're in love when it's really just a crush.But yeah~ when you love someone, I think it feels like nothing else in the world matters anymore, just you 'n that person only. Hope I helped!
-tori [ Tori_Dori's advice column | Ask Tori_Dori A Question ]
TucanFullOfHoles answered Wednesday September 29 2004, 4:20 pm: you think about them more times in a day than you think about anything else (in a positive light). when you see them, you are the happiest you've ever been. You're happy when you think you're going to see him/her and you're exctatic afterward. You would die for them (yeah i know thats a movie thing, but its true). You don't know how you'd live with out them in your life. there's nothing you wouldn't do for them in the whole world. With them is the only place you ever want to be. basically, you just want to spend the rest of your life with them.
Christine answered Wednesday September 29 2004, 4:12 pm: ok i can definately help you on this one... i know how it feels to think you're in love with someone. Do you kinda get love sick Like... your stomach gets bubbly and you feel nervous like something is going to happen? Thats what i get when i go around my boyfriend. I feel like i cant live without him and i'd seriously die if i lost him(which almost happened). But youll feel really weird around him/her sometimes and it feels great just being around them.
XxRockon answered Wednesday September 29 2004, 3:36 pm: like, u cant stop thinking about them..and u just wanan see them and talk to them and you just htink they are great and basically cant get them out of your mind lol. [ XxRockon's advice column | Ask XxRockon A Question ]
xXxpinky615xXx answered Wednesday September 29 2004, 3:24 pm: You'll know, i'm sure everyone has told you that but when you're in love with someone you will know. It's the best feeling in the world. It's like nothing matters EVER and you're always happy and can't stop thinking about the other. That's how it felt the first time i fell in love. Greatest feeling in the world... until he broke my heart. You get butterflies in your stomach every time you see them. It's just a REALLY great feeling. Hope this helped.
liddylflirtx3 answered Wednesday September 29 2004, 3:06 pm: Here is what I think:
1.) You get butterflies in your stomach everytime you see them.
2.) When they smile or look at you it just completes your whole day.
3.) You want to spend every free moment with that person.
4.) You can't stop thinking about that person and if you two would have a future together.
I feel like I'm in love with this guy now and this is kind of how I would explain my feelings and I hope I helped you! =)
Mercy_x_Me answered Wednesday September 29 2004, 2:51 pm: you know because its the person you CANNOT live without. You could EASILY see yourself marrying them, and lasting a life time together ,with tons of kids. Lol.. love is more of a marriage thing.. foolin around when your kids is more of a crush thing...
Kandi answered Wednesday September 29 2004, 2:47 pm: you will know that ur inlove with sumone if all u can think bout is him/her n even if this person does tha most awful thing in tha world ta you no matta wut u will still like him/her. you will be happy jus to be around this person n u can be urself but if ur in love u*ll knoe it bc well u*ll jus feel reallii good bein with that person n you dont eva wanna lose them...n jus thinkin bout losin him/her makes you sad [ Kandi's advice column | Ask Kandi A Question ]
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