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OMG all my friends (in my age range ~14~) say its okay and that they dont think its bad to have sex at this age and half of them like, arent virgins!! I just relaized this today but i think having sex at this age is just plain stupid!! Am i weird or crazy? IS it okay to have sex at my age?!!

yeah 14 is a little young...so i deffinatly agree with u.. but u cant change other peoples views on it.. but stick with urs and u will b ok

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i have a Sony Psyche walkman. it's about a year old and it worked great. well just recently the music only started coming out of the left ear. i thought the batteries could be going, so i put new ones in and it's still the same. so whats wrong or how do i fix it? im pissed off cause it was a $50 walkman.

my cd player did this... it could b ur earphones.. so get new earphones and hopefully thats the problem and if not i think theres a warrenty so send it in to the place and hopefully they will replace it for u.. hope i helped

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Why is it that all teenage boys only want sex, sex and sex? Are there any teenage boys, anywhere, that want a serious relationship? It's so hard to even find a half decent guy anymore. Don't guys just ever want to take things slow and want a girl for more than just sex?

not every teenage guy wants just sex.. i kno a lot of guys that want a real relationship and if that happens it happens.. but dont worri u will hopefully find a guy that doesnt just want u for that.. hope i helped

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Okay I asked a question before about boners before. :/ Please dont delete this question, I need some opinions. When a guy gets a boner is his penis supposed to go up or straight. Somone told me its a sign of cancer. :( Is that true? Or does it have something to do with age? Help please!!!!

no its not cancer.. dont worri about it

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If you have sex and the next day you get your period how high or low are your chances of being pregnant? There was no conterceptive used.Please let me know what you think.

if u got ur period ur not pregnant.. so dont worry..

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ther is this boy who i know he keeps asking me out but i dont really like him. he is my friend and i dont want to hurt him. also everyone else makes fun of him and they call him gay. he is really nice but i dont know if i should go out with him what should i do.

um.. just tell him u dotn like him that way.. be honest cause if ur not honest its gonna turn in to a bad situation.. and thats not cool that other people say that just tell them to stop or b like hes a nice guy.. hope i helped

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Hey I am a 15 year old girl. Just today someone was on my boyfriends account telling me that they had phone sex, i didnt believe her at first but then she starting tellin me some stuff that i told him and him only, what should i do.

i would ask ur boyfriend about it.. and hopefully he will b honest about it and tell u the truth... hope i helped

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Alright I'm 15 and my boyfriend is 17. A while back, we were hanging out; and I guess you could say things got a little out of hand. Well, I recently found out that I was pregnant. Today, my friend Amber (who is also pregnant, but not from my boyfriend) pushed me into telling my boyfriend. He didn't freak out, but he was upset. He told me that it'd be too much of a burden to have a baby now, and so he told me he wanted me to get an abortion. I'm very against abortion. I told him this, and he respected my opinion, but still tried to push me in that direction. He also suggested this "safe baby" thing. I don't really want to put my kid up for adoption either, because I can just imagine how much it hurts knowing your parents gave you up. My boyfriend doesn't want to tell his parents either, but he said he will, but you can tell how reluctant he is. He told me he loved me no matter what, but it was too much of a burden. I know he's not going to dump me, but he is afraid to keep it because he's going to college next year nad still trying to figure out his own life. Someone please tell me what I should do.

tell ur parents! or talk to him about it more.. think if ur ready or not to be a mom and if not think of other ways theres abortion (which i think is kinda wrong) and adoption but seeing u said that u didnt wanna do that then u really have to decide if ur family would support u and if ur boyfriend would help support u b.c u cant do it on ur own.. hope i helped

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this girl had liked me for a long time. and i liked her too. we hung out a lot. then one night i asked her out and she said that sh'll think about it and then 3 days later she is goin out with one of myu friends. what should i do?

forget about her.. thats really stupid that she did that.. if she was a good person she could have at least said no to u..hope i helped

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okay here it goes... my friend is goin out with this guy that she really likes and he just is devoted to her (so she tells me). i've heard from his best friend that he is just goin out with her for the looks and poularity that comes along with her. I dont want to hurt her feelings by asking her but i dont want her to get hurt eaither. I dont like him mutch, i mean hes really mean to me and i think she deserves better. What do i do? HELP!!!!

just talk to her and tell her u dont wanna hurt her but this is what u heard.. she can eaither thank u for tellin her or get mad and think that u just dont want her to b happy.. and if u think she deserves better then she proublay does... hope i helped

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This might be a stupid question, but how do you know when you're in love with someone? How does it feel?

whenever ur around them ur as happy as u can be, u can tell him ne thing u cant keep nethign from him.. its a great feeling, u miss them when there gone even like 10 min.. u cant really explain what it is.. but ull kno if ur in love..hope i helped

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well....there is this boy at scool nd he asked me out.....im am very shy so im not so comfortable around boys but i kinda like him but im afraid that im goin to feel weird round him.....plzz help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Signed,
Boy Trouble

if u like him u should go for it... and eventually u will b able to be urself around him...hope i helped

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my best friend Kelleye is like 15 n i try to be there her as much i as i can...i hadn't seen her in like 3days till today (shes been in ISS) well i saw her n i kind of looked down at her arm n saw scares on her the 1st thing i did was grabed her arm n was like wtf is this...n she jst looked at me n left i grabed her n i was like Kelleye are u cutting ur self again...she jst looked at me n she jst walked away from me n i was like Kelleye come here...she wouldn't come back n i'm so scared...cuz i was talking to her ec-boyfriend n we think she might try n kill her self....i'm so scared for her...cuz shes knew to our skool...all her friends go to LHS n she goes to GHS w/ me...n i don't know wat to do...i jst need to know how i can help her?..

talk to her calmly.. if u make her more worried u never know what could happen.. find her help or something thats not good that u think shes tryin to kill herself.. talk to an adult that u trust like ur parents or something they should help.. hope i helped a lil

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hi. there are like 10 guys that want me right now... and its kool n all but if i break up w/ my bf or whatever.. next period someone asks me out and then after that someone else does like if they didnt no that the first person did. i like all of them! they are all soo hott lol but i mean i alwaysssss have a bf and never have a chance to b single and sometimes u just need to b single ya no. i dont want to hurt there feeling or have them not like me anymore.
what should i do?
lol thanx!

i think that u should take time after u broke up with ur boyfriend to just b single and if u really dont want that then find out which one u like the most u cant have all of them.. or u could just tell them u really dont want a boyfriend at the moment.. ive done that b4 and they usually understand.. hope i helped

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