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my best friend Kelleye is like 15 n i try to be there her as much i as i can...i hadn't seen her in like 3days till today (shes been in ISS) well i saw her n i kind of looked down at her arm n saw scares on her the 1st thing i did was grabed her arm n was like wtf is this...n she jst looked at me n left i grabed her n i was like Kelleye are u cutting ur self again...she jst looked at me n she jst walked away from me n i was like Kelleye come here...she wouldn't come back n i'm so scared...cuz i was talking to her ec-boyfriend n we think she might try n kill her self....i'm so scared for her...cuz shes knew to our skool...all her friends go to LHS n she goes to GHS w/ me...n i don't know wat to do...i jst need to know how i can help her?..
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You need to sit your friend down and ask her straight what's going on? It sounds to me that she is cutting herself if she wont say if she is or isnt. If she wasnt then she would say that, right? Maybe you should even talk to her parents and maybe then they can talk to her if she wont talk to you about it. Just try and be there for her as much as you can. She might really need her best friend right now.
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the first thing i would do is talk to her.. tell her how much you care about her and how good of a friend she is..then i would try to spend more time with her if possible..if she keeps cuttin herself or she acts like she is going to kill herself you could always tell someone..not another kid b/c the next thing you know theres rumors going around that your friend is a psyco.. tell an adult..but i would only tell someone if you know something is going to happen! but i would just talk to her and start spending more time with her..hope that helped..
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I know this sounds like something a grown up would say but if worse came to worse tell some one how has power over her, but dont do it unless you really feel loke it needs to be done. But there are things you can do, spend time with her. show what things in life we cant take for granite, help her see what it is like to be happy again.
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talk to her calmly.. if u make her more worried u never know what could happen.. find her help or something thats not good that u think shes tryin to kill herself.. talk to an adult that u trust like ur parents or something they should help.. hope i helped a lil
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u need to just talk to her...obviously she thinks that physical pain is better than emotional. but its not. tell her that whatever is bothering her that she can tell u and u two can work it out instead of her working it out in a dangerous way.good luck...let me no how it goes.
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The best thing that you can do is just help her through hard times and if she doesn't want to talk about somthing, don't force her to. Ask her what's going on, and if everything is okay. I had this happen to me many times. Somthings can go wrong with others. The best thing to do is not make her tell you everything. Just ask simple questions for her to answer without the pain she has.
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well you should talk to her ( if you can about what she's doing to her self). you can also tell her that theres so much to live for and that there are so many peopel that love and care for her. Cause she might feel like theres nothing to live for and when you think that theres nothing to live for whatever anyone says doesn't really matter so i think you should try to talk her out of her perdicament and if that doesn't work tell her parents maybe they can get her some perfessional help.
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American Suicide Foundation (800) 531-4477
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